Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[winb83]

2 things to realize about men and women


1. Men would ideally want ONE woman to give their heart to, and still have the ability to fukk other women because of natural desires

2. Women would Ideally want ONE man to have sex with, but give their hearts to other men because of their natural desires of variety in love.

1. is culture and not a natural desire. as a man all you wanna do is fukk biologically. culture tells you that you should give your "heart" to someone whatever the hell that means.

2. i think women just enjoy attention especially from males. its like a drug to them.

 

[sixsixtwo]

1. is culture and not a natural desire. as a man all you wanna do is fukk biologically. culture tells you that you should give your "heart" to someone whatever the hell that means.

2. i think women just enjoy attention especially from males. its like a drug to them.

Yes indeed.. Women crave attention like vampires crave blood..

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[tekvek]

So i met this girl through her mom. Talked and texted for about 2 weeks before we actually went out for the first time. We had instant chemistry from the start, no awkward moments just laughing and joking on eachother. She told me how her baby daddy treated her bad the whole 5 years they were together and how the few guys she's dated since him have turned into jerks. She would go as far as to say that I was amazing and almost too good to be true since i treated her so well.

She would often tell me how her mom loved me because i was such a nice guy. Also how her best friend liked me even though i had yet to meet her. She invites me out with her family and to meet her brother since "you have to meet him sometime". So I'm thinking every thing is all good. Drop her off at home and kiss her for the first time with this being our third date. The next few days I notice she's acting real distant. Her constant texts stop and when she does text she keeps it short. I ask her why she's acting this way and she says things are moving too fast and she's not ready for a relationship at this time because she has school starting soon, works and has to balance time with her daughter. It's all such a shock to me since i thought we were on our way to making it official. A part of me thinks she's afraid i might dog her but i also think she's being honest since she has a lot on her plate

 

[Tres Leches]

So i met this girl through her mom. Talked and texted for about 2 weeks before we actually went out for the first time. We had instant chemistry from the start, no awkward moments just laughing and joking on eachother. She told me how her baby daddy treated her bad the whole 5 years they were together and how the few guys she's dated since him have turned into jerks. She would go as far as to say that I was amazing and almost too good to be true since i treated her so well.

She would often tell me how her mom loved me because i was such a nice guy. Also how her best friend liked me even though i had yet to meet her. She invites me out with her family and to meet her brother since "you have to meet him sometime". So I'm thinking every thing is all good. Drop her off at home and kiss her for the first time with this being our third date. The next few days I notice she's acting real distant. Her constant texts stop and when she does text she keeps it short. I ask her why she's acting this way and she says things are moving too fast and she's not ready for a relationship at this time because she has school starting soon, works and has to balance time with her daughter. It's all such a shock to me since i thought we were on our way to making it official. A part of me thinks she's afraid i might dog her but i also think she's being honest since she has a lot on her plate

breh if she has kids + shes playing these games this early...its time to move on IMO

 

[Wild self]

So i met this girl through her mom. Talked and texted for about 2 weeks before we actually went out for the first time. We had instant chemistry from the start, no awkward moments just laughing and joking on eachother. She told me how her baby daddy treated her bad the whole 5 years they were together and how the few guys she's dated since him have turned into jerks. She would go as far as to say that I was amazing and almost too good to be true since i treated her so well.

She would often tell me how her mom loved me because i was such a nice guy. Also how her best friend liked me even though i had yet to meet her. She invites me out with her family and to meet her brother since "you have to meet him sometime". So I'm thinking every thing is all good. Drop her off at home and kiss her for the first time with this being our third date. The next few days I notice she's acting real distant. Her constant texts stop and when she does text she keeps it short. I ask her why she's acting this way and she says things are moving too fast and she's not ready for a relationship at this time because she has school starting soon, works and has to balance time with her daughter. It's all such a shock to me since i thought we were on our way to making it official. A part of me thinks she's afraid i might dog her but i also think she's being honest since she has a lot on her plate

you too nice to her. She mentioned that she dated jerks for long periods of time and her BD is a jerk. You can't treat women any better than her ex's if you want the puccy. Be a jerk and joke on her and you get the puccy with ease.

 

[JT-Money]

So i met this girl through her mom. Talked and texted for about 2 weeks before we actually went out for the first time. We had instant chemistry from the start, no awkward moments just laughing and joking on eachother. She told me how her baby daddy treated her bad the whole 5 years they were together and how the few guys she's dated since him have turned into jerks. She would go as far as to say that I was amazing and almost too good to be true since i treated her so well.

She would often tell me how her mom loved me because i was such a nice guy. Also how her best friend liked me even though i had yet to meet her. She invites me out with her family and to meet her brother since "you have to meet him sometime". So I'm thinking every thing is all good. Drop her off at home and kiss her for the first time with this being our third date. The next few days I notice she's acting real distant. Her constant texts stop and when she does text she keeps it short. I ask her why she's acting this way and she says things are moving too fast and she's not ready for a relationship at this time because she has school starting soon, works and has to balance time with her daughter. It's all such a shock to me since i thought we were on our way to making it official. A part of me thinks she's afraid i might dog her but i also think she's being honest since she has a lot on her plate

How old are you that your dating an single mom?

 

[tekvek]

How old are you that your dating an single mom?

Im 27 and she's about to turn 24.

 

[Red Omega]

2 things to realize about men and women


1. Men would ideally want ONE woman to give their heart to, and still have the ability to fukk other women because of natural desires

2. Women would Ideally want ONE man to have sex with, but give their hearts to other men because of their natural desires of variety in love.


When a woman has a man that does everything right, in terms of consistency, the excitement fades. Only because women dont want to have ONE TYPE of man to love, they would rather have 5 dudes to fall in love with.

1.Nice Guy 2.Cocky Guy 3.Mysterious Guy 4.Funny Guy 5.Emotionally Distant guy

this is what gets women going....this is why most women Cheat...its nothing physical, its mostly emotional

reasons why us dudes cheat, is mostly physical, nothing emotional....

just thinking out loud brehs....

 

[Atlrocafella]

So i met this girl through her mom. Talked and texted for about 2 weeks before we actually went out for the first time. We had instant chemistry from the start, no awkward moments just laughing and joking on eachother. She told me how her baby daddy treated her bad the whole 5 years they were together and how the few guys she's dated since him have turned into jerks. She would go as far as to say that I was amazing and almost too good to be true since i treated her so well.

She would often tell me how her mom loved me because i was such a nice guy. Also how her best friend liked me even though i had yet to meet her. She invites me out with her family and to meet her brother since "you have to meet him sometime". So I'm thinking every thing is all good. Drop her off at home and kiss her for the first time with this being our third date. The next few days I notice she's acting real distant. Her constant texts stop and when she does text she keeps it short. I ask her why she's acting this way and she says things are moving too fast and she's not ready for a relationship at this time because she has school starting soon, works and has to balance time with her daughter. It's all such a shock to me since i thought we were on our way to making it official. A part of me thinks she's afraid i might dog her but i also think she's being honest since she has a lot on her plate

It is a combination of both. How you react to this says everything about what will happen in the long run. DO NOT CHASE, she has already given you 2 reasons why it won't work(School, and she's not ready for a relationship). Do not try to convince her otherwise, if a woman wants to be with you, she will be with you.

What you do now is tell her you understand, and cut her off early, move on to the next best thing. once she realizes that you're no longer chasing her, she will either A) Come running back saying she made a mistake and wants to see where this can go(proving she was lying all along and only wanted you to continue to simp her), or B), she will move on with her life.

You win in both scenario because YOU still hold the power in both situations.

 

[Sharp]

I don't condone cheating, but if you ever get caught cheating, you need to end the relationship immediately.

Your relationship will never be the same again, she will no longer trust you, and you have put yourself in a situation where you are on "pins & needles"

If your woman doesn't trust you, then she won't respect you. You are at her mercy once you are caught violating the relationship. Your role as the man has been compromised.

Now I'm sure there are dudes out there that believe that "hey she's not going anywhere."

She might not go anywhere, but do you believe she's going to put the same effort into the relationship once she knows you were unfaithful.

Do yourself a favor and just end it. Start off fresh. Self reflect, realize your mistakes and try not to repeat with the next woman. Trying to correct your mistakes while in an active relationship is not productive. We don't live in our parents era where people stick it thru no matter what. People have options. Women no longer feel obligated to stay.

 

[jadillac]

So i met this girl through her mom. Talked and texted for about 2 weeks before we actually went out for the first time. We had instant chemistry from the start, no awkward moments just laughing and joking on eachother. She told me how her baby daddy treated her bad the whole 5 years they were together and how the few guys she's dated since him have turned into jerks. She would go as far as to say that I was amazing and almost too good to be true since i treated her so well.

She would often tell me how her mom loved me because i was such a nice guy. Also how her best friend liked me even though i had yet to meet her. She invites me out with her family and to meet her brother since "you have to meet him sometime". So I'm thinking every thing is all good. Drop her off at home and kiss her for the first time with this being our third date. The next few days I notice she's acting real distant. Her constant texts stop and when she does text she keeps it short. I ask her why she's acting this way and she says things are moving too fast and she's not ready for a relationship at this time because she has school starting soon, works and has to balance time with her daughter. It's all such a shock to me since i thought we were on our way to making it official. A part of me thinks she's afraid i might dog her but i also think she's being honest since she has a lot on her plate

Consider cutting her bruh.

She knows two things bout you:
1. You're nice
2. You like her and want to be around her

With that, she somewhat has you by the balls even this early in the process. She can use the excuse "she's busy" when she doesn't wanna hang out w/ you, and you have to believe it, and then when she does wanna hang out, she feels you will be there. If all of a sudden she's changed, then I'd leave her alone.

She could tell you she's busy w/ school or homework....and you might believe it the first time, but by the third time in the back of your mind you're wondering "what is she REALLY doing?" It will only cause you mental stress and worry otherwise trying to figure out what's going on, because you don't know her that well yet.

The LEAST a woman can do is text you, even if she doesnt have time to hangout or talk on the phone.
Remember, She will make time for whatever if she really likes you.

 

[Steezy]

memphis hoes aint shyt

chick i been chillin with and doin shyt with just changed her relationship status on facebook and it aint with the kid .. straight out the blue and got me like the fukk ?

i had a stable back in atlanta but these ratchet ass hoes are on some other shyt

i aint mad tho.. ill recover..ill be on my shyt...

but for tonight.. I'm listening to some bonafide hoes aint shyt songs.

 

[jadillac]

memphis hoes aint shyt

chick i been chillin with and doin shyt with just changed her relationship status on facebook and it aint with the kid .. straight out the blue and got me like the fukk ?

i had a stable back in atlanta but these ratchet ass hoes are on some other shyt

i aint mad tho.. ill recover..ill be on my shyt...

but for tonight.. I'm listening to some bonafide hoes aint shyt songs.

Dang.

Did she know you had her Facebook?

 

[Steezy]

Dang.

Did she know you had her Facebook?

yeah she actually added me bout 2 weeks ago and i was like thats weird as fukk cause we been on following each other on twitter for like 4 months and i dont even log on FB like that..

its a cold game.. at this point no matter what happens i cant fukk with her because apparently im her 2nd option

and im nobody's wade im or bust

hoe just used me for the D