Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

RealAssanova

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brehs.....tinder is :snoop:

i really don't get it. Hoes match with me....i hit em up...and they don't respond.

or

we conversate and when i ask for their number to kick it, they go ghost then unmatch me later on.

i matched with this 29 year old black chick from Cali here for all-star weekend. BREHS...THE TITTIES :whoo::whoo:

i think they were triple f's or g's....my god. :whew::ohlawd:

so she hit me up....and we conversated....said she came outchea with her brother and his friend...but they flyin out tomorrow and she leavin on tuesday. so she gonne be by herself....i said :gladbron:i gotta fukk the shyt outta ole girl. She talmbout takin her to drakes restaurant :bryan::childplease: told her we can link up, sight see, eat and go back to the telly. She said she ain't with the telly cuz she's alone, she don't know me like that and she is in the city by herself. Said aii and figured i'll run my game better in person and lower her defenses then. She gave me her number but her data was off so i said i'll hit u up tomorrow on the app and she agreed.

10 mins later shorty unmatched me. :mindblown:

app is terrible. Why the hell u gonne gimme your number then go ghost or unmatch me?:why:

i think its game over for the app. Hoes just using it for attention and time wasting.
 

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So vday yesterday was pretty good. I'm dating a home visiting nurse and what impressed me most is that she tried her best to run through her day and get to me as quickly as possible. I appreciate effort from people in general because if I care, I try to do my best for my friends and fam. Anyway, not only did she scoop me up the whip, we went to dinner and the movies on her dime. I gave her the tea maker which is she was surprised and adored it. Says its better than the run of the mill gifts and it's something she would use. Only been a month but Ima take things slow and hopefully it builds to something. One thing I really like is: no IG no Facebook, rather call than text, when we are together, total attention to what we doing. She not on the phone texting or taking a bunch of dumb selfies. I found an ol school kinda woman.
 

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So vday yesterday was pretty good. I'm dating a home visiting nurse and what impressed me most is that she tried her best to run through her day and get to me as quickly as possible. I appreciate effort from people in general because if I care, I try to do my best for my friends and fam. Anyway, not only did she scoop me up the whip, we went to dinner and the movies on her dime. I gave her the tea maker which is she was surprised and adored it. Says its better than the run of the mill gifts and it's something she would use. Only been a month but Ima take things slow and hopefully it builds to something. One thing I really like is: no IG no Facebook, rather call than text, when we are together, total attention to what we doing. She not on the phone texting or taking a bunch of dumb selfies. I found an ol school kinda woman.

:banderas:
 

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Valentines day alone but the had a chick in hotel the day before, she wanna see me again was suprised :ehh:

Was giving it that "Im not one of those girls you can just meet to fukk, you dont know me well enough" after I told her straight up I aint gonna book a hotel if you aint gonna let me smash.:stopitslime:

I managed to smooth it all over with some sweet talk.

However even when I was at the hotel, I was like "this is a waste of time she aint gonna let me smash...wish I cancelled":beli:

Well all that i aint one of those girls talk went out the window I guess
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I enjoyed her company, she cool
 

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Was texting this old girl from high school for the past three days trying to get back in her radar.

The conversation lead to karaoke and she says that she loves doing it and gave me the names of some places around where we live to do it.

I took the opportunity to tell her that I'm down and that we should go do karaoke together one of these days trying to set up that hang out.

Anyways, it's been almost 24 hours and my message has been left on delivered (she has read receipts so she hasn't seen it) but her Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchat are poppin.

I know she curving me and ignoring the message on purpose.

If you're gonna ignore my message at least read it...don't leave it on delivered and waste my time too smh.

Females man -.-
 

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Was texting this old girl from high school for the past three days trying to get back in her radar.

The conversation lead to karaoke and she says that she loves doing it and gave me the names of some places around where we live to do it.

I took the opportunity to tell her that I'm down and that we should go do karaoke together one of these days trying to set up that hang out.

Anyways, it's been almost 24 hours and my message has been left on delivered (she has read receipts so she hasn't seen it) but her Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchat are poppin.

I know she curving me and ignoring the message on purpose.

If you're gonna ignore my message at least read it...don't leave it on delivered and waste my time too smh.

Females man -.-

that is why she ain't hit u up. You don't try for women. That is counter-productive.

and 3 days fam? :francis:

delete that number, brush your shoulders off and get on with your life. When she hits u up, do not even read the message, just delete it. And i say that so you don't get suckered back in.

if someone does something bad, do you reward them? no. She did something disrespectful which means she gets nothing from you in return (aka attention).
 

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that is why she ain't hit u up. You don't try for women. That is counter-productive.

and 3 days fam? :francis:

delete that number, brush your shoulders off and get on with your life. When she hits u up, do not even read the message, just delete it. And i say that so you don't get suckered back in.

if someone does something bad, do you reward them? no. She did something disrespectful which means she gets nothing from you in return (aka attention).

Appreciate it.

It wasn't so much as me trying but I hit her up asking for song recommendations and just kept the conversation going.

And it was more like two days of texting but your advice still applies.

I don't wanna drop her but you gotta do what you gotta do sometimes.
 

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Appreciate it.

It wasn't so much as me trying but I hit her up asking for song recommendations and just kept the conversation going.

And it was more like two days of texting but your advice still applies.

I don't wanna drop her but you gotta do what you gotta do sometimes.

that is the part you gotta fight. That little bit of hope that something good might happen. Yeah, crush that.

@Reinscarf said it best...why give a girl a 2nd chance when there is another outthere dying for her 1st.
 

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So vday yesterday was pretty good. I'm dating a home visiting nurse and what impressed me most is that she tried her best to run through her day and get to me as quickly as possible. I appreciate effort from people in general because if I care, I try to do my best for my friends and fam. Anyway, not only did she scoop me up the whip, we went to dinner and the movies on her dime. I gave her the tea maker which is she was surprised and adored it. Says its better than the run of the mill gifts and it's something she would use. Only been a month but Ima take things slow and hopefully it builds to something. One thing I really like is: no IG no Facebook, rather call than text, when we are together, total attention to what we doing. She not on the phone texting or taking a bunch of dumb selfies. I found an ol school kinda woman.
Nicce 1,Thats how relationships are suppossed to be. :obama:
 

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So vday yesterday was pretty good. I'm dating a home visiting nurse and what impressed me most is that she tried her best to run through her day and get to me as quickly as possible. I appreciate effort from people in general because if I care, I try to do my best for my friends and fam. Anyway, not only did she scoop me up the whip, we went to dinner and the movies on her dime. I gave her the tea maker which is she was surprised and adored it. Says its better than the run of the mill gifts and it's something she would use. Only been a month but Ima take things slow and hopefully it builds to something. One thing I really like is: no IG no Facebook, rather call than text, when we are together, total attention to what we doing. She not on the phone texting or taking a bunch of dumb selfies. I found an ol school kinda woman.
creativity, attentiveness to her, and something she needed

:salute: thats exactly how gift giving is done
 

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Any of yaw still live at home?

how have you brought a chic over and finessed it so that no one in the house is paying attention to yaw?
 
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Any of yaw still live at home?

how have you brought a chic over and finessed it so that no one in the house is paying attention to yaw?

I still live at home. How do I deal with this problem? I make sure every chic I get has her own place. Or if you can't manage that invest in some tinted windows for your car.
 
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