Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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7 years married my nikka. Her moving my hand from the p*ssy might just mean she wants me to kiss the neck or talk some shyt to heat her up more first :manny:

But if I take it as a personal rejection I get nowhere. If I keep the mood hot and wear her boundaries down, we're both bout to go deep and have the best sex of our lives.
 

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7 years married my nikka. Her moving my hand from the p*ssy might just mean she wants me to kiss the neck or talk some shyt to heat her up more first :manny:

But if I take it as a personal rejection I get nowhere. If I keep the mood hot and wear her boundaries down, we're both bout to go deep and have the best sex of our lives.
true. im too awkward to shyt talk. id end up childishly snickering.
 

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true. im too awkward to shyt talk. id end up childishly snickering.

:mjlol:

I think that's all of us though, at least by nature. It's something you build toward more than anything. But once I learned just how much women thrive off talking and praise during sex :wow:

No better feeling than making a chick say some submissive stuff she swore she'd never say. And as much of an ego boost as it is, they get off on it just as much.
 

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:mjlol:

I think that's all of us though, at least by nature. It's something you build toward more than anything. But once I learned just how much women thrive off talking and praise during sex :wow:

No better feeling than making a chick say some submissive stuff she swore she'd never say. And as much of an ego boost as it is, they get off on it just as much.
true i feel like its some shyt you have to work towards. every time i had sex i was a minimal talker. ive said funny shyt like, for example girl grabbed my balls i just looked at her and said,

:skip: "tryna go bowling later?

she just looked at me like :usure::mjlol:

i think humor could help the mood. could twist it into something sexual.:yeshrug:
 
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ur basically bribing her. that's a no no. its very pathetic. its in ur best interest to make this girl work for whatever you do for her. i mean, how the fucck are u going to spend so much time doing work and give it to some random girl (yes she is random) in hopes that she'll like u?????

That nikka done lost his damn mind.
 

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deadass.. this thread has way too many pages..

remember brehs

women literally need men and sex

we don't need them.. we have been lied to..
 

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Not sure what to make of this :patrice: Started off a friendship with this girl and my intentions was to keep it platonic (she's very fine and cool to kick it with but I just didn't want a relationship). Fast forward a month or so later and I start to actually like her and catch some feelin's :dame:She's always shown a couple positive indicators so I assumed there was at least some mutual interest. Now the problem was I needed to change the tone of our texts/convo's so its not just casual friend shyt, since I needed to get out of the friendzone I put myself in. So she texts me something and I say

Me: You haven't been hoein' it up have you? You can't be hoein' it up if you wanna be bae (Remember there was never any remotely flirty texts on my end before so me saying bae was wildly unexpected)
Her: lol what
Her: didn't ask to be bae :smile:
(now after that I'm like :merchant:but I keep the play going)
Me: U ain't gotta ask (:youngsabo:)
Me: So is that a confirmation on your hoein'
Her: hahahah nope *thumbs up*
Me: Well that's good then I can't be fukking with hoes anymore (:troll:)
Her: hahaha noo i don't want you to get the wrong idea!!
(now here's where it gets confusing -- wrong idea about what? :jbhmm:)
Me: About what?
Her: lol your comment^^^
(I'm convinced she ain't interested and is just being indirect about it)
Me: Hmm sounds like something a hoe would say. jk
Her: I'm confused
Me: ?
Her: Why cant you be fukking with hoes anymore? lol
Me: What's so confusing about that
Her: Why can't you
(so now I'm like why is this pertinent? Was she receptive to my flirty text or not)
Me: Because hoes are hoes
Her: I don't get it????
Me: Lol what's not to get
Her: How does this have anything to do with me hahaha
Me: Idk u tell me (:beli:)
Her: so nothing!!!

I'm scared I might take a major L on this brehs :huhldup: Usually I avoid this point of investment altogether since I let my intentions be known from the onset but this one's different as I detailed. She a super nice person so I feel like she don't wanna let me down hard if she wants to keep it friendly, but there's just so many signs that hard to say for sure :patrice:

:francis:..you fukked up
 

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Elaborate please :patrice:[/QUOTE

Women tend to give indications of what they want from the jump...You just gotta listen closely and learn to decipher the bullshyt,the double talk,the emotion,and the actual truth..

Where you fukked up is fukking up the potential momentum you possibly established...You could have subtly steered the conversation to see where her head was, but now you make shyt awkward for both parties...

Because now shyt wont be free flowing...you possibly changed the dynamics of the situation..

The fact that you make your intentions from jump known already leaves you with no wiggle room...:ld:

I run the no huddle...I go fast paced and leave them as little time as possible to ask me weird questions...

Meanwhile i subtly get my questions answered...I listen...I dont judge..I dont get jealous..And if i did...i wont show it...

All this does is build the foundation of the program you trying to establish...And gives you enough room to abort mission as smooth as possible
 

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[QUOTE="WatergunTalk, post: 18851784, member: 512"]where was the exact point I fukked up the momentum? What should I have said instead? And what should I do moving forward? I'm not good at picking the brains of these bytches over text where they got time to think and shyt[/QUOTE]

the very 1st text...:francis:...Because there was no buildup to actually slip that shyt in there

If you have a hint of sexual attraction towards her, you need to be physical(subtly) at some point(THE BEGINNING) and gauge her reaction...And do it semi-occasionally to keep shyt honest

Also..if you had that planned, you shoulda picked up the phone and called her or set up a date..

And u called her a hoe:snoop::ufdup::dead::damn:

I dont care if you were joking or not....You called her a hoe:damn:

I really just read that shyt in detail....:skip:

In short....

More face to face...Less Text...

Give yourself wiggle room

Show signs from the jump you think she sexy...in the physical sense...

TAKE THE WORD HOE OUT OF YOUR VOCAB:ufdup:

Understand the art of subtly...

LISTEN...
 
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