Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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young enough to still have fun, but old enough to not deal with foolishness. lol


I dunno breh ppl fck up, so she got high you don't like smokers address this shyt direct with her not on some "how can I keep her on the roster" shyt either

As long as she wasn't high around some random nukkas that wudnt be a concern to me but to each their own :yeshrug:
 

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I dunno breh ppl fck up, so she got high you don't like smokers address this shyt direct with her not on some "how can I keep her on the roster" shyt either

As long as she wasn't high around some random nukkas that wudnt be a concern to me but to each their own :yeshrug:
nah that's not the type of fucckup u ignore. do u know who she got high around? most likely it wasn't other girls. guys come on. u know better than this. dont be naive.
 

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Question....long rant ahead.

I have an ex gf, we go back like 7 years. Broke up 3-4 years ago. I was in relationship for like 3 years in the meanwhile and fault myself for having my ex become a "bad girl,no commitment" type. I use to cheat and lie to her,get caught red handed and she would always take me back.

During the end of my 3 year relationship,I ended up fukking with my ex from 6 or 7 years ago. Shortly thereafter, we would fukk around more often and ultimately me and my current relationship at the time ended for just incompatibility or whatever.

Now fast forward after a year of sporadic talk,her coming over with the best head ever, fukking, she up and asked me " What are We"? After the
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We just cooled it down, she has been coming over more often than usual. Just stuck Inna rut Cuz I definitely have feelings for her but not sure if its a path I wanna go through again. I've definitely matured now being 50 and just need some sort of input from other than myself. Thanks brehdogs.
 

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Question....long rant ahead.

I have an ex gf, we go back like 7 years. Broke up 3-4 years ago. I was in relationship for like 3 years in the meanwhile and fault myself for having my ex become a "bad girl,no commitment" type. I use to cheat and lie to her,get caught red handed and she would always take me back.

During the end of my 3 year relationship,I ended up fukking with my ex from 6 or 7 years ago. Shortly thereafter, we would fukk around more often and ultimately me and my current relationship at the time ended for just incompatibility or whatever.

Now fast forward after a year of sporadic talk,her coming over with the best head ever, fukking, she up and asked me " What are We"? After the
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We just cooled it down, she has been coming over more often than usual. Just stuck Inna rut Cuz I definitely have feelings for her but not sure if its a path I wanna go through again. I've definitely matured now being 50 and just need some sort of input from other than myself. Thanks brehdogs.
50 yrs old?
 

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lol i'd be interested to hear more on your background. how old is she?
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Shes 4 years younger than me. Was immature when we first met, as was I. Latina so you know she gets flaming mad for the smallest of things. Use to get caught red handed but she always a took a brotha back. Had a falling out, kept in touch somewhat but once Me and my Ex broke up we both started being more in contact.

Additionally, she use to only come over mad drunk and say "love you blah blah blah" but now she comes over sober just to kick it and smash. Feel bad cause she definitely has trust issues and seems to drink everyday now lol. Feel like thats my fault cause she was so invested in me and I pissed and shat on her grave. Actually shocked she still keeps in touch with me with how dirty I did her back then.:francis:
 

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Damn this chick just came over and smoked my brains away:mjcry: Nibbling on my arms and kissing my hands and shyt :mjcry:

My ex never hit a nikka wit that type of affection in damn near a year:upsetfavre:

You brehs were onto something I'm mad it took me more than a week to get my feet wet again.
 

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Well, the Nigerian engineer went cold on me Monday. Asked about her test that day and tried to set something up for the weekend, left my ass on read:wow:

I have some yams in another city, but she's 30 min away. She doesnt drive and who has gas/time to make that trip:francis:but just yesterday a chick in one of my classes hooked me up with one of her homegirls. She's not all that but she's decent looking, religious, and an AKA:yeshrug:

This shii literally has me like:mindblown:because im 22, got my career together, own car, own place, etc. I lift 4-5 times a week and even get approached every so often by women:dahell: But still not GTD (or in a relationship) how id like to lol. I think its because im so lowkey. I dont run with a large group and i only go out every now and then:jbhmm:

I think this is next on my to-do list. Learning how to be more social:damn:
 
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Well, the Nigerian engineer went cold on me Monday. Asked about her test that day and tried to set something up for the weekend, left my ass on read:wow:

I have some yams in another city, but she's 30 min away. She doesnt drive and who has gas/time to make that trip:francis:but just yesterday a chick in one of my classes hooked me up with one of her homegirls. She's not all that but she's decent looking, religious, and an AKA:yeshrug:

This shii literally has me like:mindblown:because im 22, got my career together, own car, own place, etc. I lift 4-5 times a week and even get approached every so often by women:dahell: But still not GTD (or in a relationship) how id like to lol. I think its because im so lowkey. I dont run with a large group and i only go out every now and then:jbhmm:

I think this is next on my to-do list. Learning how to be more social:damn:

GTD?

Take it easy man - from the description of your life you seem to doing well for yourself. I wouldn't try to roll with a large group with the expectation of getting the draws you think you deserve because you will end up being frustrated. Just find a group that you can vibe with and let nature take it's course, don't force it.

My $0.02
 
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A couple of months ago I was just like you - I wanted to start going out more (cuz I wanted chicks) but it became obvious that I wasn't really connecting with a large number of the ppl I was interacting with - I was trying to force it too much.

Right now I still talk to a decent number of ppl, but these are ppl I can actually consider friends and we not just acquaintances who don't give a fukk about each other.

You got it good homie - take it slow - and find other aspirations too aside from chicks. Cuz the wrong one could wreck everything for you man.
 
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