He had every right to get mad when she told him that ex was just a friend, but he found out she was still chopping it up with a guy who used to run a train on her. Not everybody is built to understand the deception that these women are capable of, and you can often find evidence of it on this very forum with all them cats that try to shame cats speaking the real... talking about you are bitter, you are angry, you are this, you are that.
Naw, I'd be bitter or angry if I actually ended up wifing one of these go-getters who I found got another man in the background, and we get divorced, she gets half and I end up having to subsidize her sleeping with another dude. I'd be bitter if I had to pay all this child support, of which only a tiny portion is going towards the child, while she uses the rest on purses and shoes, but when the kid needs something she tries to tell the kid, 'daddy isn't sending the money... he's a loser,' all the while knowing SHE is spending the money on HERSELF. I'm quite content having to deal with NONE of that. These young'ns better listen up before ya'll get put in a situation that will make you bitter for real.
I do agree that once put on to the real, you stop taking these women seriously. She's probably did every nasty thing in the book with another guy or several guys, whether it's getting bent over in the bathroom by some guy she met in the club or letting some loser type dude pop one off on her face... These women probably have done it with several guys, but a man is supposed to rush to wife that up? They are doing every nasty thing in the book to one negro, but then trying to charge another man. You do not want to be the latter negro, doing all this work while she rewards a man who does nothing for her.
This is why men need to stop tripping on what women think and realize their own value. Does she like my shoes? Does she like how I'm spitting at her? Does she like the restaurant I'm taking her? Naw mane, get that mess out of here. The attitude you need is either she likes where I'm going and what I'm doing or she can get her butt on. What in the world are you caring or attempting to cater to the tastes of these go-getters who will let all kinds of men do whatever they want to them?
Now what WILL happen is these women will shoot little tests to see if you're a sucker negro that will go for that... see if you can be manipulated into being their provider. More likely, these days the kind of women you are dealing with ain't going to do but bring nothing but her problems to your life, but when things get bad for you, she'll be peeling off. So what real value is she bringing to the table?
That's what's such a trip about it. The man brings most of the value to the table, but these women want to act all discerning and be having the audacity to complain about free meals and not getting gifts and all sorts of things. They ain't bringing anything that will tangibly benefit a man, but expect a man to go around chasing them? Get out of here with that nonsense. She is lucky you are even talking to her. When it comes to dating, more times than not, a man that commits is bringing a liability into his life. On the other hand, a woman is getting an asset.
When's the last time a woman protected you? Really listened to your problems and helped you out? Just really had a stimulating conversation that elevated your mind? Really made you laugh on a consistent basis? On the other hand, they want you to bring that to the table and more. That's like asking me to exchange my dollar for your penny. If you a sucker type dude, you will do it, but if you ain't, you'll say I'm cool on that.
Where your real power as a man comes from is realizing and recognizing that you are indeed the asset and telling those who try to give you a penny for your dollar to beat it. You are the real asset, but a lot of you have been deluded into being charged like you're the liability. Man, what's even sadder about it is that the sucker of a man that gives the woman his dollar will be the one she kicks off a cliff, while the one who gives her nothing but the vapors is the one she will be rushing to not only give her penny to, but the dollar she got off the sucker. Reflect on that.
