Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Steezy]

Dang.

Did she know you had her Facebook?

yeah she actually added me bout 2 weeks ago and i was like thats weird as fukk cause we been on following each other on twitter for like 4 months and i dont even log on FB like that..

its a cold game.. at this point no matter what happens i cant fukk with her because apparently im her 2nd option

and im nobody's wade im or bust

hoe just used me for the D

 

[Malta]

Is it just me, or are there a shyt load of single women now? I have twitter, but it's mostly for NBA updates and some random shyt, I rarely say anything on there, but I have noticed a huge number of single women.

 

[jadillac]

Is it just me, or are there a shyt load of single women now? I have twitter, but it's mostly for NBA updates and some random shyt, I rarely say anything on there, but I have noticed a huge number of single women.

I said this several months ago when I got back on pof

But giving my dealings. I don't think a lot of these women are single as much as they are just playing the field and not committing

 

[Malta]

I said this several months ago when I got back on pof

But giving my dealings. I don't think a lot of these women are single as much as they are just playing the field and not committing

I haven't been on twitter in a minute, so to see all these chicks talking about being single, I'm assuming they were fishing for compliments. But, I had to check the stats and where I live atleast single women vastly outnumber single men, shyt is almost 2 to 1 in some areas.

 

[Houston911]

Is it just me, or are there a shyt load of single women now? I have twitter, but it's mostly for NBA updates and some random shyt, I rarely say anything on there, but I have noticed a huge number of single women.

theres always been a ton of single women bruh

 

[Malta]

theres always been a ton of single women bruh

I been out the game and riding the bench for years

 

[jadillac]

theres always been a ton of single women bruh

It's like someone else said in here. Alot of these Women claim to be single but in reality they have a few guys that they keep around but don't really clai

 

[kevm3]

So i met this girl through her mom. Talked and texted for about 2 weeks before we actually went out for the first time. We had instant chemistry from the start, no awkward moments just laughing and joking on eachother. She told me how her baby daddy treated her bad the whole 5 years they were together and how the few guys she's dated since him have turned into jerks. She would go as far as to say that I was amazing and almost too good to be true since i treated her so well.

She would often tell me how her mom loved me because i was such a nice guy. Also how her best friend liked me even though i had yet to meet her. She invites me out with her family and to meet her brother since "you have to meet him sometime". So I'm thinking every thing is all good. Drop her off at home and kiss her for the first time with this being our third date. The next few days I notice she's acting real distant. Her constant texts stop and when she does text she keeps it short. I ask her why she's acting this way and she says things are moving too fast and she's not ready for a relationship at this time because she has school starting soon, works and has to balance time with her daughter. It's all such a shock to me since i thought we were on our way to making it official. A part of me thinks she's afraid i might dog her but i also think she's being honest since she has a lot on her plate

One of them 'jerks' is probably back in the picture knocking that thang out. There's a reason why women get distant. It usually involved another guy coming back into the picture. You are the sweetheart, emotional sponge, feeling rejuvenator. If all her boyfriends in the past were 'jerks,' there is a reason for that and it most likely involves her choosing to be with those type of men. You see what happens to the 'nice guy'. He gets ignored and gets excuse after excuse.

 

[kevm3]

What you were really dealing with was an emotional vampire. These are the type of women who continue to make screwed up decisions and CHOOSE to deal with men who do them wrong. Then they choose an unsuspecting, naive, happy-go-lucky guy to latch onto to drain his energy in order to recuperate their own. They will reel you in with compliments and seduction, and look like the hidden gem to you. Then they will use your time, resources, and ear to tell you how screwed up their life is, how the past guys did them so wrong, and how you are so great for listening and even helping her out in her situation whether it be financially or whatever. Then, out of nowhere, once she is of sound mind and financial position once again, she disappears like a thief in the night, with a host of excuses of how she's so busy or ya'll are moving too fast, etc, and you will find out that she is dealing with one of those kind of dudes that she says are jerks and is screwing up her life. You were the victim of an emotional vampire who will shove all her negative feelings and life situations on you, drain you, and when she is reinvigorated, will go right back into the screwed up situations she was protesting to you about.

One of the surefire signs of this is a woman who constantly complains about how all her past men were jerks and one who keeps on asking you for favors. Don't go for it.

 

[tekvek]

It is a combination of both. How you react to this says everything about what will happen in the long run. DO NOT CHASE, she has already given you 2 reasons why it won't work(School, and she's not ready for a relationship). Do not try to convince her otherwise, if a woman wants to be with you, she will be with you.

What you do now is tell her you understand, and cut her off early, move on to the next best thing. once she realizes that you're no longer chasing her, she will either A) Come running back saying she made a mistake and wants to see where this can go(proving she was lying all along and only wanted you to continue to simp her), or B), she will move on with her life.

You win in both scenario because YOU still hold the power in both situations.

So you think i should stop hitting her up completly or should i hit her up from time to time?

 

[kevm3]

If you see a woman's emotionally shift out of nowhere, whether she gets distant or starts arguing out of nowhere, she is probably dealing with someone else.

 

[The ADD]

So you think i should stop hitting her up completly or should i hit her up from time to time?

Drop it all together and move forward with other potentials. At this point she is either playing games or not real mature. She knew she had all of that on her plate before y'all got started, her mother did as well. You might get some blow back from the mom but stay strong on the fact that her daughter basically told you to fall back.

No need to deal with that madness period, especially from a 24 year old

 

[winb83]

memphis hoes aint shyt

chick i been chillin with and doin shyt with just changed her relationship status on facebook and it aint with the kid .. straight out the blue and got me like the fukk ?

i had a stable back in atlanta but these ratchet ass hoes are on some other shyt

i aint mad tho.. ill recover..ill be on my shyt...

but for tonight.. I'm listening to some bonafide hoes aint shyt songs.

a woman will deal with you having no intention of ever getting with you but pass off being interested in you because you fit into her agenda. they're masters of being fake, of smiling in your face while reading a dagger to stab into your back. the first time you feel that dagger go into your back its devastating but the next time you'll know it could be coming. as life goes on you learn to expect it.

when a woman had no real feelings for you but has some type of use for you in her life they can be some of the coldest creatures on God's green earth feeling no remorse for their actions. a woman will repeatedly rationalize any action she takes until its justifiable in her eyes because women are master bullshytters. so good in fact many of them bullshyt themselves into believing their own crap.

 

[winb83]

So i met this girl through her mom. Talked and texted for about 2 weeks before we actually went out for the first time.

when you text women you're just the next guy texting her. these women have a lot of guys texting them every day. they just get juggled and used for attention. texting is a bullshyt form of communication. it should only be used to get a quick message across not to hold real conversations.

We had instant chemistry from the start, no awkward moments just laughing and joking on eachother.

this is the type of stuff a man says when he's getting his hopes up. he tells himself things are going well. in reality he should just deal with the woman at face value with no expectations or hopes about the way things are going.

She told me how her baby daddy treated her bad the whole 5 years they were together and how the few guys she's dated since him have turned into jerks. She would go as far as to say that I was amazing and almost too good to be true since i treated her so well.

She would often tell me how her mom loved me because i was such a nice guy. Also how her best friend liked me even though i had yet to meet her. She invites me out with her family and to meet her brother since "you have to meet him sometime". So I'm thinking every thing is all good.

the bold part was her way of telling you that you and her will never work. she's not attracted to you but logically she recognizes your value in her life. you're a prime candidate to be used by her. her baby daddy and the men she dates are jerks and a$$holes and you're the nice guy.

in all honesty if a woman informs you she has a pattern of dating men that don't fit the description she gives you of yourself you should just drop her that same day. people like to idealize themselves and their desires. the thing is what they're attracted to and what they think they want or like may be completely different. like a moth to flame these women are drawn to these type of guys. they're not doing it because they want to its just that that's how attraction works.

Drop her off at home and kiss her for the first time with this being our third date. The next few days I notice she's acting real distant. Her constant texts stop and when she does text she keeps it short. I ask her why she's acting this way and she says things are moving too fast and she's not ready for a relationship at this time because she has school starting soon, works and has to balance time with her daughter. It's all such a shock to me since i thought we were on our way to making it official. A part of me thinks she's afraid i might dog her but i also think she's being honest since she has a lot on her plate

if she really liked you there wouldn't be all these excuses. women tend to lead with their emotions so when they start handing you logical reasons things aren't gonna work or are slowing down obviously those reasons are there because of the absence of emotion.

you can ask any guy here in 90% of cases when it comes to women emotions will override logic. they will "follow their heart" before they follow what makes sense.

this is a woman that dates a$$holes. she meets you a nice guy and she sees the logical value in having you around but she's not emotionally attracted to your type. she'll probably try to keep you around because she recognizes your value but if the attraction is not there she will go astray. some guy she's attracted to will end up meeting her and pulling her away from you.
logic doesn't keep women in relationships emotion does.

 

[sixsixtwo]