Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So my ex reached out to me last week after not talking for a few months. It started the same way as last time about how I don't reach out to her or care about keeping the friendship alive. Then she started to ask questions like: do you miss me, do you miss the sex we have, do you think about me, why don't you ever reach out to me. The crazy thing is she got engaged to the dude she was cheating on me with after we were broken up for 2 months. So I asked her, why do you only call me when your fiance isn't around. But fast forward to today, i reached out to her which was stupid, to ask a question I thought was funny. Just know all hell broke lose. I was called immature, stupid, crazy, etc. It ended with her saying she never wants to talk to me again. Now that the line of communication has finally been cut, I can enjoy life stress free, the way it was meant to be.

Take it from me, never reach out to an ex! I'm trying to save y'all from the headache and stress.
u knew better than to reach out to her.
when she reached out to u last week, the game we taught u in this thread should have kicked in and u shoulda had her head over to your place to complete all that talking/questioning she was doing on the phone, in person. u shoulda told her, 'hey, dont expect anything to happen. i've been a good boy for the past few weeks'. watch her scurry down quick to try to see if she can make u "bad" again.
 

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So my ex reached out to me last week after not talking for a few months. It started the same way as last time about how I don't reach out to her or care about keeping the friendship alive. Then she started to ask questions like: do you miss me, do you miss the sex we have, do you think about me, why don't you ever reach out to me. The crazy thing is she got engaged to the dude she was cheating on me with after we were broken up for 2 months. So I asked her, why do you only call me when your fiance isn't around. But fast forward to today, i reached out to her which was stupid, to ask a question I thought was funny. Just know all hell broke lose. I was called immature, stupid, crazy, etc. It ended with her saying she never wants to talk to me again. Now that the line of communication has finally been cut, I can enjoy life stress free, the way it was meant to be.

Take it from me, never reach out to an ex! I'm trying to save y'all from the headache and stress.
My ex was wild. She would face time me at 2 am with her man asleep in the background :mindblown:
 

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What is everyone thoughts on receiving compliments from women you are dating. By compliments I mean in regards to how you dress, how good you smell, how you kiss, personality, eyc
 

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All exes will do is lead you to a path of destruction.

Doesn't matter how strong you are or how it ended there like kaa from jungle book they know how to get you in a trance. Cut the cord now. Zero of my exes can contact me unless they show up at my front door. None of that friends crap, I dont do social media so they can't stalk me and vice versa

Your not talking with your old boss eh no matter how much you loved that gig
 

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Beige Phillip is garbage....Black Phillip is GOAT

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All exes will do is lead you to a path of destruction.

Doesn't matter how strong you are or how it ended there like kaa from jungle book they know how to get you in a trance. Cut the cord now. Zero of my exes can contact me unless they show up at my front door. None of that friends crap, I dont do social media so they can't stalk me and vice versa

Your not talking with your old boss eh no matter how much you loved that gig


That's what I'm talking about

Now answer my question we aren't talking about exes anymore
 

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Calling out women on their bullshyt has worked wonders for me.

This co-worker I've been working with for a couple of weeks has been hot/cold with me. Flirty one day, then standoffish the next.

Today, she was real short with her answers and would purposely ignore me when I tried to get her attention (work related, not trying to holler)

So I flat out told her that she needs to watch her tone. Ignored her the rest of the day.

Towards the end of our shift she walks by me and hands me a sticky note saying, "Can we talk please?"

:russ:

I don't know if women subconsiously shyt test you or if it's intentional, but if you show them you're not a pushover you're in brehs.
 

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Calling out women on their bullshyt has worked wonders for me.

This co-worker I've been working with for a couple of weeks has been hot/cold with me. Flirty one day, then standoffish the next.

Today, she was real short with her answers and would purposely ignore me when I tried to get her attention (work related, not trying to holler)

So I flat out told her that she needs to watch her tone. Ignored her the rest of the day.

Towards the end of our shift she walks by me and hands me a sticky note saying, "Can we talk please?"

:russ:

I don't know if women subconsiously shyt test you or if it's intentional, but if you show them you're not a pushover you're in brehs.


wtf? you do realize that's a work environment right???
the words "watch your tone" are fighting words. she probably didn't want to lose her job so she wants to set the record straight and make peace. maybe she's going through personal drama. either way, here u are thinking "oooo im in there".
 

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that whole exchange was interesting. :ehh: selfishness leading to more security. never thought of it that way. :ehh: even though the subject has been beaten to death on here. i get it. being overly nice does come off as weak. :yeshrug:

Selfishness also leads to leaving them to be single mothers and fukking other women :yeshrug:

Let's just chalk it up to women being dumb and selecting traits that don't translate into being great fathers and husbands. Sad thing is it's their kids who suffer really, not having a father because of their moms choices. Pretty sure the kids would rather have the nice guy dad who's there to raise them than the bad boy dad who fukked mom good and then became a mega deadbeat dad. My nephew sure does :manny: but hey.....these broads don't care so I definitely don't.
 

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Selfishness also leads to leaving them to be single mothers and fukking other women :yeshrug:

Let's just chalk it up to women being dumb and selecting traits that don't translate into being great fathers and husbands. Sad thing is it's their kids who suffer really, not having a father because of their moms choices. Pretty sure the kids would rather have the nice guy dad who's there to raise them than the bad boy dad who fukked mom good and then became a mega deadbeat dad. My nephew sure does :manny: but hey.....these broads don't care so I definitely don't.
:ehh:
 

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Calling out women on their bullshyt has worked wonders for me.

This
co-worker I've been working with for a couple of weeks has been hot/cold with me. Flirty one day, then standoffish the next.

Today, she was real short with her answers and would purposely ignore me when I tried to get her attention (work related, not trying to holler)

So I flat out told her that she needs to watch her tone. Ignored her the rest of the day.

Towards the end of our shift she walks by me and hands me a sticky note saying, "Can we talk please?"

:russ:

I don't know if women subconsiously shyt test you or if it's intentional, but if you show them you're not a pushover you're in brehs.
likewise. been telling nikkas to do this shyt
 
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