Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

my dude, listen, u need to fucck this girl first before u start to invest all these paragraphs into her.

You're saying this but you're taking it more serious than I am . Stop reading in to shyt so much

 

[Da King]

I can't believe the money some of you nikkas spend on women without ever getting in them guts

 

[Ohene]

I can't believe the money some of you nikkas spend on women without ever getting in them guts

$10 is a lot of money ? That's the price of a double big Mac combo
Broke ass nikka


And the Spurs ain't getting past my Warriors

 

[RealAssanova]

$10 is a lot of money ? That's the price of a double big Mac combo
Broke ass nikka


And the Spurs ain't getting past my Warriors

are you taking her to dinner?

me personally, regardless of age, i take hoes out to do physical activities and steer clear of the cliche dates. Reason being is cuz with physical activities, it allows me to break the touch barrier immediately and establish comfort and my touch. When that happens, almost 9.9/10 times i'm either making out at the end of the date or smashing. Only 1 time has it failed and its cuz the hoe was weird from the jump (eventhough when i met her at a bar she was all over the kid) and so i cut that date short and dropped her ass back off at yorkdale station.

 

[9piece]

Starbucks or gym outing. I am not spending more than 10-15$ on any woman that's not my main, mom or sister.

 

[Action Mike]

Well, being fair it's only half about the money. I ain't penny pinching, that vibe will come out and she will bush you.

The other half is setting expectations and doing something comfortable. Stick to bars, starbucks etc on a nice evening and your good.

 

[Ohene]

are you taking her to dinner?

me personally, regardless of age, i take hoes out to do physical activities and steer clear of the cliche dates. Reason being is cuz with physical activities, it allows me to break the touch barrier immediately and establish comfort and my touch. When that happens, almost 9.9/10 times i'm either making out at the end of the date or smashing. Only 1 time has it failed and its cuz the hoe was weird from the jump (eventhough when i met her at a bar she was all over the kid) and so i cut that date short and dropped her ass back off at yorkdale station.

Well, being fair it's only half about the money. I ain't penny pinching, that vibe will come out and she will bush you.

The other half is setting expectations and doing something comfortable. Stick to bars, starbucks etc on a nice evening and your good.

I agree. In this situation she goes to school down the street from where I work. She ends class around 4:30, I leave work around 5 so I suggested we grab food after.
Wish I lived in the city though, would damn near be a guaranteed smash after

 

[TRUEST]

are you taking her to dinner?

me personally, regardless of age, i take hoes out to do physical activities and steer clear of the cliche dates. Reason being is cuz with physical activities, it allows me to break the touch barrier immediately and establish comfort and my touch. When that happens, almost 9.9/10 times i'm either making out at the end of the date or smashing. Only 1 time has it failed and its cuz the hoe was weird from the jump (eventhough when i met her at a bar she was all over the kid) and so i cut that date short and dropped her ass back off at yorkdale station.

i see this only working well if it's a walk in the park. anything outside of that, i mean, u both goto be outdoorsy to enjoy it.

 

[J.E.T.S]

brehs.

so this monday I'm heading to work and see this pretty chick on the subway. She gets off on a stop before me so I say fukk it lemme go bag it. So i spark a conversation as i'm walking alongside her and bag this chick right...something light while getting off the subway before i head to work. i spark up a random convo saying some shyt about how her hair must conveniently keep her warm in the winter and get the number.

We text a couple times...and today i set up a dinner for next week to cut through the bs. Randomly ...while looking at my old snapchat i she her username as a person i can add from my phone book. Her username has her last name in it so i say "hmmm...lemme see if I can find her facebook ". I log into my homies profile and search and she she got nuff mutual friends with the homie/older heads we know from our high school. I'm going through her sexy ass's pictures and come to see a link to her IG where she got like 15000 followers my nikkas . I dont have none of this social media shyt but i know thats a lot (could be fake though). Got me feeling like I'm

A) just another nikka in line and I shouldnt even bother going out to dinner with this chick cause she might be using me for a meal. OR
B) that because i did the organic cold approach i am distinguishing myself from these fukk nikkas online .

It doesnt phase me but its funny to think about. Here are a bunch of dudes acting wild over some pics on IG when shes just a regular chick in real life or at least appears to be. This social media shyt aint real life... Ima have to play this shyt cool though .

@TRUEST @Emperor_ReinScarf lol

Better than getting a bytch number then googling it only to find her escort profiles and backpage.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

are you taking her to dinner?

me personally, regardless of age, i take hoes out to do physical activities and steer clear of the cliche dates. Reason being is cuz with physical activities, it allows me to break the touch barrier immediately and establish comfort and my touch. When that happens, almost 9.9/10 times i'm either making out at the end of the date or smashing. Only 1 time has it failed and its cuz the hoe was weird from the jump (eventhough when i met her at a bar she was all over the kid) and so i cut that date short and dropped her ass back off at yorkdale station.

Examples por favor.



I suck at planning dates.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Examples por favor.



I suck at planning dates.

Pool
Miniature golf
Bowling
Laser tag
Go kart
Indoor rock climbing

That's off the top of my head

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Pool
Miniature golf
Bowling
Laser tag
Go kart
Indoor rock climbing

That's off the top of my head

Seems a bit aggressive for a first date.

 

[TRUEST]

Seems a bit aggressive for a first date.

pool is actually not a bad idea. but make sure u order drinks. drinks plus pool can make for a great night, provided ur good at pool, lest u embarrass yourself.

 

[RealAssanova]

i see this only working well if it's a walk in the park. anything outside of that, i mean, u both goto be outdoorsy to enjoy it.

every first date i've had his been one involving physical activities. Nothing was a guarantee to be a walk in the park. Some hoes i met online/dating apps and some in person. In both cases, i took em out to do something fun and loosen em up. I avoid starbucks and dinner dates as they are cliche and don't really provide an environment where me and homegirl can loosen up and be comfortable with each other. I like to go on dates where it is a combination of conversation and physical..not just conversation. I find it accelerates the attraction between you and shorty on that 1st date rather than leaving room for attraction to grow over more than 1-2 dates because you risk losing the girl.

but then again, every date is girl-by-girl case. Some girls you gonna have to put in more than 1 date to get her while others you can get on the 1st date. It just depends on her comfort level, her attraction towards you and her trust.

 

[RealAssanova]

Examples por favor.



I suck at planning dates.

pretty much what @MilesTailsPrower said.

i have my go to spot in my neck of the woods that i like to take girls to. Glow in the dark mini-golf. I think the people behind the counter know me.

I also make a wager whenever i do this.....like i tell homegirl "we playin for reward. I win, those lips are mine." They laugh and say alright. That's when i know i have them, cuz when she gives you those lips, the rest of her body will follow.