Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Did some detective work on this girl
Played college ball, confirmed her claims of having 2 masters degrees on LinkedIn :skip:

Got me looking forward to seeing her this weekend :snoop: :cape:

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Am i being irrattional getting pissy that that i havent seen my gf in a week and shes flaking on me to go buy groceries? Yold me to come over tomorrow and then whrn I asked you still want me to come through she says not really :leostare: Mind you she lives at home and her mom is affluent and they literally have two fridges worth of food at all times. She pretty much blew me off to mope on tumblr all night tbh.
 

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I've been walking a thin line fellas....new girl I'm talking to I've been fcking raw every session. I just wipe off the pre cum or when I do cum I pull out wipe it out eat/finger blast her for a bit before going in for some more.




:( p*ssy just feels too good for me to gk back to condoms but the chances of this b*tch getting pregnant are eating me up...I need her to hop on birth control asap
Dont play with your life breh, you barely know her. I got a new girl, she hesitant about birth control, im still fukking her with a condom. Child support aint a joke, I got dudes at my work, before they receieve their pay, child support has already taken couple hundreds before they see it.
 

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Meanwhile I'm still in limbo with my chick....

I'm knee deep in "I need space" talks


Who is actually requesting the space?

I suggest you start going out with your boys, meet new women, fix an online profile to meet new women etc.

If you can remember I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago, I had a 21 year old lined up weeks before the relationship was over. The 21 year old is really helping me see what I had with my ex was trash. 21 year old chick taking me dinners, she pays for it, giving me mad affection n massages while I watch First 48. My ex wouldnt give me any affection breh, couldnt remember times she last gave me kisses or hugs.

I still miss my ex at times, but I accept the relationship was dead. Chick wasnt not showing me any affection or anything.Its the best decisio I made. If it dont work out with this young thing, it has at least taught me what I want in a relationship.
 
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Am i being irrattional getting pissy that that i havent seen my gf in a week and shes flaking on me to go buy groceries? Yold me to come over tomorrow and then whrn I asked you still want me to come through she says not really :leostare: Mind you she lives at home and her mom is affluent and they literally have two fridges worth of food at all times. She pretty much blew me off to mope on tumblr all night tbh.
You aint tripping bro, thats mad suspect. Is she overprotective over her phone? I think there is someone in her ear.
 

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You aint tripping bro, thats mad suspect. Is she overprotective over her phone? I think there is someone in her ear.
Naw not really, she took her password off it recenly even. Im sure she aint cheating but ahe a headcase at times. Its killing me cuz Im a good dude have mad money (no bs 6 cert 6 foot coli shyt) but Im comfortable with a nice chunk. Educated and get passes from bytches regularly while being a lil manlet :mjlol:

But at the same time im a loyal dude. I also have a huge problem with chicks not showing they appreciate your effort. Like shes not working atm, I know shes at home being a feminazi on tumblr or watching netflix. So its like social media>>>zeus

I aint feeling it man. Especily whem for all intents and purposes loyal nikkas with they shyt together is a rare commodity nowadays a lot hoes would kill for. Idk brehs.
 

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Need some advice bros.

Am I wrong for thinking that there is no point in having female friends?

I find it a waste of my time to actively try to be friends with a girl.

Even less if it's a girl I wanted to hit at but she curved me.

Now I'm not saying I'm rude to females, but I won't put effort into making them my friend. If we click and we develop a friendship that's cool but I won't go out of my way for it.

Am I a$$hole for thinking this?

For example in college I have this cute girl in one of my classes. I always teased her on shyt and would try to talk to her a lot.

Ended up getting her number but I can tell that she isn't feeling me by the amount of time it takes her to text back and the stuff she says.

So today in class I kept my talkin with her to a minimum and acted hella dry no energy.

I texted her again today with a flirty text throwing her that life-line but she didn't bite.

I'm thinking to just cut her off entirely.

What do you think?
 

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Need some advice bros.

Am I wrong for thinking that there is no point in having female friends?

I find it a waste of my time to actively try to be friends with a girl.

Even less if it's a girl I wanted to hit at but she curved me.

Now I'm not saying I'm rude to females, but I won't put effort into making them my friend. If we click and we develop a friendship that's cool but I won't go out of my way for it.

Am I a$$hole for thinking this?

For example in college I have this cute girl in one of my classes. I always teased her on shyt and would try to talk to her a lot.

Ended up getting her number but I can tell that she isn't feeling me by the amount of time it takes her to text back and the stuff she says.

So today in class I kept my talkin with her to a minimum and acted hella dry no energy.

I texted her again today with a flirty text throwing her that life-line but she didn't bite.

I'm thinking to just cut her off entirely.

What do you think?

You're confusing two different games -- one you are trying to holler at girls and smash, the other you trying to be her friend if she denies you. there is no in between bruh. Its one or the other. Girls will always think you trying to smash even if you arent. :francis:. Why you even trying to friend a girl who denied you, thats thirsty :whoo:
 

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You're confusing two different games -- one you are trying to holler at girls and smash, the other you trying to be her friend if she denies you. there is no in between bruh. Its one or the other. Girls will always think you trying to smash even if you arent. :francis:. Why you even trying to friend a girl who denied you, thats thirsty :whoo:

But if I have her in my class you still saying to just cut her off completely?
 

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But if I have her in my class you still saying to just cut her off completely?
Yes. only respond if spoken to. Shes not interested at this point in time, but who knows you might see her around again.

If you really want her, you would have to flirt with other girls to get her to notice other women are attracted to you, and that might spark her interest. Otherwise just let it be and move on, stop texting her.
 

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Appreciate the advice Bruh.

It's just mad frustrating sometimes, girls be playing mad games.

I feel like I do everything right, I'm nice, tease them, feel like I can hold good conversation but girls aren't that responsive to a brother.

Then I see someone else treat them like an object, and directly tell them upfront when we fukking and the girls eat that shyt up.

Maybe I gotta be more aggressive and forward?

Sometimes I think I'm too nice, but girls already assume I'm a player so I don't wanna give off too much a try hard vibe.
 
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