I can agree that my wife loves me more. Unfortunately, whoever loves more is always at a disadvantage. They will always have more to lose. So you gotta pick a side.
But please don't think I don't care for my wife, breh.

I wouldn't be with this woman for 10+ years if I didn't care for her. A lot.

IDK why yall keep using words like "play", "act" and "pretend".

I'm real about mine. Nonchalant, stoic, g... yeah, that's just my personality. I'm a laid back, chill type of dude I guess.
I think it all boils down to mindset. You like a chick and start showing, she falls back. Do that a couple times and you learn to be easy. And then you figure out the key to women: the lesser you stress her, the quicker she falls. shyt I like women wanting me and throwing p*ssy at me. So of course I'm gonna keep chillaxin on these broads.

After a while it just becomes who you are. No acting. At first you may feel like it's forced. That's called change. If a fat person wants to lose weight and be healthy they gotta change their lifestyle, feel me? Are they "acting" or "pretending" when they first start working out? Of course not. They're just changing their ways and thought process.
Nah, breh I love my wife. I'ma grow old with her. But the longer you stay together, the MORE that indifference becomes important because a nikka ain't gonna be all

for his whole life. Hanging off every word she says. Being super interested in every aspect of her life. To me, THAT would be acting. If I don't care, I'm not gonna be rude about it but a simple

will suffice.
Just look at it like this: you got simps and pimps. Which one puts women on a pedestal, professing his undying love for her, buying her gifts and telling her she's the most beautiful woman on Earth only to get blue balls? And which one doesn't give a fukk and gets to choose which of his women he wants?

That's just the way it goes, man. I don't make these rules. And there doesn't really seem to be an in between either. And I won't even front I actually LIKE simping.

I let wifey know she's special at times. But I also know to do that in moderation or it grows old quick and she'll lose interest. You pretty much gotta be a savage out here. I guess it kinda sucks but you can't disagree with however many years of human history. Just ask that one nikka on here who took the chick to Red Lobster in HS only to see her the next day sitting with some next nikka in the cafeteria sharing the cheddar biscuits that he bought.