Now my friends, we are continuing on with the previous post of why I don't play around with these western women
8) Shame game, foul mouth, emotional manipulation
- For some reason, men here in the west believe they need to deal with this, as if it is a part of the rite of being a man. They don't see it coming as they progress deeper into relationship territory because it's the frog in a boiling pot syndrome. The awesome conversations and deep affection of the initial meetings slowly, but surely get replaced with forms of nagging and complaining of different sorts. It could be a perfectly beautiful day, birds chirping, breeze is blowing, but she will complain to you because the birds chirping are too loud.
You can have all the bills paid for her, make sure she doesn't have a worry in the world, but she will go bring back something her 'homegirl's man did' and how she wants you to do it.
Real talk, if men said half the things that a comfortable woman said, he would be labelled a monster and emotionally abusive. Once you're down, she can call you a loser, a little boy, somebody that needs a job... even if you happened to have gotten injured or handicapped trying to earn a living. You're all at fault and some kind of loser who needs to get a job and you're ruining her lifestyle. She's off in the wind.
You're working hard every day, providing, coming home not causing any drama, but she will still complain about you not being home enough. She will complain about there not being enough passion.
When a woman knows she is at fault and doing something fraudulent, she won't admit it, but rather use some nonsensical shaming language. She has two tactics. An attempt to destroy your ego and 'flipping the script'.
If you don't do what she likes or agree with the line of rationale she thinks you should be thinking, you are a 'little boy', you need to 'man up', you are angry, you are bitter, you aren't getting laid, etc. If you aren't prepared and you actually put your self-worth on what a woman thinks, you will be easily manipulated by this. "I'm sorry baby, you're right, I need to step it up. You are indeed my better half and make me step it up!" That's the sucka response. The real man's response: "..." She gets no response, because nonsense isn't worth responding to... and if she persists, she's gone.
Now flipping the script is another common tactic by women for them justify to employing out of pocket behavior. For instance, she may have all these 'homeboys' aka her roster, and you check her on it and let her know it's not conducive towards building a successful relationship, which it isn't, she will 'flip the script', and accuse you of being insecure and not trusting her.
You want her to sign a pre-nup, which is a contingent policy, similar to insurance? "No, I absolutely will NOT sign THAT! UGHHH You're offending me. You're planning for the relationship to fail from the get-go. So disgusting." "Yeah babygirl, getting car insurance is you basically guaranteeing and increasing the risk that you get in a car wreck. That maks a lot of sense." But really, do you think babygirl won't make you sign a pre-nup if she made significantly more than you? More than not she wouldn't even consider marrying you.
You find her cheating via email, facebook, etc. "OMG I can't believe you were spying on me! How could you???? I feel so violated." Simp negro response, "I'm sorry baby, you were right, I should have respected your privacy. Can we give this another shot and make it work?" Real dude response "Well babygirl don't worry about me "spying" on you anymore, because there isn't any more me and you anymore. Have a great day."
9) Hiding behind them laws
- So many of these women want to provoke conflicts and talk about being respected as a man, but when it's time to face the repercussions, they will be quick to hide behind their nonsensical explanations and get the laws involved. She regretted the sex or got busted cheating while in a relationship? Time to call the laws and get a man hemmed up because 'he raped her.'
She wants to scream, yell, act erratic, throw your property around, bust up your car, put her hands on you, but you corral that and she'll call them laws talking about you 'put your hands on her.'
Thing is, you don't even do anything to hurt her at all, but she will take you to court to get you to pay her money via divorce proceedings, alimony and child support.
10) Not an ounce of femininity until it gets real
- These women be out here cursing like sailors, acting like they want to square up with a man, etc., until they get that butt whipped. Think of the Mcdonalds incident. Those women were acting crazy, calling dude behind the counter all kinds of names and pushed him. Then they went back behind the counter to put them hands on him and he gave them male repercussions. It wasn't so sweet then.
- Some of these lesbians be trying to get in a dude's face at the club, bouncing around like she's going to throw hands. She comes across the wrong one and is on the receiving end of that one two checkkkkaaa and she's on the ground rolling around talking about 'how could you hit a girl?'
11) Treating her man is degrading. Degrading behavior is liberating.
Apparently being submissive and supporting your man is a bad thing and degrading, but clapping your booty cheeks, sucking off some thug in the parking lot, getting tattoos everywhere and drinking until you pass out is female liberation. Taking on your man's last name in a marriage without putting a dash and your last name is disrespectful, but bending over the desk for her boss at work isn't.
Oh yeah, don't respect your man, but make sure to make yourself available to do any nasty thing when a musician comes to town. Make sure to make slick remarks when your favorite musician comes on television in front of your man. "MMmmm mmmm girl he can get me pregnant any time!" "OOOOOO he can GET IT. I'd do anything for him."
11) No reward for the decent man.
- The decent man gets to deal with all her problems and responsibilities. The loser and the noncommitted man gets the best of the only reward she brings to the table. She expects 'her man' to support her if she loses her job or decides to quick her job to 'go to school' for a psychology degree... but if he loses his job? See ya later bud. You need to 'man up'. "He needs to listen to my problems all the day long.' He has a problem? "Ughhh he is so weak. He needs to man up."
Tell her to 'woman up'? "Ugggghh you are so sexist. Disgusting little angry, bitter boy.
12) Loyalty? What's that?
No explanation really needed.
13) Wild animal escaped from the zoo! You better go handle that!
Women will take their magical paintbrush and paint over all of their negative qualities into a picture we call 'strong, independent, opinionated' woman. She doesn't have to bring anything to the table and men need to put up with it because she's equal to a man, strong and opinionated, and if they don't accept it, they just don't know how to handle the queen that she is. The reality is that wild animals and children need handling. Grown, responsible and decent adults don't need to be handled.
14) Welcome back to school. Here goes your test.
- Instead of bringing the attitude of ,"What can I do to make this relationship the best possible", women will bring a bunch of tests to see what negative behavior she can get away with. If you let it slide, then she will escalate that negative behavior into something worse until she 'loses respect for you', in effect blaming you for her trashy actions. But you DO decide to check her on that? Prepare for the arguments and manufactured drama. "UGGGHHH You don't want to let me hang out with my homies? So insecure."
15) I want the perfect man. Ugh, the perfect man? He's too perfect and that's boring.
No matter what you do, a woman will have an 'out' and blame you for it. You spend too much time with her and in her mind she was justified in cheating because you were smothering her. Don't spend enough time with her because you're giving her space and working to build for a future? She cheats because you weren't there enough. Show your emotions because she wants a man that's more sensitive? You're weak and need to man-up. Don't show her emotions? You are insensitive to her needs and she needs someone to show her more affection.
16) Let's wrap this up into a package I call the 'ticking time bomb'
- Babygirl is fine now and the conversation is cool, but you've been through the routine enough times. You're just waiting for her to get comfortable to where she decides to 'let go' and puts on about 50 lbs., starts letting those hidden problems come out, starts coming with the attitude, etc. Get committed? Prepare to deal with the bipolar personalities, possible drug problems, constant favors, entitlement, getting the laws involved even if she starts the problem, etc.
I could add more, but you get the point. IN reality, what in the world are men tripping over these western women for? The reason is you have so many simp negroes or just unaware negroes out there vying for women's attention despite them bringing so much more to the table. Women are good at holding out and manipulation, getting these men to pay a dollar for their penny. But real men of value realize their worth and don't go for that. Why is her vagina so valuable that you are actually gameplanning and strategizing to get it, and on top of that, willing to put up with all of the aforementioned problems I've just described? Why are you putting in all of this effort and dealing with all of this abuse to get something that billions of other women on this planet have and that western women are handing out like candy? Because you've been brainwashed with simpdom and have been taught to accept this terrible behavior because 'that's just women', and you need to 'man up' and learn how to handle this 'strong, independent, opinionated' woman.
The reality of the situation is that you shouldn't be doing anything other than being you. The problem si so many men put their self value on what a woman thinks. Cut that out. These are the same women that will let a negro that just get out the pen blaze her thing up... Why in the world are you valuing her judgment like that? The bottom line attitude you need to have is she either needs to get with what you are doing or get on. No more catering, pampering, or any of that. She should be grateful to talk to YOU with all that you realistically bring to the table. If she flakes, forget her at lightning speed and move on. You ever notice how women stay following women and despite being 'oh so oppressed' by men, they don't want to let the men leave the country and get with women from other countries who might not have such a stank attitude? This is because realistically, YOU have the power, but you've allowed manipulation, brainwashing and other such mechanisms skew your reality and tell you that you don't have no power, but that 'coochie runs the world' or some such nonsense. It only runs you if you allow it to... which ultimately comes down to how you choose to think and act as a man. Stop gameplanning for and trying to chase all this coochie and stop trying to impress these women. The real deal is that what she has is as common as the beach. What you DO need to be maintaining is proper behavior and attitude and if she fails to give you that, she has to go. Stop keeping her around and tolerating that disrespectful behavior because she might give you a shot of vagina. Your self-respect is worth WAY more than that, as is peace of mind. Once you get out of the emotional haze, you will see what I'm talking about. Instead of being concerned with what the woman thinks of any move you might make, think of BEING REAL and standing on principle.... and the bottom line is she can get aboard your drama-free ship or she can stay on dry land and save those problems for her momma. On the other hand, you, as a man, should be enjoying life regardless of what a woman is doing or thinking. They are not your source of joy. They are an addition, and if their net benefit isn't more joy than problems, cut them and keep on living swell. The real deal is she should be grateful to YOU for speaking to her and dealing with her. Don't let these women take you for less than you are worth as a man of value. Don't give up your dollar for a penny. Maintain your value as opposed to chasing that vagina.
8) Shame game, foul mouth, emotional manipulation
- For some reason, men here in the west believe they need to deal with this, as if it is a part of the rite of being a man. They don't see it coming as they progress deeper into relationship territory because it's the frog in a boiling pot syndrome. The awesome conversations and deep affection of the initial meetings slowly, but surely get replaced with forms of nagging and complaining of different sorts. It could be a perfectly beautiful day, birds chirping, breeze is blowing, but she will complain to you because the birds chirping are too loud.
You can have all the bills paid for her, make sure she doesn't have a worry in the world, but she will go bring back something her 'homegirl's man did' and how she wants you to do it.
Real talk, if men said half the things that a comfortable woman said, he would be labelled a monster and emotionally abusive. Once you're down, she can call you a loser, a little boy, somebody that needs a job... even if you happened to have gotten injured or handicapped trying to earn a living. You're all at fault and some kind of loser who needs to get a job and you're ruining her lifestyle. She's off in the wind.
You're working hard every day, providing, coming home not causing any drama, but she will still complain about you not being home enough. She will complain about there not being enough passion.
When a woman knows she is at fault and doing something fraudulent, she won't admit it, but rather use some nonsensical shaming language. She has two tactics. An attempt to destroy your ego and 'flipping the script'.
If you don't do what she likes or agree with the line of rationale she thinks you should be thinking, you are a 'little boy', you need to 'man up', you are angry, you are bitter, you aren't getting laid, etc. If you aren't prepared and you actually put your self-worth on what a woman thinks, you will be easily manipulated by this. "I'm sorry baby, you're right, I need to step it up. You are indeed my better half and make me step it up!" That's the sucka response. The real man's response: "..." She gets no response, because nonsense isn't worth responding to... and if she persists, she's gone.
Now flipping the script is another common tactic by women for them justify to employing out of pocket behavior. For instance, she may have all these 'homeboys' aka her roster, and you check her on it and let her know it's not conducive towards building a successful relationship, which it isn't, she will 'flip the script', and accuse you of being insecure and not trusting her.
You want her to sign a pre-nup, which is a contingent policy, similar to insurance? "No, I absolutely will NOT sign THAT! UGHHH You're offending me. You're planning for the relationship to fail from the get-go. So disgusting." "Yeah babygirl, getting car insurance is you basically guaranteeing and increasing the risk that you get in a car wreck. That maks a lot of sense." But really, do you think babygirl won't make you sign a pre-nup if she made significantly more than you? More than not she wouldn't even consider marrying you.
You find her cheating via email, facebook, etc. "OMG I can't believe you were spying on me! How could you???? I feel so violated." Simp negro response, "I'm sorry baby, you were right, I should have respected your privacy. Can we give this another shot and make it work?" Real dude response "Well babygirl don't worry about me "spying" on you anymore, because there isn't any more me and you anymore. Have a great day."
9) Hiding behind them laws
- So many of these women want to provoke conflicts and talk about being respected as a man, but when it's time to face the repercussions, they will be quick to hide behind their nonsensical explanations and get the laws involved. She regretted the sex or got busted cheating while in a relationship? Time to call the laws and get a man hemmed up because 'he raped her.'
She wants to scream, yell, act erratic, throw your property around, bust up your car, put her hands on you, but you corral that and she'll call them laws talking about you 'put your hands on her.'
Thing is, you don't even do anything to hurt her at all, but she will take you to court to get you to pay her money via divorce proceedings, alimony and child support.
10) Not an ounce of femininity until it gets real
- These women be out here cursing like sailors, acting like they want to square up with a man, etc., until they get that butt whipped. Think of the Mcdonalds incident. Those women were acting crazy, calling dude behind the counter all kinds of names and pushed him. Then they went back behind the counter to put them hands on him and he gave them male repercussions. It wasn't so sweet then.
- Some of these lesbians be trying to get in a dude's face at the club, bouncing around like she's going to throw hands. She comes across the wrong one and is on the receiving end of that one two checkkkkaaa and she's on the ground rolling around talking about 'how could you hit a girl?'
11) Treating her man is degrading. Degrading behavior is liberating.
Apparently being submissive and supporting your man is a bad thing and degrading, but clapping your booty cheeks, sucking off some thug in the parking lot, getting tattoos everywhere and drinking until you pass out is female liberation. Taking on your man's last name in a marriage without putting a dash and your last name is disrespectful, but bending over the desk for her boss at work isn't.
Oh yeah, don't respect your man, but make sure to make yourself available to do any nasty thing when a musician comes to town. Make sure to make slick remarks when your favorite musician comes on television in front of your man. "MMmmm mmmm girl he can get me pregnant any time!" "OOOOOO he can GET IT. I'd do anything for him."
11) No reward for the decent man.
- The decent man gets to deal with all her problems and responsibilities. The loser and the noncommitted man gets the best of the only reward she brings to the table. She expects 'her man' to support her if she loses her job or decides to quick her job to 'go to school' for a psychology degree... but if he loses his job? See ya later bud. You need to 'man up'. "He needs to listen to my problems all the day long.' He has a problem? "Ughhh he is so weak. He needs to man up."
Tell her to 'woman up'? "Ugggghh you are so sexist. Disgusting little angry, bitter boy.
12) Loyalty? What's that?
No explanation really needed.
13) Wild animal escaped from the zoo! You better go handle that!
Women will take their magical paintbrush and paint over all of their negative qualities into a picture we call 'strong, independent, opinionated' woman. She doesn't have to bring anything to the table and men need to put up with it because she's equal to a man, strong and opinionated, and if they don't accept it, they just don't know how to handle the queen that she is. The reality is that wild animals and children need handling. Grown, responsible and decent adults don't need to be handled.
14) Welcome back to school. Here goes your test.
- Instead of bringing the attitude of ,"What can I do to make this relationship the best possible", women will bring a bunch of tests to see what negative behavior she can get away with. If you let it slide, then she will escalate that negative behavior into something worse until she 'loses respect for you', in effect blaming you for her trashy actions. But you DO decide to check her on that? Prepare for the arguments and manufactured drama. "UGGGHHH You don't want to let me hang out with my homies? So insecure."
15) I want the perfect man. Ugh, the perfect man? He's too perfect and that's boring.
No matter what you do, a woman will have an 'out' and blame you for it. You spend too much time with her and in her mind she was justified in cheating because you were smothering her. Don't spend enough time with her because you're giving her space and working to build for a future? She cheats because you weren't there enough. Show your emotions because she wants a man that's more sensitive? You're weak and need to man-up. Don't show her emotions? You are insensitive to her needs and she needs someone to show her more affection.
16) Let's wrap this up into a package I call the 'ticking time bomb'
- Babygirl is fine now and the conversation is cool, but you've been through the routine enough times. You're just waiting for her to get comfortable to where she decides to 'let go' and puts on about 50 lbs., starts letting those hidden problems come out, starts coming with the attitude, etc. Get committed? Prepare to deal with the bipolar personalities, possible drug problems, constant favors, entitlement, getting the laws involved even if she starts the problem, etc.
I could add more, but you get the point. IN reality, what in the world are men tripping over these western women for? The reason is you have so many simp negroes or just unaware negroes out there vying for women's attention despite them bringing so much more to the table. Women are good at holding out and manipulation, getting these men to pay a dollar for their penny. But real men of value realize their worth and don't go for that. Why is her vagina so valuable that you are actually gameplanning and strategizing to get it, and on top of that, willing to put up with all of the aforementioned problems I've just described? Why are you putting in all of this effort and dealing with all of this abuse to get something that billions of other women on this planet have and that western women are handing out like candy? Because you've been brainwashed with simpdom and have been taught to accept this terrible behavior because 'that's just women', and you need to 'man up' and learn how to handle this 'strong, independent, opinionated' woman.
The reality of the situation is that you shouldn't be doing anything other than being you. The problem si so many men put their self value on what a woman thinks. Cut that out. These are the same women that will let a negro that just get out the pen blaze her thing up... Why in the world are you valuing her judgment like that? The bottom line attitude you need to have is she either needs to get with what you are doing or get on. No more catering, pampering, or any of that. She should be grateful to talk to YOU with all that you realistically bring to the table. If she flakes, forget her at lightning speed and move on. You ever notice how women stay following women and despite being 'oh so oppressed' by men, they don't want to let the men leave the country and get with women from other countries who might not have such a stank attitude? This is because realistically, YOU have the power, but you've allowed manipulation, brainwashing and other such mechanisms skew your reality and tell you that you don't have no power, but that 'coochie runs the world' or some such nonsense. It only runs you if you allow it to... which ultimately comes down to how you choose to think and act as a man. Stop gameplanning for and trying to chase all this coochie and stop trying to impress these women. The real deal is that what she has is as common as the beach. What you DO need to be maintaining is proper behavior and attitude and if she fails to give you that, she has to go. Stop keeping her around and tolerating that disrespectful behavior because she might give you a shot of vagina. Your self-respect is worth WAY more than that, as is peace of mind. Once you get out of the emotional haze, you will see what I'm talking about. Instead of being concerned with what the woman thinks of any move you might make, think of BEING REAL and standing on principle.... and the bottom line is she can get aboard your drama-free ship or she can stay on dry land and save those problems for her momma. On the other hand, you, as a man, should be enjoying life regardless of what a woman is doing or thinking. They are not your source of joy. They are an addition, and if their net benefit isn't more joy than problems, cut them and keep on living swell. The real deal is she should be grateful to YOU for speaking to her and dealing with her. Don't let these women take you for less than you are worth as a man of value. Don't give up your dollar for a penny. Maintain your value as opposed to chasing that vagina.
This is my first post and I can say that I am truly honored to see the gems that are being posted in this topic. If all this info could be published this would be the GOAT book for men. Props to kevm3, Reincar, Winb83, Malta, etc.., the list goes on. I couldn't even lurk anymore I had to come out here and show my damn respect. I will post a couple scenarios later