Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

Sounds like BS or she has been through some ish.

As long as you are fine with the outcome

were both pretty fukked up

I think its a equal combo of both to be honest, but she has no feelings for me any more so its no point in lamenting over it any more. Just take the info and try to be better prepared for the next one to come.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

were both pretty fukked up

I think its a equal combo of both to be honest, but she has no feelings for me any more so its no point in lamenting over it any more. Just take the info and try to be better prepared for the next one to come.

Sounds like BS to me as well. I wouldn't sweat her or her reasons for breaking it up, typically the reasons women give don't make logical sense but that's just been my experience. On to the next one fam.

 

[Deafheaven]

Sounds like BS to me as well. I wouldn't sweat her or her reasons for breaking it up, typically the reasons women give don't make logical sense but that's just been my experience. On to the next one fam.

Ultimately it was kind of stupid because she said her drunk sister came over last week and asked about us, and she said we were okay, then her drunk ass sister said lifes too short and apparently that triggered some "I'm not really happy" response in her and that was that

Like I said I'm not really bummed over it any more. it sucks but what can you do. Once a girl got her mind made up no amount of reasoning is gonna change shyt. gone forever.

 

[Solano707]

were both pretty fukked up

I think its a equal combo of both to be honest, but she has no feelings for me any more so its no point in lamenting over it any more. Just take the info and try to be better prepared for the next one to come.

What, so you were "too nice"?

man fukk that, a real woman would appreciate that shyt.

My ex left me for a "bad boy" type of nikka... fukk her and that fat clown

 

[The ADD]

Ultimately it was kind of stupid because she said her drunk sister came over last week and asked about us, and she said we were okay, then her drunk ass sister said lifes too short and apparently that triggered some "I'm not really happy" response in her and that was that

Like I said I'm not really bummed over it any more. it sucks but what can you do. Once a girl got her mind made up no amount of reasoning is gonna change shyt. gone forever.

Not totally but most times

 

[Solano707]

Just got back from a lunch date with a pawg (seriously). She's nice, country accent and drives a Dodge Ram truck I think we ate and talked for a good two hours... she feelin ya boy. She lives close to me, like 5 minutes But, for the most part, I really did enjoy her company. I don't want to rush the sex though, I don't want this to turn sour like the last chick I had (then again, she was like 2 hours away )

I'll keep yall updated tho

 

[TRUEST]

Ultimately it was kind of stupid because she said her drunk sister came over last week and asked about us, and she said we were okay, then her drunk ass sister said lifes too short and apparently that triggered some "I'm not really happy" response in her and that was that

Like I said I'm not really bummed over it any more. it sucks but what can you do. Once a girl got her mind made up no amount of reasoning is gonna change shyt. gone forever.

unfortunately for u, the best way to have dealt with this fool of a girlfriend was to not have gotten attached to her in the first place. im just shaking my head over here at the power u could have had if only u had it in u to not give to sh1ts what she does and make sure she knows that. she'll be so fuccked up in the head she'll be the one chasing u.

her: im breaking up with you
you: have a nice day hun
her: wtf i thought u'd at least give a sh1t
you: hun, let me hit u up later hun. kinda busy
her: u know what, forget it. dont hit me up
you: say nothing

but i doubt u have it in u to do sh1t like this because ur attachment to her will have u second guessing urself and will make u crawl back to her with the quickness if giving a slither of a chance.

 

[Deafheaven]

What, so you were "too nice"?

man fukk that, a real woman would appreciate that shyt.

My ex left me for a "bad boy" type of nikka... fukk her and that fat clown

She said it was nice for the sake of a reaction. Which is true. I see all the fukk bois around and I thought I deserved better because I was being good to her. I should just be good to bytches because its my character and not because I want to get something in return. I could at least agree with that and thinking back to all my failed relationships I did that shyt all the time. Shes still a goofy ass for simply not telling me about it months ago because its something that sooooo easy to change but...its life.

I pretty much put it all out there and cleared all my demons and by the end fo the night she said she doesn't respect me any more like newsflash nikkas do have feelings. Its over with her, I'm pretty sure of that at least. I asked her multiple times do you feel anything for me and she said no multiple times. Said she would try to make it work if she felt any thing. IDK man I got the feeling she wasn't being truthful about it, she cried on my shoulder. I don't fukking know man, its such a fukking clusterfukk.

 

[Deafheaven]

unfortunately for u, the best way to have dealt with this fool of a girlfriend was to not have gotten attached to her in the first place. im just shaking my head over here at the power u could have had if only u had it in u to not give to sh1ts what she does and make sure she knows that. she'll be so fuccked up in the head she'll be the one chasing u.

her: im breaking up with you
you: have a nice day hun
her: wtf i thought u'd at least give a sh1t
you: hun, let me hit u up later hun. kinda busy
her: u know what, forget it. dont hit me up
you: say nothing

but i doubt u have it in u to do sh1t like this because ur attachment to her will have u second guessing urself and will make u crawl back to her with the quickness if giving a slither of a chance.

I know man, I know. Just thought I could be honest with this one. Thats pretty much the gist of it. But I see being transparent doesn't get you shyt man.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup even when breaking up with you, women want you to beg, plead, and fight for them

unfortunately for u, the best way to have dealt with this fool of a girlfriend was to not have gotten attached to her in the first place. im just shaking my head over here at the power u could have had if only u had it in u to not give to sh1ts what she does and make sure she knows that. she'll be so fuccked up in the head she'll be the one chasing u.

her: im breaking up with you
you: have a nice day hun
her: wtf i thought u'd at least give a sh1t
you: hun, let me hit u up later hun. kinda busy
her: u know what, forget it. dont hit me up
you: say nothing

but i doubt u have it in u to do sh1t like this because ur attachment to her will have u second guessing urself and will make u crawl back to her with the quickness if giving a slither of a chance.

 

[Deafheaven]

Yup even when breaking up with you, women want you to beg, plead, and fight for them

The crazy thing is that its not even in my character usually to do that. I just got so attached that couldn't picture myself not having her. I'm far from perfect, but I think my willingness to try to work through shyt is not common nowadays. She said she still loved me just didn't want to be with me and had no feelings any more. I didn't want to hear that and it makes no sense to me but I just have to fix my game for the future.

 

[MikelArteta]

Being good and nice and treating good means nothing in the end. I always say you can save your enemy from burning building and he'll have you back for life. You can save your gf from a burning building and get a sorry it's just not the same the next day.



You could have been aggressive a a$$hole, treated her crap and you'd be in the same spot, don't worry about the whys, concentrate on the what

She said it was nice for the sake of a reaction. Which is true. I see all the fukk bois around and I thought I deserved better because I was being good to her. I should just be good to bytches because its my character and not because I want to get something in return. I could at least agree with that and thinking back to all my failed relationships I did that shyt all the time. Shes still a goofy ass for simply not telling me about it months ago because its something that sooooo easy to change but...its life.

I pretty much put it all out there and cleared all my demons and by the end fo the night she said she doesn't respect me any more like newsflash nikkas do have feelings. Its over with her, I'm pretty sure of that at least. I asked her multiple times do you feel anything for me and she said no multiple times. Said she would try to make it work if she felt any thing. IDK man I got the feeling she wasn't being truthful about it, she cried on my shoulder. I don't fukking know man, its such a fukking clusterfukk.

 

[MikelArteta]

Remember even Peyton Manning got cut from the colts, you can save a franchise, bring em to the highest of highs,be the best and at the end of the day cut and replaced

Just like with women.

 

[Deafheaven]

Being good and nice and treating good means nothing in the end. I always say you can save your enemy from burning building and he'll have you back for life. You can save your gf from a burning building and get a sorry it's just not the same the next day.



You could have been aggressive a a$$hole, treated her crap and you'd be in the same spot, don't worry about the whys, concentrate on the what

Yeah you probably right. At the end of the day it was nothing I could really, I'm not psychic. That enemy shyt is pretty real, I've seen both things figuratively happen. I then went full retard and told her how it really made me feel and that probs just fukked it away even more. But honestly is that bad thing. If you have to put up some type of visage to keep someone is it even worth it.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Being good and nice and treating good means nothing in the end. I always say you can save your enemy from burning building and he'll have you back for life. You can save your gf from a burning building and get a sorry it's just not the same the next day.



You could have been aggressive a a$$hole, treated her crap and you'd be in the same spot, don't worry about the whys, concentrate on the what

this is very good advice in general. the 'whys' are always sketchy and subjective anyways - its the what that will hit you in the face and you will have to recover from.