Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Been talking to this girl almost a month. The one who I last posted about in here that blew me off one night.

Anyway, since tben things have been good....really good....





Until I called her about 30 mins ago and she was HIGH as f. I can't even begin to describe how disappointed I am. I guess maybe it's weed, I dunno. She couldn't even talk straight. Again, I'm so disappointed bc we have alot in common. I never expected this from her. I know she drinks sometime, but I can't expect women to not do that

I'm not a smoker, I don't have any problem with ppl who do, but that can't be my girl....at all. I hate to break it off with her but I gonna have to. Especially since she told me she'd never smoked before, now I know she's lying. Ince i dont trust you, i dont trust you and I don't know what to believe from her anymore....
 
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Been talking to this girl almost a month. The one who I last posted about in here that blew me off one night.

Anyway, since tben things have been good....really good....





Until I called her about 30 mins ago and she was HIGH as f. I can't even begin to describe how disappointed I am. I guess maybe it's weed, I dunno. She couldn't even talk straight. Again, I'm so disappointed bc we have alot in common

I'm not a smoker, I don't have any problem with ppl who do, but that can't be my girl....at all. I hate to break it off with her but I gonna have to. Especially since she told me she'd never smoked before, now I know she's lying. Ince i dont trust you, i dont trust you and I don't know what to believe from her anymore....
I was gonna say keep her as someone to kick it with and regular smash when you bored, BUT I can tell you already got feelings for her. You will end up falling in love.
 

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I was gonna say keep her as someone to kick it with and regular smash when you bored, BUT I can tell you already got feelings for her. You will end up falling in love.

Nah. I do like her but I haven't fallen in love. Just disappointed more than anything bc it's wasted hope/time/money.

But how can I do this? How do I tell her I don't think we should date seriously, but not turn away completely in case I still wanna :shaq: sometime??
 

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Nah. I do like her but I haven't fallen in love. Just disappointed more than anything bc it's wasted hope/time/money.

But how can I do this? How do I tell her I don't think we should date seriously, but not turn away completely in case I still wanna :shaq: sometime??
Keep kicking it as normal,its not serious until she asks for a title. When she asks for a title thats when you tell her you dont want anything serious or you wanna take things slow because you been hurt in the past etc.
 

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Nah. I do like her but I haven't fallen in love. Just disappointed more than anything bc it's wasted hope/time/money.

But how can I do this? How do I tell her I don't think we should date seriously, but not turn away completely in case I still wanna :shaq: sometime??

How old are you breh
 
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Nah. I do like her but I haven't fallen in love. Just disappointed more than anything bc it's wasted hope/time/money.

But how can I do this? How do I tell her I don't think we should date seriously, but not turn away completely in case I still wanna :shaq: sometime??

Maybe I'm just different from you but a month doesn't even qualify as a sunk cost to me. It's only been a month homie, it would have sucked if you discovered this 6 months in ...
 

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I got a female friend who I've been cool with for 10 plus years. Nothing ever happened between us just been good friends. But I'm starting to think something. She takes pleasure in knowing some of my ex gf were jealous or intimidated by her ( she is thick nice shape ass all that). She also shows signs of jealously whenever I tell her about my dates or how I take the ladies giving me play out. She always on some well you never take me no where. Um we ain't fukkin, we ain't dating, we friends. We hang out and chill. She always looking for me to do BF shyt then get mad when I don't. Besides that, she been there for a brother. She not all bad it's just part that gets me upset sometimes. I don't wanna say she trying to use me cuz she does do some favors and looks out but someone explain to me wtf is her deal?
If there was something there it would have happened by now.

I thought you and the nurse were building.
 
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