Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

Has a female ever surprised any of you?

There's this female I met through some homies a couple years back (cool as hell, cute as hell), that answered my request for a ride to the airport on fb. Not only did she offer to do it with no gas money necessary, but she brought me some weed edibles and bought me some Starbucks. On top of that, she came a ways to do it (from Tampa to St.Pete, bout a half hour-45 minutes ride, not including rush hour traffic). Hell, she even offered to pick me up when I get back!

We also seem to get along very well (the longest pause we had in convo the entire time was like 30 seconds), like the same things, etc. She has a kid, but I honestly don't think that would be much of an issue on this one...

The thing that gets me is we've only chilled once before this (we interact on fb every now and then, but I guess she's not really on there like that), but you would think we'd been chilling on a constant basis from then till now. No one's gonna do all of that for someone (especially not no DUDE) they don't know THAT well. Not that I'm complaining, she's actually a cold-ass female in my eyes. Same time, I'm not trying to jump the gun and wind up getting let down.

I don't know, I just find it very random....I mean, most of these females out here wouldn't do those types of things for nikkaz, especially ones that they haven't chilled that much with....

it warms my heart when i hear women doing these types of things. most women aint doing half that sh1t unless u've done something for them in the past, or they really really like u.
hope u take her out to eat soon to thank her. dont ask her. tell her, im going to take u out to dinner. she may try to be all modest and say thats not necessary. but u must insist and say u wanna use that as an opportunity to know more about her.

 

[Ohene]

Yeah I was thinking that's probably the best thing to do. I probably wouldn't be able to be available all the time even if I wanted due to distance and work. I know, I've been meaning to try and build a roster...she just came out the blue though!

man ignore all of that. if you are feeling her...when you get back tell her when you need her to pick you up and when she picks you up direct her to a restaurant you wannt eat at. If she asks where youre going and wonders why it appears like youre not going to your crib just say not to worry and surprise her. do your thing from there...converse and have a good time. When she drops you home ask if she wants to come in for a drink and kick it. Continue to appraise the situation from there. If she gets loose you already know what to do. If she doesnt give vibes she wants to fukk but its enjoying the night just play it cool from there.

I'm guessing youre not a low-mid 20s year old so why play all the games. At that age you shouldnt have to worry about that shyt. Reciprocate

 

[TheArchitect]

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[TheArchitect]

it warms my heart when i hear women doing these types of things. most women aint doing half that sh1t unless u've done something for them in the past, or they really really like u.
hope u take her out to eat soon to thank her. dont ask her. tell her, im going to take u out to dinner. she may try to be all modest and say thats not necessary. but u must insist and say u wanna use that as an opportunity to know more about her.

man ignore all of that. if you are feeling her...when you get back tell her when you need her to pick you up and when she picks you up direct her to a restaurant you wannt eat at. If she asks where youre going and wonders why it appears like youre not going to your crib just say not to worry and surprise her. do your thing from there...converse and have a good time. When she drops you home ask if she wants to come in for a drink and kick it. Continue to appraise the situation from there. If she gets loose you already know what to do. If she doesnt give vibes she wants to fukk but its enjoying the night just play it cool from there.

I'm guessing youre not a low-mid 20s year old so why play all the games. At that age you shouldnt have to worry about that shyt. Reciprocate

Hmmm, I think I'll try that....Yeah I'm 32, I can't stand playing bullshyt games these days...she really doesn't seem the type either...

 

[Turk]

The logic of some of these women out here you meet a chick online, get to talking, and then she'll accuse you of being a catfish because you don't use social media dont even bother to ask about using Skype or some shyt but immediately jump to that conclusion

 

[全能の神]

She said the L word
































but i forgot to say it back . Should I bring this up and apologize or wait until she does?

 

[Youseenmywork]

She said the L word

Don't bring it up ....






























but i forgot to say it back . Should I bring this up and apologize or wait until she does?

 

[Youseenmywork]

The logic of some of these women out here you meet a chick online, get to talking, and then she'll accuse you of being a catfish because you don't use social media dont even bother to ask about using Skype or some shyt but immediately jump to that conclusion

This why as man when a women shows just a tad bit of intrest you shouldn't get to hype cause you'll back in this thread talking about how she acting weird.

 

[Ohene]

This why as man when a women shows just a tad bit of intrest you shouldn't get to hype cause you'll back in this thread talking about how she acting weird.

knowledge lol

 

[kevm3]

Yep, every time you say in your mind, 'man things are going great', that's when she pops up with some utter nonsense. The more you can untether your happiness from a woman and treat them as a 'dessert' to your happiness, aka something that is nice to have, but not necessary, the better. Women are simply too transient and unstable and most are always scanning for the 'next best thing', so you never really know when she's ready to head out the door... therefore it would be crazy to make the foundation of your happiness something that might be here today, not gone tomorrow.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

these females be scary brehs.
its a chick im cool with that i aint spoke to in around a week that i just messaged this morning.

she told MORNING. and said that she was thinking of calling me yesterday but didnt know what i was up to.


THATS THE WHOLE POINT OF HITTING ME UP TO SEE WHAT IM UP TO!!!!

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

so yesterday i found out the chick i used to be with at work got married. her ass wanted the title. me and her fukked multiple times behind the baby daddy back. she even called me a few days ago saying im an a$$hole, childish, thot, etc.

i told her "okay yes im childish, ima thot yadda yadda...why you keep calling me then?" she said cuz she want me to change.


last friday in the stockroom she called me to come to her. i walk over there and she tells me ahe wants me to eat her p*ssy.
This is a week before marriage.


in the end, females will do whatever they want to. A ring or title dont mean she will be faithful.

 

[Ohene]

these females be scary brehs.
its a chick im cool with that i aint spoke to in around a week that i just messaged this morning.

she told MORNING. and said that she was thinking of calling me yesterday but didnt know what i was up to.


THATS THE WHOLE POINT OF HITTING ME UP TO SEE WHAT IM UP TO!!!!

theyre cowards bro

 

[chipmarket]

these females be scary brehs.
its a chick im cool with that i aint spoke to in around a week that i just messaged this morning.

she told MORNING. and said that she was thinking of calling me yesterday but didnt know what i was up to.


THATS THE WHOLE POINT OF HITTING ME UP TO SEE WHAT IM UP TO!!!!

She wants you to take the lead bro

 

[Dreamzeedream]

so yesterday i found out the chick i used to be with at work got married. her ass wanted the title. me and her fukked multiple times behind the baby daddy back. she even called me a few days ago saying im an a$$hole, childish, thot, etc.

i told her "okay yes im childish, ima thot yadda yadda...why you keep calling me then?" she said cuz she want me to change.


last friday in the stockroom she called me to come to her. i walk over there and she tells me ahe wants me to eat her p*ssy.
This is a week before marriage.


in the end, females will do whatever they want to. A ring or title dont mean she will be faithful.

You gone eat it


Or naw