Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Subconsciously were attracted to our parents, and not in no nasty way. Basically if a woman grew up with a dad who never validated her, she will be attracted to man just like her dad, why ? So she can get her unmet needs met. Same for man, if you had a mother who didn't give nurturing and love, every woman you meet subconsciously will be like her in hopes to get love and validation you never got from your mother. And what happens once you get that validation, you leave, why ? Because you got what you wanted.

So that's why it's important to know a woman past with her dad. Women have self esteem issues, so they always have to feel validated by man. That's why good guys never win because they give her what she wants. If you never validate her the more she goes out of her way to get it. The real way to keep a woman is always be a puzzle a mystery to her she just can't figure you out.

Also, one more thing its in a woman's nature to break a man down and try take your balls away from you, they seem like they want the power but they really dont, it's just in their nature to reject male authority, but they don't really want power of relationship, because once they get it they hate it. And she cant love you if she don't love herself. She can't give you what she doesn't have.
 
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heres how i feel, from a perspective of disinterest instead of pessimism. i believe that any woman that takes interest in me would not regret doing so. i feel that i have things to offer. but honestly i cant see myself getting married. i just dont know if id be able to handle it. i've only dated three people. the third being when i was 16 :ld::yeshrug:

 

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heres how i feel, from a perspective of disinterest instead of pessimism. i believe that any woman that takes interest in me would not regret doing so. i feel that i have things to offer. but honestly i cant see myself getting married. i just dont know if id be able to handle it. i've only dated three people. the third being when i was 16 :ld::yeshrug:


I feel you breh. I'm just at that age where every year I'm going to a wedding or baby shower :mjcry:

Matrimony hit like a ton of bricks.
 

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I feel you breh. I'm just at that age where every year I'm going to a wedding or baby shower :mjcry:

Matrimony hit like a ton of bricks.


U don't have to be married to be happy either breh just make sure ur clear with that female and she understands that concept as much as possible too
 

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U don't have to be married to be happy either breh just make sure ur clear with that female and she understands that concept as much as possible too
I feel Like marriage is something that feels overwhelming to me. I don't like being the center of attention
 

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I feel Like marriage is something that feels overwhelming to me. I don't like being the center of attention

Like I said its coo if u don't want too but ur not center of attention cuz u and ur spouse work together as one team in marriage
 

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Very true. I just cringe at the thought of the reading of vows :huhldup:


:russ: like I said its a choice plus u can do it downtown with no parties involved in and out real quick
Only u know urself best and all we can do is give u the best advice from experience
 

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why do broads match with you on tinder but when you say wassup...either they don't respond...or if they do, its like hours/days later? :why:

i got 1 pic up and in 4 days matched with 14 broads :mjcry:and only got the number off of 3. :aicmon:

the rest either wanted me to work for it :heh::childplease:or went ghost. :aicmon:
 

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why do broads match with you on tinder but when you say wassup...either they don't respond...or if they do, its like hours/days later? :why:

i got 1 pic up and in 4 days matched with 14 broads :mjcry:and only got the number off of 3. :aicmon:

the rest either wanted me to work for it :heh::childplease:or went ghost. :aicmon:

I ate well off it :blessed: just hate the bots that came with it
 

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why do broads match with you on tinder but when you say wassup...either they don't respond...or if they do, its like hours/days later? :why:

i got 1 pic up and in 4 days matched with 14 broads :mjcry:and only got the number off of 3. :aicmon:

the rest either wanted me to work for it :heh::childplease:or went ghost. :aicmon:
Usually because they are already talking to other dudes and your message ends up dropping to the bottom. Yall dont realize how fast a girls inbox fills up. If she doesnt hit u back, you are not a priority right now. you are on the waiting list.
 
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