Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

We ended things nothing bad happened no big fight or crazy drama. Her mother felt I was a distraction in her life and told her to end things. Inside I feel that was a bs reason and she could have fought it if she really wanted me...I felt she gave in to easily.


We still talk trying to have things on a more friendly level but I still have feelings for the chick. What are my options here fella? I'm too emotional to think straight right now or else I'd be able to figure this out for myself so I'm asking for outside opinions

if u want any chance with this girl, u need to be willing to walk the fucck away. next time she hits u up, hit her up on some "listen, we need to talk".

the mere tone of those words will send her thought process racing.

when u finally do talk, be like

you: listen, i have very strong feelings for you. i want you. unfortunately, i cannot be friends with you with these feelings still present. as much as it hurts to say, i'll let you be to pursue whatever it is, or whoever it is you wish to pursue. but as for me and my sanity, i will do you the honor of leaving you alone. give me a call if you change your mind and would like to give this another try.

then leave it as is. it'll probably be better to send this to her via text.

The power of walking away is often underestimated but should never ever be taken for granted. it works wonders. But make sure your words and actions are congruent with each other. dont say u dont wanna be friends then end up hitting her up with "good mornings" "how are yous" and any of that nonsense. let her be the one doing that!!! she'll know ur serious if u dont do any of those simp sh1t.

 

[EffYou]

if u want any chance with this girl, u need to be willing to walk the fucck away. next time she hits u up, hit her up on some "listen, we need to talk".

the mere tone of those words will send her thought process racing.

when u finally do talk, be like

you: listen, i have very strong feelings for you. i want you. unfortunately, i cannot be friends with you with these feelings still present. as much as it hurts to say, i'll let you be to pursue whatever it is, or whoever it is you wish to pursue. but as for me and my sanity, i will do you the honor of leaving you alone. give me a call if you change your mind and would like to give this another try.

then leave it as is. it'll probably be better to send this to her via text.

The power of walking away is often underestimated but should never ever be taken for granted. it works wonders. But make sure your words and actions are congruent with each other. dont say u dont wanna be friends then end up hitting her up with "good mornings" "how are yous" and any of that nonsense. let her be the one doing that!!! she'll know ur serious if u dont do any of those simp sh1t.

Sent the text in my own words. Lord be with us

 

[reserved_one]

I mentioned that i had a date lined up with this europe chick i met off okcupid. Well it turned out to be one of the most bizzare dating experiences i ever had . Everything did go on to plan...she showed up later than i expected but i wasnt trippin. I mean she did drive an hour to come n get me. So now were on our way back to her place. The whole time her father was blowing up her phone which ruined the flow of things. He has a thick nigerian accent and sounded mean as shyt lol. He's one of those overprotectful dads i guess.

So we get there and i see that she lives in a very nice apartment in a wealthy area. We go inside and we starting peeping each other out. I began to see that shes very shy and somewhat socially awkward. So much that doesnt like eye contact much. She says that im the first black guy that really showed intrest in her and she was excited. She kept goin on n on about how good looking i was. She look like the typical black hipster chick from NY.

So now it times to pick the movie. I brought my laptop with me with some movies on it since she doesnt have any cable or wifi. First choice was Rush Hour

"I never seen Rush Hour" my reaction . But she thought it might be trash so ok...whatever.

My 2nd choice was New Jack City. What she said next almost made me pimped slapped her lol smh

"You like that movie? Ive seen it and its trash."

Im like . Is this bytch on crack?

New Jack City is fukking classic. The fukk is wrong you?

"All you got is drug and hood shyt'

So we argue for about 10 min on what we gonna watch so we settled on Top Five even tho she hated that too lol. We was clowning each other on our movies choices throughout the movie lol smh. So afterwards she wanted to go back in her room and let me watch Furious 7 by myself because it sucked according to her.

So i was like "Well why dont u pick out the next one"?

Her choice was Pain and Gain that Micheal Bay film


So to make a long story short...We start to get intimate then end up in bed and im thinking were gonna get it on and she just bursts out crying.

Im like

She keeps saying to me that she messed up the date and she's tired of blowing it with guys. Somehow we get into a bizzare discussion about life, death, etc. We talked about depression and anxiety something we both experienced but she still dealing with it n taking meds. She had a truamatizing experience which made her the way she is now.

So after all of that...its almost sun rise and im thinking are we gonna fukk or nah. Im running outta fuel in my gas tank. So after messing around some more she finally wants me to stroke. She started giving me dome and I pull out the rubber and once i got in i didnt last very long

I just didnt have it...I was tired, exhausted and was just ready to get it over with. Plus im doing no PMO early for the new year. For some reason she liked licking my elbow...idk why lol

The p*ssy was that i stood no chance. But i didnt let her know that shyt. Dont want her confidence to skyrocket.

So then we pass out. I wake up hours later and shes in the next room just sitting there in the corner chillin with headphones. She then asks if i want to go out for lunch so we do that and the rest of the day was just smooth. She kept laughing at herself for what happened and she couldnt keep her hands off me.

Later she bought us food for dinner and then she took me back home because her family was on the way from New York to spend time with her for new years.

So yeah..thats how my date went. I really dont know what to think of her. I see myself in her alot of ways. Despite not having the same taste in movies we do like the same music. shytting on New Jack City is unforgivable though lol

We just decided that were gonna be friends for now. Thats all im going to say LOL.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Don't feel down, breh. Keep your balls about yourself.

Women always outnumber men, there's always the chance for redemption in finding someone more cooperative.

Cut that broad off and keep it pushing..with that absence in having a down ass dude to talk to, it may fukk with her and she may swing back around on you. Females think that most dudes be getting friendly just to be on that gay ass pillow chat bullshyt...No, we're trying to get you know you better so we can approach you on the level.

Im not down. (I dont think )
But after that, i just told my self i would ignore her. When we have to speak, it'll be on some regular shyt. No more giggity goo laughin and joking shyt. Just for the simple fact that i can't give her the same benefits (my attention) if i see im not gonna get what i want

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Brehs and this work stuff.

Brehs, yall prolly all work with mostly women. They like flirting. Especially in a space with not that many men to "go around." They work 8 hrs a day and prolly looking for a ego stroke every now and again.

Thats why ima leave her alone.
She need to stop all that bumping into me, keep randomly "finding" me if she ain't giving no play

 

[TRUEST]

I mentioned that i had a date lined up with this europe chick i met off okcupid. Well it turned out to be one of the most bizzare dating experiences i ever had . Everything did go on to plan...she showed up later than i expected but i wasnt trippin. I mean she did drive an hour to come n get me. So now were on our way back to her place. The whole time her father was blowing up her phone which ruined the flow of things. He has a thick nigerian accent and sounded mean as shyt lol. He's one of those overprotectful dads i guess.

So we get there and i see that she lives in a very nice apartment in a wealthy area. We go inside and we starting peeping each other out. I began to see that shes very shy and somewhat socially awkward. So much that doesnt like eye contact much. She says that im the first black guy that really showed intrest in her and she was excited. She kept goin on n on about how good looking i was. She look like the typical black hipster chick from NY.

So now it times to pick the movie. I brought my laptop with me with some movies on it since she doesnt have any cable or wifi. First choice was Rush Hour

"I never seen Rush Hour" my reaction . But she thought it might be trash so ok...whatever.

My 2nd choice was New Jack City. What she said next almost made me pimped slapped her lol smh

"You like that movie? Ive seen it and its trash."

Im like . Is this bytch on crack?

New Jack City is fukking classic. The fukk is wrong you?

"All you got is drug and hood shyt'

So we argue for about 10 min on what we gonna watch so we settled on Top Five even tho she hated that too lol. We was clowning each other on our movies choices throughout the movie lol smh. So afterwards she wanted to go back in her room and let me watch Furious 7 by myself because it sucked according to her.

So i was like "Well why dont u pick out the next one"?

Her choice was Pain and Gain that Micheal Bay film


So to make a long story short...We start to get intimate then end up in bed and im thinking were gonna get it on and she just bursts out crying.

Im like

She keeps saying to me that she messed up the date and she's tired of blowing it with guys. Somehow we get into a bizzare discussion about life, death, etc. We talked about depression and anxiety something we both experienced but she still dealing with it n taking meds. She had a truamatizing experience which made her the way she is now.

So after all of that...its almost sun rise and im thinking are we gonna fukk or nah. Im running outta fuel in my gas tank. So after messing around some more she finally wants me to stroke. She started giving me dome and I pull out the rubber and once i got in i didnt last very long

I just didnt have it...I was tired, exhausted and was just ready to get it over with. Plus im doing no PMO early for the new year. For some reason she liked licking my elbow...idk why lol

The p*ssy was that i stood no chance. But i didnt let her know that shyt. Dont want her confidence to skyrocket.

So then we pass out. I wake up hours later and shes in the next room just sitting there in the corner chillin with headphones. She then asks if i want to go out for lunch so we do that and the rest of the day was just smooth. She kept laughing at herself for what happened and she couldnt keep her hands off me.

Later she bought us food for dinner and then she took me back home because her family was on the way from New York to spend time with her for new years.

So yeah..thats how my date went. I really dont know what to think of her. I see myself in her alot of ways. Despite not having the same taste in movies we do like the same music. shytting on New Jack City is unforgivable though lol

We just decided that were gonna be friends for now. Thats all im going to say LOL.

dont be silly. her choice of movies should not enter into the equation at all. if she likes u, she'll learn to like whatever u like.

 

[The M.I.C.]

@9th Street on some real shyt.. I've been with a few Africans and I swear I've NEVER been disappointed with the p*ssy.. Never had to do so many pauses in between strokes in my life, ya man was looking fragile playing in that. On a serious note though, a lot of African women do have a desire to kick it with the nikkas over here but are super shy and the cultural differences sometimes make them tap out but once they like you, they'll stay down for you.. Very loyal to a high degree.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

@9th Street on some real shyt.. I've been with a few Africans and I swear I've NEVER been disappointed with the p*ssy.. Never had to do so many pauses in between strokes in my life, ya man was looking fragile playing in that. On a serious note though, a lot of African women do have a desire to kick it with the nikkas over here but are super shy and the cultural differences sometimes make them tap out but once they like you, they'll stay down for you.. Very loyal to a high degree.

Where dey at doe?


When i was working at the hospital, they all were wifed up

 

[Bless't]

I mentioned that i had a date lined up with this europe chick i met off okcupid. Well it turned out to be one of the most bizzare dating experiences i ever had . Everything did go on to plan...she showed up later than i expected but i wasnt trippin. I mean she did drive an hour to come n get me. So now were on our way back to her place. The whole time her father was blowing up her phone which ruined the flow of things. He has a thick nigerian accent and sounded mean as shyt lol. He's one of those overprotectful dads i guess.

So we get there and i see that she lives in a very nice apartment in a wealthy area. We go inside and we starting peeping each other out. I began to see that shes very shy and somewhat socially awkward. So much that doesnt like eye contact much. She says that im the first black guy that really showed intrest in her and she was excited. She kept goin on n on about how good looking i was. She look like the typical black hipster chick from NY.

So now it times to pick the movie. I brought my laptop with me with some movies on it since she doesnt have any cable or wifi. First choice was Rush Hour

"I never seen Rush Hour" my reaction . But she thought it might be trash so ok...whatever.

My 2nd choice was New Jack City. What she said next almost made me pimped slapped her lol smh

"You like that movie? Ive seen it and its trash."

Im like . Is this bytch on crack?

New Jack City is fukking classic. The fukk is wrong you?

"All you got is drug and hood shyt'

So we argue for about 10 min on what we gonna watch so we settled on Top Five even tho she hated that too lol. We was clowning each other on our movies choices throughout the movie lol smh. So afterwards she wanted to go back in her room and let me watch Furious 7 by myself because it sucked according to her.

So i was like "Well why dont u pick out the next one"?

Her choice was Pain and Gain that Micheal Bay film


So to make a long story short...We start to get intimate then end up in bed and im thinking were gonna get it on and she just bursts out crying.

Im like

She keeps saying to me that she messed up the date and she's tired of blowing it with guys. Somehow we get into a bizzare discussion about life, death, etc. We talked about depression and anxiety something we both experienced but she still dealing with it n taking meds. She had a truamatizing experience which made her the way she is now.

So after all of that...its almost sun rise and im thinking are we gonna fukk or nah. Im running outta fuel in my gas tank. So after messing around some more she finally wants me to stroke. She started giving me dome and I pull out the rubber and once i got in i didnt last very long

I just didnt have it...I was tired, exhausted and was just ready to get it over with. Plus im doing no PMO early for the new year. For some reason she liked licking my elbow...idk why lol

The p*ssy was that i stood no chance. But i didnt let her know that shyt. Dont want her confidence to skyrocket.

So then we pass out. I wake up hours later and shes in the next room just sitting there in the corner chillin with headphones. She then asks if i want to go out for lunch so we do that and the rest of the day was just smooth. She kept laughing at herself for what happened and she couldnt keep her hands off me.

Later she bought us food for dinner and then she took me back home because her family was on the way from New York to spend time with her for new years.

So yeah..thats how my date went. I really dont know what to think of her. I see myself in her alot of ways. Despite not having the same taste in movies we do like the same music. shytting on New Jack City is unforgivable though lol

We just decided that were gonna be friends for now. Thats all im going to say LOL.

Great story breh!! Flowed well.

Bolded had me dead.

 

[The M.I.C.]

Where dey at doe?


When i was working at the hospital, they all were wifed up

nikkas be snatching them up like discounted jordans, fam. I've been trying to get this gorgeous female at the hospital, she's from Ethiopia.. She got seeded up...I was too late to save brehs

 

[MercuryHayes]

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[reserved_one]

dont be silly. her choice of movies should not enter into the equation at all. if she likes u, she'll learn to like whatever u like.

Yeah...maybe your right. Her choices still suck tho lol but i can deal.

@9th Street on some real shyt.. I've been with a few Africans and I swear I've NEVER been disappointed with the p*ssy.. Never had to do so many pauses in between strokes in my life, ya man was looking fragile playing in that. On a serious note though, a lot of African women do have a desire to kick it with the nikkas over here but are super shy and the cultural differences sometimes make them tap out but once they like you, they'll stay down for you.. Very loyal to a high degree
.

Yeah this was my first ever experience with an african woman so i didnt know what to expect. I had no idea they were all shy/awkard like that so i was confused at first. But other than being slightly weird and having the habit of bitting my cheekbones and licking my arms lol..She's mad cool. She wants to help me get back on my feet and get me a job. Im considering it.

And bruh! I swear i was making faces/Pausing while i was in it just like u said lol. But the p*ssy was just too powerful my dude. I had no chance. Yall brehs better find yall selves an african woman. They got that fire.

 

[reserved_one]

Great story breh!! Flowed well.

Bolded had me dead.

 

[Turk]

When did I turn into such a piece of shyt?


A few years ago a girl talking about how important trust, relationships and etc are would be a turn on

Hearing all that shyt now at 21 got me like

I'm only trying to fukk with women who are with the shyts. All that other stuff is for the birds

 

[MAGNETO.]

got curved by a co-worker today couldnt even get the number

I been feeling like this since

it's tricky with coworkers man
the only time I see how they feeling is when we have organised staff outings, then you can see who they're really feeling lol