Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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EMainstreet
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My eyes have opened these past couple of days.
I realized I'm way too nice too people.
For example today was my birthday and I thought way more people would wish me a happy birthday through text or snapchat or Facebook.
But I didn't get the amount that I pictured.
Not to be petty but half the people I've wished happy birthday too didn't even tell me it back. Girls I've talked too in the past too.
It really opened my eyes up to who really rides with me.
I felt like this whole change in perspective changed my game too.
Slid in some girls DMs yesterday on Twitter and the entire talk was small talk and she kept taking forever to reply so now Imma play it cool with her.
Gonna message her in a couple hours and just be upfront with her and my intentions and get her number.
Tired of small talk. Tired of investing in people who don't give a fukk about you.
I realized I'm way too nice too people.
For example today was my birthday and I thought way more people would wish me a happy birthday through text or snapchat or Facebook.
But I didn't get the amount that I pictured.
Not to be petty but half the people I've wished happy birthday too didn't even tell me it back. Girls I've talked too in the past too.
It really opened my eyes up to who really rides with me.
I felt like this whole change in perspective changed my game too.
Slid in some girls DMs yesterday on Twitter and the entire talk was small talk and she kept taking forever to reply so now Imma play it cool with her.
Gonna message her in a couple hours and just be upfront with her and my intentions and get her number.
Tired of small talk. Tired of investing in people who don't give a fukk about you.
One chick who isn't any of the ones I mentioned in my recent post...well she found out about me fukking around. Like she knew I was but not really as much. Not really looking for advice. Just....shocked this line worked
"I shouldn't have brought you into this world."
LOL what? And she ended up apologizing. My life a drake song now?
"I shouldn't have brought you into this world."
LOL what? And she ended up apologizing. My life a drake song now?
Youseenmywork
KING
I personally have had this issue. Now I just want to be the best man for me and my ambitions come first everything else is secondary. I got rid of what little niceness I had last year. You have to love yourself more than you do the women.
EMainstreet
Rookie
It's hard man cause at my core I'm a nice outgoing guy who likes to get along with people.
But fukk it, Imma still be cool to people but stop getting so invested in nikkas who couldn't care less.
Imma do me and let you show me if I should put extra effort or not.
How did you get rid of the niceness?
Youseenmywork
KING
Well I take it a day at a time. This is the first year I've just been selfish. I would say put your goals and ambitions first. It sounds corny but if you build it they will come. Women are dream killers. You don't want the responsibility of a guy that married before you do what you want with you life. You must love yourself more than the women. Everything else is secondary. Remember women are born with all the innate value. They are born with all the eggs they will every have and the beauty...keep in mind they didn't earn it. A man must earn his value. That's why if you work on yourself and push yourself to the limit your better than a lot of women. It not going to be easy trust but it is worth it. I'm not saying don't talk to women until your life is perfect but a women should be an addition to your life NOT the main focus.
Man why the hell you preaching like this during the storm.
I'm trying to master myself while me and my girl give each other space but it's hard bro. Real shyt
reserved_one
#Ambivertgang
Its so easy for females to hide their flaws and reshape their looks to appear perfect these days. Social Media can be a gift and a curse. I recently just got fooled by one who looked pretty good in her photos (nothing incredible, but attractive still). Man, when I went outside to greet her when she pulled up and saw her step out to car tho.
My reaction went from
To.....(after seeing her walk around her jeep)
To.....(After seeing her actual face and body)
And then the realization of knowing I was fooled
Me on the inside while were hanging out
She's the same chick I seen in the photos but a more bulky, chunky version with no slim waist to speak of. I got love for bbw's....but their not my main preference and this one, her looks just wasn't doing it for me. But on the flip side, she cool as fukk....just likes to be aggressive and shyt. She thought I was softer than baby hair, so I had to wrestle with her for a lil bit to shut her up.But after the next day came, I was ready for her to bounce. It had snowed that morning and thought I would be stuck with her for a few more days.
I don't know if I'm going to continue to talk to this one
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My reaction went from
To.....(after seeing her walk around her jeep)
To.....(After seeing her actual face and body)
And then the realization of knowing I was fooled
Me on the inside while were hanging out
She's the same chick I seen in the photos but a more bulky, chunky version with no slim waist to speak of. I got love for bbw's....but their not my main preference and this one, her looks just wasn't doing it for me. But on the flip side, she cool as fukk....just likes to be aggressive and shyt. She thought I was softer than baby hair, so I had to wrestle with her for a lil bit to shut her up.But after the next day came, I was ready for her to bounce. It had snowed that morning and thought I would be stuck with her for a few more days.
I don't know if I'm going to continue to talk to this one
.Women in the Workplace....
The amount of fukkery that occurs in the walls of workplaces are just
The innocent ones get Turnt Out
The ones with baby daddy issues are getting their guts throttled
The amount of fukkery that occurs in the walls of workplaces are just
The innocent ones get Turnt Out
The ones with baby daddy issues are getting their guts throttled
Its so easy for females to hide their flaws and reshape their looks to appear perfect these days. Social Media can be a gift and a curse. I recently just got fooled by one who looked pretty good in her photos (nothing incredible, but attractive still). Man, when I went outside to greet her when she pulled up and saw her step out to car tho.
My reaction went from
To.....(after seeing her walk around her jeep)
To.....(After seeing her actual face and body)
And then the realization of knowing I was fooled
Me on the inside while were hanging out
She's the same chick I seen in the photos but a more bulky, chunky version with no slim waist to speak of. I got love for bbw's....but their not my main preference and this one, her looks just wasn't doing it for me. But on the flip side, she cool as fukk....just likes to be aggressive and shyt. She thought I was softer than baby hair, so I had to wrestle with her for a lil bit to shut her up.But after the next day came, I was ready for her to bounce. It had snowed that morning and thought I would be stuck with her for a few more days.
I don't know if I'm going to continue to talk to this one
Dont let her cook you a meal..thats how they trap you
Youseenmywork
KING
reserved_one
#Ambivertgang
Dont let her cook you a meal..thats how they trap you
I don't even know if she can cook...but yeah your right.
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
did she use heavy filters in her pictures?Its so easy for females to hide their flaws and reshape their looks to appear perfect these days. Social Media can be a gift and a curse. I recently just got fooled by one who looked pretty good in her photos (nothing incredible, but attractive still). Man, when I went outside to greet her when she pulled up and saw her step out to car tho.
My reaction went from
To.....(after seeing her walk around her jeep)
To.....(After seeing her actual face and body)
And then the realization of knowing I was fooled
Me on the inside while were hanging out
She's the same chick I seen in the photos but a more bulky, chunky version with no slim waist to speak of. I got love for bbw's....but their not my main preference and this one, her looks just wasn't doing it for me. But on the flip side, she cool as fukk....just likes to be aggressive and shyt. She thought I was softer than baby hair, so I had to wrestle with her for a lil bit to shut her up.But after the next day came, I was ready for her to bounce. It had snowed that morning and thought I would be stuck with her for a few more days.
I don't know if I'm going to continue to talk to this one