Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This is the longest I've been single in a long time and I am loving it so far, brehs. Doing what I want, when I want, without stressing about making plans. Only spending money on myself. Focusing on my goals and my needs.

Gotdamn I can't believe I stayed in my previous relationship for so long. The freedom :blessed:
 

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I just want to give all you fella's out there that might be in a situation where you like a lady and she doesn't quite feel the same way about you or things seem hazy a bit of advice.


Don't wait or assume that she likes you more or as much as you like her. If you have let her know that your interested in something with her and she gives you whatever reason for not feeling the same MOVE ON. Those feelings rarely change and if they do its because there situation changed or you and yall's situation changed. Women just like men are pretty straight forward when they dont want something with the other person. We just tend to ignore it....

If you tell a women something as simple as I really like you, and she doesn't say it back. Dead it


A women will tell you shes not dating, shes not ready or she working on herself.....until the right person comes along and catches her interest, then all of a sudden she's going on that date or really likes someone when just last week or month she was "working on her"


Just dont pass up the signs fella's it sucks when you really like someone and they entertain it enough to keep you going back and forth..even if they are just trying to be nice. Sometimes the people you like just don't like you back like that. And its ok to cut them off for that reason, you dont have to be a ass about just move on.



Nothing is worst than getting stuck in the friend zone or just a zone where all you are is comfortable and a reminder that a "certain" type of male does exist out there.

You ever think a chick might not be feeling you because you told her you were feeling her? Like maybe you came on too strong too soon?

If I like a chick the LAST thing I wanna do is tell her I like her. :pachaha:

I just keep it cool and act uninterested til she's begging for the d. And if that never happens, I'll most likely meet somebody else in that time anyway and the process begins again.

In my experience, putting yourself out there can get you a quick lay or a quick nay. Either way, that's a short term strategy. If you keep your poker face it just makes her want you more and she'll eventually fall in love with you. That's how I play it. I make a chick fall in love with me then decide if I wanna keep her. :yeshrug:
 

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Me and a chick had a falling out and it was over some drama. The attraction is there between us but she feels hurt about what went down. Should I attempt to reconnect or move on?
 

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This is the longest I've been single in a long time and I am loving it so far, brehs. Doing what I want, when I want, without stressing about making plans. Only spending money on myself. Focusing on my goals and my needs.

Gotdamn I can't believe I stayed in my previous relationship for so long. The freedom :blessed:

This is how i feel...ive been single for a year after bouncing from relationship to relationship for the previous 6 years. No stress and saving money...
 

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You ever think a chick might not be feeling you because you told her you were feeling her? Like maybe you came on too strong too soon?

If I like a chick the LAST thing I wanna do is tell her I like her. :pachaha:

I just keep it cool and act uninterested til she's begging for the d. And if that never happens, I'll most likely meet somebody else in that time anyway and the process begins again.

In my experience, putting yourself out there can get you a quick lay or a quick nay. Either way, that's a short term strategy. If you keep your poker face it just makes her want you more and she'll eventually fall in love with you. That's how I play it. I make a chick fall in love with me then decide if I wanna keep her. :yeshrug:

im not one to play games with chicks because i consider it somewhat juvenile and dangerous. but there's a chick i recently started seeing who is legit going crazy cause im not dying to fucck her. like, she told me straight up "u know, ur aloofness is really getting to me. this take it or leave it attitude is not something im used to. do you know how many guys are offering to pay me to just have me dominate them?? like dude wtf is wrong with u??" and my attitude is whatever.

last time she came through, she was giivng me head and i didn't get hard. she got mad, rolled over and went to sleep. next morning, i felt bad. tried to give her the d1ck, but i still couldn't get hard. lol. if she was pissed the night before, this time, she was pissed beyond belief. gave me a mouthful, stormed out. later realized she forgot some of her things at my place, came back, and spent the next 35 minutes just ripping me to shreds. talking about how i never kiss her, and all that other sh1t, and how i watch porn but wont fucck her.

needless to say, i've never seen a girl act like her before over sex. and then again, i've never NOT given a chick i was seeing more than once the d1ck. she has the type of body most of the dudes on this site tend to praise. but with me, it takes a lot for a girl to make me want to fucck her. she has to be pretty (which this girl is), but she has to be also feminine. i like a girl that just acts like a girl. i dont like any mannerisms thats hoodish, or too masculine. i hate that. and this girl acts somewhat like that. and i just couldn't get hard because of it.

the point being, watching her reaction to my unattached attitude was really eye opening. i mean, i dont suggest guys to act aloof or unattached with chicks they really give a sh1t about. but, if a man can be aloof and unattached even when he wants the chick, that in of itself, is the sign of a true mack. and very few people achieve that status, and only celebs (those with infinite access to fresh pucccy) can pull this off time after time. in this case, i wasnt acting aloof. i was being aloof. why? because i was in a mental space where i didn't care if she left.
 
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im not one to play games with chicks because i consider it somewhat juvenile and dangerous. but there's a chick i recently started seeing who is legit going crazy cause im not dying to fucck her. like, she told me straight up "u know, ur aloofness is really getting to me. this take it or leave it attitude is not something im used to. do you know how many guys are offering to pay me to just have me dominate them?? like dude wtf is wrong with u??" and my attitude is whatever.

last time she came through, she was giivng me head and i didn't get hard. she got mad rolled over and went to sleep. next morning, i felt bad. tried to give her the d1ck, but i still couldn't get hard. lol. if she was pissed the night before, this time, she was pissed beyond belief. gave me a mouthful, stormed out. later realized she forgot some of her things, came back, and spent the next 35 minutes just ripping me to shreds. talking about how i never kiss her, and all that other sh1t, and how i watch porn but wont fucck her.

needless to say, i've never seen a girl act like her before over sex. and i've never NOT given a chick i was seeing more than once the d1ck. she has the type of body most of the dudes on this site tend to praise. but with me, it takes a lot for a girl to make me want to fucck her. she has to me pretty (which this girl is), but she has to be feminine. i like a girl that just acts like a girl. i dont like any mannerisms thats hoodish, or too masculine. i hate that. and this girl acts somewhat like that. and i just couldn't get hard because of it.

the point being, watching her reaction to my unattached attitude was really eye opening. i mean, i dont suggest guys to act aloof or unattache with chicks they really give a sh1t about. but, if a man can be aloof and unattached even when he wants the chick, that in of itself, is the sign of a true mack. and very few people achieve that status, and only celebs (those with infinite access to fresh pucccy) can pull this off time after time.

I never said play games though, breh. Just keep your cards close to your chest.

I find it hilarious how you guys in this thread literally have all the answers but then ignore it. You said it yourself chick is fiending for the d. Why would you not keep doing what you're doing? :heh:

I been married for almost 10 years, and I PROMISE you indifference is the key to making it last. If wifey ain't fiending for the d then there's a problem.

Chicks get bored easily. You can never give yourself over completely or you become the same as those guys who would pay shorty to dominate them. If that's the case, you don't think those guys laid all their cards out? Is that the class you wanna be in? :francis:

Women love attention as much as men love p*ssy. You give her that attention and you become a notch on her belt. You blow her off and suddenly she's chasing you. And that's how it should be. :yeshrug:
 

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I never said play games though, breh. Just keep your cards close to your chest.

I find it hilarious how you guys in this thread literally have all the answers but then ignore it. You said it yourself chick is fiending for the d. Why would you not keep doing what you're doing? :heh:

I been married for almost 10 years, and I PROMISE you indifference is the key to making it last. If wifey ain't fiending for the d then there's a problem.

Chicks get bored easily. You can never give yourself over completely or you become the same as those guys who would pay shorty to dominate them. If that's the case, you don't think those guys laid all their cards out? Is that the class you wanna be in? :francis:

Women love attention as much as men love p*ssy. You give her that attention and you become a notch on her belt. You blow her off and suddenly she's chasing you. And that's how it should be. :yeshrug:


i've read quite a number of ur posts in this thread and it is quite evident, at least to me, that, ur in a relationship where ur wife is more into you than you are into her. which is really the best relationship to be in. because, if shes more into u, u can play aloof and get away with it. we can all play that game with chicks who are far more into us than we are into them. its easy. a true mack is born when he can do that to chicks he really really digs.
 
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i've read quite a number of ur posts in this thread and it is quite evident, at least to me, that, ur in a relationship where ur wife is more into you than you are into her. which is really the best relationship to be in. because, if shes more into u, u can play aloof and get away with it. we can all play that game with chicks we dont care for. its easy. a true mack is born when he can do that to chicks he really really digs.

I can agree that my wife loves me more. Unfortunately, whoever loves more is always at a disadvantage. They will always have more to lose. So you gotta pick a side. :yeshrug:

But please don't think I don't care for my wife, breh. :whoa: I wouldn't be with this woman for 10+ years if I didn't care for her. A lot. :childplease: IDK why yall keep using words like "play", "act" and "pretend". :heh: I'm real about mine. Nonchalant, stoic, g... yeah, that's just my personality. I'm a laid back, chill type of dude I guess. :yeshrug:

I think it all boils down to mindset. You like a chick and start showing, she falls back. Do that a couple times and you learn to be easy. And then you figure out the key to women: the lesser you stress her, the quicker she falls. shyt I like women wanting me and throwing p*ssy at me. So of course I'm gonna keep chillaxin on these broads. :leon: After a while it just becomes who you are. No acting. At first you may feel like it's forced. That's called change. If a fat person wants to lose weight and be healthy they gotta change their lifestyle, feel me? Are they "acting" or "pretending" when they first start working out? Of course not. They're just changing their ways and thought process.

Nah, breh I love my wife. I'ma grow old with her. But the longer you stay together, the MORE that indifference becomes important because a nikka ain't gonna be all :gladbron: for his whole life. Hanging off every word she says. Being super interested in every aspect of her life. To me, THAT would be acting. If I don't care, I'm not gonna be rude about it but a simple :ehh: will suffice.



Just look at it like this: you got simps and pimps. Which one puts women on a pedestal, professing his undying love for her, buying her gifts and telling her she's the most beautiful woman on Earth only to get blue balls? And which one doesn't give a fukk and gets to choose which of his women he wants? :francis: That's just the way it goes, man. I don't make these rules. And there doesn't really seem to be an in between either. And I won't even front I actually LIKE simping. :heh: I let wifey know she's special at times. But I also know to do that in moderation or it grows old quick and she'll lose interest. You pretty much gotta be a savage out here. I guess it kinda sucks but you can't disagree with however many years of human history. Just ask that one nikka on here who took the chick to Red Lobster in HS only to see her the next day sitting with some next nikka in the cafeteria sharing the cheddar biscuits that he bought. :mjlol:
 

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I can agree that my wife loves me more. Unfortunately, whoever loves more is always at a disadvantage. They will always have more to lose. So you gotta pick a side. :yeshrug:

But please don't think I don't care for my wife, breh. :whoa: I wouldn't be with this woman for 10+ years if I didn't care for her. A lot. :childplease: IDK why yall keep using words like "play", "act" and "pretend". :heh: I'm real about mine. Nonchalant, stoic, g... yeah, that's just my personality. I'm a laid back, chill type of dude I guess. :yeshrug:

I think it all boils down to mindset. You like a chick and start showing, she falls back. Do that a couple times and you learn to be easy. And then you figure out the key to women: the lesser you stress her, the quicker she falls. shyt I like women wanting me and throwing p*ssy at me. So of course I'm gonna keep chillaxin on these broads. :leon: After a while it just becomes who you are. No acting. At first you may feel like it's forced. That's called change. If a fat person wants to lose weight and be healthy they gotta change their lifestyle, feel me? Are they "acting" or "pretending" when they first start working out? Of course not. They're just changing their ways and thought process.

Nah, breh I love my wife. I'ma grow old with her. But the longer you stay together, the MORE that indifference becomes important because a nikka ain't gonna be all :gladbron: for his whole life. Hanging off every word she says. Being super interested in every aspect of her life. To me, THAT would be acting. If I don't care, I'm not gonna be rude about it but a simple :ehh: will suffice.



Just look at it like this: you got simps and pimps. Which one puts women on a pedestal, professing his undying love for her, buying her gifts and telling her she's the most beautiful woman on Earth only to get blue balls? And which one doesn't give a fukk and gets to choose which of his women he wants? :francis: That's just the way it goes, man. I don't make these rules. And there doesn't really seem to be an in between either. And I won't even front I actually LIKE simping. :heh: I let wifey know she's special at times. But I also know to do that in moderation or it grows old quick and she'll lose interest. You pretty much gotta be a savage out here. I guess it kinda sucks but you can't disagree with however many years of human history. Just ask that one nikka on here who took the chick to Red Lobster in HS only to see her the next day sitting with some next nikka in the cafeteria sharing the cheddar biscuits that he bought. :mjlol:


gotta admit. nice analogy with the losing weight thing. makes sense. i see where ur coming from.
 
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