Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turk]

That awkardness was probally a indicator to take action bro I woulda hit her wit dat east Oakland

East Oakland?

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

East Oakland?

Game

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Why do some women get mad when you don't want to spend a lot of money on a first date? I always take chicks to a coffee spot or some lounge to talk where the most you will spend will be $8. Why would I invest a lot of money just to MAYBE get a woman to like me?

A lot of women agree to a first date simply bc they think they're going to get a free meal. Then after ether ignore you or simply say "I'm just not feeling it..."

I once had a conversation w/a female friend and I had to explain to her what men go through for a date. Think about it.

1. Have to get a haircut - $15-20
2. Wash, clean & gas up car - $25-30
3. Some guys buy a new shirt or something - $15-25 *optional
4. Then pay for the date (dinner, movie or whatever..) - $30-60

So in all on average a guy could spend anywhere form $85 to $100+
Plus you as the man have to make HER laugh, make HER feel comfortable, be a gentleman to HER, keep HER interested. While she doesn't have to do a damn thing but show up. And she might not even like you? HELL NAW!

Brehs, keep it simple and go for coffee or a fair or some ish. Stop spending 100s of dollars on dates because if she does like you the next one will have to be $300+ and so on and so forth.

*I would only do it if she is BAD AF & the possibility of me smashing is at least 80%

 

[Ohene]

Lol your work rejected my email back

I got it.
I replied around 430. What's your girls profession

 

[StarGirl]

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[MikelArteta]

Ah I get off at 4.

She worked at where you worked in Nigeria, as a tax analyst. Graduated with her masters from Waterloo this year, just works at a bank now. Almost done her CA as well wants to work for the big four , deloitte, pwc, where you work .

I got it.
I replied around 430. What's your girls profession

 

[RealAssanova]

It's usually because she's broke. Like think about the sheer bumminess of having to sit through a convo with someone you don't really like for food.

lemme ask you something stargirl....i already know this...but i wanna understand the female mind.

why don't women have common decency?

why is it that ya'll give your numbers and addresses away....then when men try to set something up, ya'll go ghost?

this never used to happen back in the days....but now its like, ya'll just ignore shyt? why?

why not just say you ain't interested? to avoid awkwardness or the dude getting mad?

 

[StarGirl]

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[Youseenmywork]

I wasn't agreeing with the post you were responding to. I just read what you posted and then asked a question off that. I don't even know what the context of the post you replied to was. I just saw this "we just wish yall would be a little bit more responsible with power yall do have...and put in more work. By that I mean be creative when dealing with men." and I was curious as to what exactly this meant

Well women don't have to be creative in dealing with men. HOW many women do YOU see walk up to men and just TALK there way into a guys pants ? How many women actual get creative when it comes to Valentines day and think outside the box and give us something besides sex?(I hate Valentines day and think it was invented by a simp ass nikka for what it is worth) Women really don't have the skill to get the love they want. You should watch HITCH again the part were will walks to Eva Mendes character and pretty much HAS to get create something out of thin air the first time he meets her. Men have to come up with shyt yall have never heard before The difference is its a lot easier for you to get dikk ..... the only thing you don't control is if that guy will someday love you someday .

 

[Ohene]

Ah I get off at 4.

She worked at where you worked in Nigeria, as a tax analyst. Graduated with her masters from Waterloo this year, just works at a bank now. Almost done her CA as well wants to work for the big four , deloitte, pwc, where you work .

why doesnt she enjoy the bank? prefers client work?

 

[RealAssanova]

lol You noticed I didn't say anything when you guys were talking about that up there? Cause I've been guilty as hell of this. Probably one of THE worst offenders and I know it's dead wrong but even I don't have a reason for doing that. It defies logic, and its really not a knock to you personally. And you would think oh it's probably cause she wasn't feeling you like that, but nope nope- why would she give you her number (unless you were scary/intimidating in which case I do it to get you out my face) if she wasn't slightly interested? I've even done that to guys who I would've wanted to engage with, but I may have been in a relationship and given you my number because I was angry with my boyfriend, so when you text me of course I'll ignore it.

I literally just turned to my sisters and asked them this question and everyone pretty much agreed that even we don't actually know.

It might come down to the informal way you meet, and so you think it's not that important for you to have common decency because it was such a casual meeting. And we're in the "respect the curve" era of society where even an "ok" means it's probably a dub. OR she gave you her number to know she still got it, the same way guys get numbers for that reason. That's the best I can do. It's one of those hmm questions, where you don't even know why you do what you do.

wait so you're guilty of this but don't exactly know why? how does that even make sense?

i've met women in person, online and on apps. I know when shyt is dull and ain't goin nowhere...however, when it comes to women you're actively engaged with and gotten the ok on setting up the date...why the hell do you vanish?

i have 0 respect for women who do that. Yes ya'll don't owe anything to us, but that speaks to ya'lls character. Some even have the nerve to hit u up outta the blue later on or holla at you in person as if everything is cool.

 

[Youseenmywork]

lol You noticed I didn't say anything when you guys were talking about that up there? Cause I've been guilty as hell of this. Probably one of THE worst offenders and I know it's dead wrong but even I don't have a reason for doing that. It defies logic, and its really not a knock to you personally. And you would think oh it's probably cause she wasn't feeling you like that, but nope nope- why would she give you her number (unless you were scary/intimidating in which case I do it to get you out my face) if she wasn't slightly interested? I've even done that to guys who I would've wanted to engage with, but I may have been in a relationship and given you my number because I was angry with my boyfriend, so when you text me of course I'll ignore it.

I literally just turned to my sisters and asked them this question and everyone pretty much agreed that even we don't actually know.

It might come down to the informal way you meet, and so you think it's not that important for you to have common decency because it was such a casual meeting. And we're in the "respect the curve" era of society where even an "ok" means it's probably a dub. OR she gave you her number to know she still got it, the same way guys get numbers for that reason. That's the best I can do. It's one of those hmm questions, where you don't even know why you do what you do.

Why do women go on dates with men they not attracted to ?

 

[TRUEST]

lemme ask you something stargirl....i already know this...but i wanna understand the female mind.

why don't women have common decency?

why is it that ya'll give your numbers and addresses away....then when men try to set something up, ya'll go ghost?

this never used to happen back in the days....but now its like, ya'll just ignore shyt? why?

why not just say you ain't interested? to avoid awkwardness or the dude getting mad?

my dude, you're asking questions that shouldn't be asked. a girl going ghost is a clear statement she's just not as into you as you're into her. like, ask yourself. when was the last time u went ghost on a chick u really liked? probably never. and if u did, it was probably because someone else who u were more emotionally attached to came into the picture.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah shwes Nigerian and thinks because she spent 28k on her masters that she needs top of the top right away

why doesnt she enjoy the bank? prefers client work?

 

[Youseenmywork]

wait so you're guilty of this but don't exactly know why? how does that even make sense?

i've met women in person, online and on apps. I know when shyt is dull and ain't goin nowhere...however, when it comes to women you're actively engaged with and gotten the ok on setting up the date...why the hell do you vanish?

i have 0 respect for women who do that. Yes ya'll don't owe anything to us, but that speaks to ya'lls character. Some even have the nerve to hit u up outta the blue later on or holla at you in person as if everything is cool.

No it just proves that they are not logical...and also they don't know what they want. This is ultimately why the game exist