man i give it up to all of you dropping personal stories, ive done it as well weve all been played made mistakes its how we learn from it and hopefully some of you can pick up and not follow in our footsteps
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Kev just blacked out, this is what it must have been like to be in the studio when Nas was in the booth for illmatic 
Kev just blacked out, this is what it must have been like to be in the studio when Nas was in the booth for illmatic
im taking notes literally open up word and copying and pasting
i swear every man on here should be reading those commandments
Yes indeed.. Standing on the shoulders of giants..
Real men aren't victims. They assess the situation, exercise righteous judgment and better the future for not only themselves, but for others
-We can sit around and keep on dealing with these entitled women and experiencing the same problems over and over or we can take moves to put ourselves in a better position. The first key is to Make women your 4th or so priority. If the thought of what a woman is doing or how you're going to get in some draws is dominating your day, you really need to rearrange your mindset. There is SO much more to life than dealing with women. This is part of stop making your behavior contingent on women.
Enjoy your relationship with God, your family, your friends. Read some interesting books. Make some music. Eat at a new restaurant. Create some art. Write something. There are so many activities that we could be expending our energy on as opposed to dealing with the same frustrations over and over. Why waste all your energy arguing, worrying, and allowing a woman to put you into a zone of negativity when you could go out and enjoy the beautiful weather?
The key is to put yourself in the mindset and circumstance where the woman is grateful to be in your presence. This requires you to recognize your inherent worth and to stop gameplanning and chasing after a penny. This requires you putting your principles and self-respect WAY ahead of her vagina. If she disrespects you, you do NOT continue to deal with her in hopes that she may give you a speck of sand at the beach, which is her sex.
You want to know the key to dealing with the problems of a woman? The key is to DON'T DEAL WITH IT! Don't allow her to bring drama in your life. If she brings it, she has to fix it herself or she has to go. Bottom line. A woman brings flakiness to the table? Bye bye. She rejects your offer to take her out? Do you fret over losing a penny from your wallet? No, you keep it pushing, knowing that you have much more value within yourself... and knowing you can easily find another penny elsewhere.
Enjoy your life and let the women chase you. The more you enjoy your life and build up things in a righteous and proper fashion, the larger the pool of women you will have to deal with. Like I said, women will always follow up behind a man. Do women watch the NBA more or the WNBA? Who are the majority of her favorite comedians, male or female? Are males trying to break into female only institutions or vice versa?
These women will always be there, but what a man needs to recognize is that he has the power to FILTER these women... and indeed he should. He should only accept women that enhance his life... and even if he doesn't have a woman at the current moment, he is unbelievably happy because he has sufficiently built his base of happiness on a much stronger foundation than the whims of a woman. This will help put you in a situation to neutralize low-worth women and to remove your emotions from the whims of unpredictable women. It will also put you in a situation to deal with high quality women, since you are able to filter through a larger pool of them. This attitude is thus a solution to the problem that has been prevalent. Do not deal with low quality attention and disrespect from women and always keep your principles and values ahead of them... enjoy life and live righteously no matter what, and the rest will come.
-We can sit around and keep on dealing with these entitled women and experiencing the same problems over and over or we can take moves to put ourselves in a better position. The first key is to Make women your 4th or so priority. If the thought of what a woman is doing or how you're going to get in some draws is dominating your day, you really need to rearrange your mindset. There is SO much more to life than dealing with women. This is part of stop making your behavior contingent on women.
Enjoy your relationship with God, your family, your friends. Read some interesting books. Make some music. Eat at a new restaurant. Create some art. Write something. There are so many activities that we could be expending our energy on as opposed to dealing with the same frustrations over and over. Why waste all your energy arguing, worrying, and allowing a woman to put you into a zone of negativity when you could go out and enjoy the beautiful weather?
The key is to put yourself in the mindset and circumstance where the woman is grateful to be in your presence. This requires you to recognize your inherent worth and to stop gameplanning and chasing after a penny. This requires you putting your principles and self-respect WAY ahead of her vagina. If she disrespects you, you do NOT continue to deal with her in hopes that she may give you a speck of sand at the beach, which is her sex.
You want to know the key to dealing with the problems of a woman? The key is to DON'T DEAL WITH IT! Don't allow her to bring drama in your life. If she brings it, she has to fix it herself or she has to go. Bottom line. A woman brings flakiness to the table? Bye bye. She rejects your offer to take her out? Do you fret over losing a penny from your wallet? No, you keep it pushing, knowing that you have much more value within yourself... and knowing you can easily find another penny elsewhere.
Enjoy your life and let the women chase you. The more you enjoy your life and build up things in a righteous and proper fashion, the larger the pool of women you will have to deal with. Like I said, women will always follow up behind a man. Do women watch the NBA more or the WNBA? Who are the majority of her favorite comedians, male or female? Are males trying to break into female only institutions or vice versa?
These women will always be there, but what a man needs to recognize is that he has the power to FILTER these women... and indeed he should. He should only accept women that enhance his life... and even if he doesn't have a woman at the current moment, he is unbelievably happy because he has sufficiently built his base of happiness on a much stronger foundation than the whims of a woman. This will help put you in a situation to neutralize low-worth women and to remove your emotions from the whims of unpredictable women. It will also put you in a situation to deal with high quality women, since you are able to filter through a larger pool of them. This attitude is thus a solution to the problem that has been prevalent. Do not deal with low quality attention and disrespect from women and always keep your principles and values ahead of them... enjoy life and live righteously no matter what, and the rest will come.
This sh*t is crazy bruh.
The last girl I talked to, the first time we met at a bar, she was talking bad about all teh women in there who were wearing the tops that show their bra strp on the shoulder. It's something that to me, is not even slutty....but she felt the need to show me how she didnt dress like that. being that I didnt know her at the time, I was impressed somewhat.
Then several weeks later, we went out again, and now she's wearing a top wearing you can see her bra straps. I was like
Not only that, but she checked out every song I suggested/said I liked and everything else I told hr to do. And she never drank when I was around either.
They do all that to gain ur complete trust.
I wont even date girls with tatts.
1. If the tatt is visible then that's a no-no....
If the tatt is NOT visible then it's probably in a intimate place. Also a no-no
Well, I guess I would be open for doing so, depending on where the tatt was and if the girl is quality.
2. I bet not find out she smokes weed...
3. Aww hell naw...leopard print? LOL
4. This is tricky....to me, some women just have guy friends....sometimes I'd rather a few guy friends rather than a bunch of cackling, over influential girlfriends
This sh*t is crazy bruh.
The last girl I talked to, the first time we met at a bar, she was talking bad about all teh women in there who were wearing the tops that show their bra strp on the shoulder. It's something that to me, is not even slutty....but she felt the need to show me how she didnt dress like that. being that I didnt know her at the time, I was impressed somewhat.
Then several weeks later, we went out again, and now she's wearing a top wearing you can see her bra straps. I was like
Not only that, but she checked out every song I suggested/said I liked and everything else I told hr to do. And she never drank when I was around either.
They do all that to gain ur complete trust.
A lot of women have no individuality, not saying all, but a great number of them are followers. You have to stop and look at how many corny ass dudes there are in the world, and then apply that to women as well. If there are hundreds of millions of corny dudes, it only makes sense that there would be hundreds of millions of corny chicks as well.
Kev is on that Malcolm X shyt when it comes to the women. On some Nas recording Stillmatic level of power. The type of info that even the likes of Tariq Nasheed gets mad about cause info like that is REAL change to a person's life and destiny.
Shyt, I might go out tomorrow night to have me a good time putting women in their place, playfully. When a woman's confidence level is higher than a man's in society, something is wrong. This social disarray has got to be caused intentionally by government to keep people unhappy and distracted.
Whoever said that women are followers, is correct. Individuality is frowned upon and if by chance a gem of a woman speaks out on the bullshyt that other women around her do, she gets shytted on and even disowned.
Shyt, I might go out tomorrow night to have me a good time putting women in their place, playfully. When a woman's confidence level is higher than a man's in society, something is wrong. This social disarray has got to be caused intentionally by government to keep people unhappy and distracted.
Whoever said that women are followers, is correct. Individuality is frowned upon and if by chance a gem of a woman speaks out on the bullshyt that other women around her do, she gets shytted on and even disowned.
Haven't watched it yet, just wanted to point out an interesting fact about Brazil................
The engagement ring IS the wedding ring, and it's a simple gold ring. Women there do not expect an additional wedding ring.
I think it's basically any non western / Americanized women really, anywhere you have people from another culture holding onto the values of that culture you see it. There are Jamaicans, Bajans, etc that still take care of the family first. It applies to Caribbean black women as well Latin American women, they just make better girlfriends in my opinion.
Damn. I've been busy lately and didn't keep up with this thread. But yesterday and today I've been catching up and it's literally hours and hours of 
I know it's been said many times but reading and participating in this thread over these last months has literally been one of the most educating experiences of my entire life. And this is coming from someone who's always had an interest in knowledge and education, has spent probably thousands of hours reading, and has had the fortune of picking the brains of some very smart individuals.
I just want to thank the holy trinity of this thread, Kev, Reincar and Sharp, as well as all the other brothers who contributed with their knowledge and personal, often painful experiences.
Here's an example:
Somewhere along the line men have allowed these wretched 'feminists' and slimy politicians to manipulate us and castrate us. They're slowly turning all of society on its head. What was for thousands of years normal is becoming abnormal. And to add insult to injury, they're doing it under the guise of 'fairness' and 'equal rights'.
The MGTOW, manosphere, whatever you want to call it, is really doing a very important thing by educating men, young men and boys on the cusp of manhood especially. fukk global warmings or economic recessions, much more is dependent on us stepping up and restoring man-woman relations back to normal. If women will continue to recieve a free reign to pillage and destroy everything in their path, and men will continue to be manipulated into becoming eunuchs, shadows of their former selves, our society will truly end up down the shytter.
I know it's been said many times but reading and participating in this thread over these last months has literally been one of the most educating experiences of my entire life. And this is coming from someone who's always had an interest in knowledge and education, has spent probably thousands of hours reading, and has had the fortune of picking the brains of some very smart individuals.
I just want to thank the holy trinity of this thread, Kev, Reincar and Sharp, as well as all the other brothers who contributed with their knowledge and personal, often painful experiences.
fukking A right! The sad thing is for hundreds and hundreds of years this knowledge was basically common sense and the norm amongst all real men.
Here's an example:
- Philip Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield
Somewhere along the line men have allowed these wretched 'feminists' and slimy politicians to manipulate us and castrate us. They're slowly turning all of society on its head. What was for thousands of years normal is becoming abnormal. And to add insult to injury, they're doing it under the guise of 'fairness' and 'equal rights'.
The MGTOW, manosphere, whatever you want to call it, is really doing a very important thing by educating men, young men and boys on the cusp of manhood especially. fukk global warmings or economic recessions, much more is dependent on us stepping up and restoring man-woman relations back to normal. If women will continue to recieve a free reign to pillage and destroy everything in their path, and men will continue to be manipulated into becoming eunuchs, shadows of their former selves, our society will truly end up down the shytter.
This is my first post and I can say that I am truly honored to see the gems that are being posted in this topic. If all this info could be published this would be the GOAT book for men. Props to kevm3, Reincar, Winb83, Malta, etc.., the list goes on. I couldn't even lurk anymore I had to come out here and show my damn respect. I will post a couple scenarios later
Welcome brother.