Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The M.I.C.]

My only thought is if she ain't seeking attention from u anymore that could be a sign that she is from someone else so you need to find out what's going on soon. shyt happens, these broads get bored but its usually them broads who have no real life/hobbies of their own. Never trust a chick who ain't got female friends and ways to spend time away from a man.

Learned the hard way about the female friends joint.

Whenever a female I'm interested in now says something like "I don't have girlfriends due to _______ (insert whatever you like), I'm cool with the fellas". I'm gonna throw flags on the play immediately.

You got more homeboys than me and want me to take you serious? fukk that, you instantly go into the ho-lodex as a possible late night nut catcher.. I've never met a girl who has had a lot of dude friends NOT wind up being tossed by multiple dikks up at some point. shyt, I remember we had a good looking dyke chick who like to get run through occasionally back in college.

Also too much of a chance of a cat she knows whispering in her ear dropping bombs of fukkry all on your relationship..too much of a risk.

 

[Prynce]

I need to find me some new birds to talk too

I suck at this online shyt

 

[StarGirl]

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[The M.I.C.]

What about a girl who has like 2 female friends and no male friends? Like what if she just has few friends period? I understand the having few girlfriends part because on everything it's hard finding female friends who don't want to compete with you. But I don't believe in having male friends unless they're gay.

I wouldn't think that number of female friends would be an issue as long as you just had some.

I would be concerned about IF she even had female friends, which is the core issue.

and I would also be more concerned on how many guy friends she deals with and if the relationship was and still is on a platonic level, I prefer that she really don't have any myself but other dudes may be more lax. The issue lies in perception, for example...a guy who has way more female friends than male will outwardly look to be either 1.) Homosexual or 2.) An over the top simp....I've already mentioned the perception as far as how females look.

 

[StarGirl]

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[Ooh Marty]

Hello,

From your post and his actions, it seems as though you're playing the role of back up.

We, men, will either develop multiple options in regards to pursuing relationships or intentionally make themselves scarce to provoke a reaction (such as yours) from women. You either have to be upfront and ask what's going on (as the amount of no shows is unacceptable) or just leave him alone.

You were right . I was yet another option. I told him I'm not with the games and to lose my number. I blocked his number . Good riddance

 

[Youseenmywork]

So, for the sake of clarity, if say a girl's bf has female friends, she should go
Because he's either gay or simping them?

its not the same for men but im let you cook thoe . Im explain how corny women thought process is.

 

[StarGirl]

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[The M.I.C.]

So, for the sake of clarity, if say a girl's bf has female friends, she should go
Because he's either gay or simping them?

Typically.

Logically, what would be the reason (outside of work) for having a lot of contact with female(s) outside of a relationship?

Unless...

1.) You're hedging and creating options (either for relationship or sexual purposes)
2.) You're bisexual or outright homosexual.

For example, if I was in a relationship with a female and let's say I had a female friend that I've known since high school that I still talk to at the time. Probably one of the first thoughts that would be explored is "How close were they back then?" or "Is the relationship platonic?"

1.) Logically, people who were close in the past (friends, etc..) generally keep in touch for the feeling of nostalgia..I don't care what anyone says to the contrary, we as human beings love keeping in touch with things or people who help evoke good, cherished memories. As far as a female friend in the past, it's quite possible that the memories of intimacy in that time frame may be too strong for that particular man to let go and could possibly compromise future relationships.

2.) Even if a relationship is discovered to be platonic in nature, a man or woman should take steps to be involved...not so much out of jealously but to also do a few things.

- Establish trust
- Bring someone who means a lot to your significant other into BOTH of your lives (going out for dinner, etc..)
- Learning more about the foundations of their relationship so that you can better order your steps with your significant other...an somewhat "keep your enemies close" tactic.

Trust can go a long way, FYI. It's possible to have it where your significant other has a relationship (platonic) with members of the other sex but I would usually would say "throw out the invite" for that third wheel to come in so that there is no secrecy...if your man or woman, doesn't want it...then you kinda have a justification to give them the

 

[Youseenmywork]

Learned the hard way about the female friends joint.

Whenever a female I'm interested in now says something like "I don't have girlfriends due to _______ (insert whatever you like), I'm cool with the fellas". I'm gonna throw flags on the play immediately.

You got more homeboys than me and want me to take you serious? fukk that, you instantly go into the ho-lodex as a possible late night nut catcher.. I've never met a girl who has had a lot of dude friends NOT wind up being tossed by multiple dikks up at some point. shyt, I remember we had a good looking dyke chick who like to get run through occasionally back in college.

Also too much of a chance of a cat she knows whispering in her ear dropping bombs of fukkry all on your relationship..too much of a risk.

Women really dont understand this perspective. I for example havent been in a relationship in almost two years and havent wanted to talk to anybody. (more on this this later). In a women eyes im not attractive because i dont have women hanging off men and my phone is not blowing up etc. Mind you i know im good man and dont need the valadation of a women or women's approval. The way the GAME works thoe i do. Matter of fact it is plenty of men that will tell you you have to be gay or either sick NOT to have some women in your life. It all about preception i personally dont feel i need to play that game to be considered as valued . Women that have a ton of male friends is and will always be a no go. Those men are orbiters and if these women are honest with themselves if given the opportunity those men would sleep with you. I dont want to listen womens problems with other nikkas and i damn sure anit nobodies shoulder to cry on. I dont want women as friends cause i dont want a women to ever say i took something from her. Like the nikkas that befriend a girl to get at her prettier homegirls or the nikkas who use beautiful women as props to get other women. There is no women that can say this about me and there never will be.

@StarGirl

 

[StarGirl]

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[Youseenmywork]

No no no no @Youseenmywork , It is the same! It's just women in line to f***. Watch, you're gonna pull something else out, some jedi mind trick.

Watch your tone your response is typical. I dont have to use a jedi mind trick i use logic plan and simple. 1+1=2 everyday of the week to me with women 1+1= whatever women want it to be .

 

[StarGirl]

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[TRUEST]

Typically.

Logically, what would be the reason (outside of work) for having a lot of contact with female(s) outside of a relationship?

Unless...

1.) You're hedging and creating options (either for relationship or sexual purposes)
2.) You're bisexual or outright homosexual.

For example, if I was in a relationship with a female and let's say I had a female friend that I've known since high school that I still talk to at the time. Probably one of the first thoughts that would be explored is "How close were they back then?" or "Is the relationship platonic?"

1.) Logically, people who were close in the past (friends, etc..) generally keep in touch for the feeling of nostalgia..I don't care what anyone says to the contrary, we as human beings love keeping in touch with things or people who help evoke good, cherished memories. As far as a female friend in the past, it's quite possible that the memories of intimacy in that time frame may be too strong for that particular man to let go and could possibly compromise future relationships.

2.) Even if a relationship is discovered to be platonic in nature, a man or woman should take steps to be involved...not so much out of jealously but to also do a few things.

- Establish trust
- Bring someone who means a lot to your significant other into BOTH of your lives (going out for dinner, etc..)
- Learning more about the foundations of their relationship so that you can better order your steps with your significant other...an somewhat "keep your enemies close" tactic.

Trust can go a long way, FYI. It's possible to have it where your significant other has a relationship (platonic) with members of the other sex but I would usually would say "throw out the invite" for that third wheel to come in so that there is no secrecy...if your man or woman, doesn't want it...then you kinda have a justification to give them the

having friends of the opposite sex is only ok if they're gay or if there is absolutely no way there can be a sexual attraction between both parties. for instance, ur girl is 5'10 and her guy friend is a scrawny looking 5'5 dude. yeah. chances are good nothing will happen between them. i say this because we all know how particular women are with height. so yeah. ur bets are safe here.

generally, where most women fucck up is allowing people of the opposite sex intrude on their time with their man. example, ur driving with ur girl. one of her guy friends call her to talk about bs. the conversation should not last past 1 to 3 minutes. and she ought to end that convo on some "i'm with my man right now, it was nice hearing from u. talk to you later".

whenever u have a girl who has guy friends, and she has the audacity to allow talking or chatting with that guy friend to interfere with ur time together, thats when u need to cut ur losses. it'll only get worse. trust, i'm speaking from experience.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Watch your tone your response is typical. I dont have to use a jedi mind trick i use logic plan and simple. 1+1=2 everyday of the week to me with women 1+1= whatever women want it to be .

There is no women in line to fukk ....simple logic