Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If you are having a casual conversation with a chick, and you either send a message to her, or you reply to her with a message that should indicate a response from her to keep the convo going and she decides not to respond, that means she is not interested in having a conversation with you. Point blank.
This.

Unfortunately this girl I kind am talking to did this to me but the way she does it throws me off. Like she'll call me and we'll talk. Then she'll say she gotta call me back and then don't. Then the next morning she'll text me early on some "Good morning" and respond asap as soon as I respond. I'll text her some more and then i won't hear from her for hours. I said "she's at work :manny:" and plus my last text was asking her when she gonna get off. She texted me when she got off anyway and then was responsive then. The weird thing was she'd do this on/off thing occasionally like she (mistake I made) asked me to borrow $40 and I was going to lend her it until this week. I then brought it to her later that night and while I was giving it to her she asked me if I was going to see her tomorrow but the weird thing is she just told me she was going to be busy at a wedding so there'd be no time anyway. So later that night around 2AM she called me but I was asleep so I thought ":ohhh: she called me that late?" I texted her that morning and she responded literally within milliseconds. I then responded and then she never responded since. It's like confusing like she'll seem interested one day/night and then another day seem to just not respond/call me even though I doubt she's that busy.
 

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This.

Unfortunately this girl I kind am talking to did this to me but the way she does it throws me off. Like she'll call me and we'll talk. Then she'll say she gotta call me back and then don't. Then the next morning she'll text me early on some "Good morning" and respond asap as soon as I respond. I'll text her some more and then i won't hear from her for hours. I said "she's at work :manny:" and plus my last text was asking her when she gonna get off. She texted me when she got off anyway and then was responsive then. The weird thing was she'd do this on/off thing occasionally like she (mistake I made) asked me to borrow $40 and I was going to lend her it until this week. I then brought it to her later that night and while I was giving it to her she asked me if I was going to see her tomorrow but the weird thing is she just told me she was going to be busy at a wedding so there'd be no time anyway. So later that night around 2AM she called me but I was asleep so I thought ":ohhh: she called me that late?" I texted her that morning and she responded literally within milliseconds. I then responded and then she never responded since. It's like confusing like she'll seem interested one day/night and then another day seem to just not respond/call me even though I doubt she's that busy.

sounds like she's juggling you with some other guy or guys
 

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sounds like she's juggling you with some other guy or guys
I spoke to one of my cousins about it and he laughed and said when she came over and nothing happened she probably just lost interest a little. Think about it, the girl was VERY interested the first night the cousin who hooked her up with me saw me. She
  • texted me "hey" from his phone
  • sent me a FB friend request and message "hey"
  • called me from her cell phone
all within a span of minutes I'd guess. She was VERY interested. Texted and called and pretty much seemed like she wanted things to escalate. Friday without hesitation she agrees to come through and gives me her address within minutes of me asking. She comes over, and sits on the bed. I put a movie on(City of god) and she's just watching it. The time up until she came in my room(the card ride etc.) she was kind of quiet. i also noticed her legs shaking a little bit while I was driving. The movie almost ended and I didn't touch her or try anything. She probably felt like I wasn't giving her what I was selling and lost a lil interest. I think I had it and messed up.
 

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I spoke to one of my cousins about it and he laughed and said when she came over and nothing happened she probably just lost interest a little. Think about it, the girl was VERY interested the first night the cousin who hooked her up with me saw me. She
  • texted me "hey" from his phone
  • sent me a FB friend request and message "hey"
  • called me from her cell phone
all within a span of minutes I'd guess. She was VERY interested. Texted and called and pretty much seemed like she wanted things to escalate. Friday without hesitation she agrees to come through and gives me her address within minutes of me asking. She comes over, and sits on the bed. I put a movie on(City of god) and she's just watching it. The time up until she came in my room(the card ride etc.) she was kind of quiet. i also noticed her legs shaking a little bit while I was driving. The movie almost ended and I didn't touch her or try anything. She probably felt like I wasn't giving her what I was selling and lost a lil interest. I think I had it and messed up.

Women are like emotional squirrels you got to keep them stimulated at a high level or else they get bored.

Trying to be gentlemen isn't going to get you far these days you should be trying to smash as soon as possible.

How you have girl sit on your bed and not have her clothes off 5 mins later :ufdup::birdman:
 

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Women are like emotional squirrels you got to keep them stimulated at a high level or else they get bored.

Trying to be gentlemen isn't going to get you far these days you should be trying to smash as soon as possible.

How you have girl sit on your bed and not have her clothes off 5 mins later :ufdup::birdman:
and she....

she....

she wore a skirt breh :mjcry:

:dwillhuh:
 

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I would say 50/50 she didn't even have any panties on.

Just charge it to the game and do better next time.
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How do you ask women out? Do you say:

I would like to take you out

Will you go out with me

We should go out

I want to get to know you better

Let's hang out sometime

Etc
 
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How do you ask women out? Do you say:

I would like to take you out

Will you go out with me

We should go out

I want to get to know you better

Let's hang out sometime

Etc

Don't phrase it as a question, phrase your intent as an action and the woman as a (potential) participant. It is subtle but produces results.

That being said, I hate all the examples you've provided. I've used all of them at one time or another, with minor variations, and they all pretty much ended up being first class tickets to the friendzone. Use at your own risk.
 

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Don't phrase it as a question, phrase your intent as an action and the woman as a (potential) participant. It is subtle but produces results.

That being said, I hate all the examples you've provided. I've used all of them at one time or another, with minor variations, and they all pretty much ended up being first class tickets to the friendzone. Use at your own risk.


So how should one do it?
 

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“A man at his highest level can upgrade a woman to her highest level. A king could marry a bum, and that bum would instantly become queen: the highest position in the land for a woman. But if a queen gets married, she cannot upgrade a man to king. He just becomes the queen’s husband.” -Patrice O’Neal


The fukking god. My hero. Top five guys I'd listen to over and over. Its a shame he couldn't fix his health. People always try to tell me he got women because he was rich. But any real dude would know getting women and being rich barely comes hand in hand with a dude like Patrice. Yeah he was super fat but he owned it in the rarest form. Everything he did from just being funny and having a logical mind plus he didnt care what type of female the girl was he knew how to conversate. People never take into consideration that if you have those equations in your pockets its way easier to get a girl.

The black Phillip show was so classic. I wondtrand it be today or how many episodes did it have left if Patrice was still alive. Thank god Dante Nero has continued the series as the beige Phillip show, which is a podcast, and the crazier thing is its better than black Phillip.


One flaw you could tell from Patrice o Neal is his teaching in the black Phillip show was his hoh game was too fukking harsh. It's harsh in a sence where dudes with no game would try to listen to the show and a lot of times Patrice would be like "fukk that bytch she not shyt she not wasting my time." Which happened alot in the show. weather it was a girl in the room or on the phone. When I say he's to hoh in these episodes it seems like he sort of resents women because in Patrice mind it goes as "I gotta do all this shyt. Women put us thru so much just to hit. I gotta be and do and go thru and have and become x y z." And that was his mindset during the show. I mean its not really bad and the show is still classic and Patrice puts you on to a lot of shyt.

But dante Nero explains the same situation that Patrice sort of was to hoh and didn't actually help dudes who can't get girls. So his podcasts is ten times better. Its still funny. It has interesting guests such as comedians, chiefs, porn stars, pimps, personal friends and so much more who give all their input and personal experiences that actually help.

Dante Nero also used to be a pimp I believe? But I for sure know he used to be a male stripper and he's told countless of times damn near probably he's been with basically over 1000 females. From his college days, pimping/stripping days, before coming famous with Patrice and his own podcasts days and now in the later days of his life.

You never hear all this wisdom dante spits on the black Phillip show because Patrice ran shyt if he didn't like what you were saying he'd tell you to shut the fukk up lol.


Its the beige Phillip show if anyone is interested.
 
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How do you ask women out? Do you say:

I would like to take you out - this is extremely corny

Will you go out with me - very corny - I forbid you to say this


I want to get to know you better - don't say this

Let's hang out sometime - this is lame

Etc

1. let's grab a bite next time you're free.
2. or, im gonna be trying out xyz restaurant tonight.. i want you to come with me.

neither of these makes u look like a cornball, nor do they come off as weak. i'd use the second one
 

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1. let's grab a bite next time you're free.
2. or, im gonna be trying out xyz restaurant tonight.. i want you to come with me.

neither of these makes u look like a cornball, nor do they come off as weak. i'd use the second one


Yours sound better but my personal opinion is asking someone out always comes off corny to me. I don't even know yet which restaurant I want to go to and don't even know if I want to do the lunch or dinner thing. I got like 2 yrs to figure it out. The good thing is I've known her for 8 yrs so that will make it less nervous
 
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