What has worked for me:
Cologne, get some nice shyt. David Beckam is fukking awesome! that shyt is a p*ssy magnet... make sure you have that on when you a hug a female
When introduced, shake their hand like you would do a female, not all fukking crazy like you do your boys
Compliment them! This shyt is like guaranteed - say how their makeup is flawless and compliment their wardrobe, saying how it matches the colors and it brings out her complexion
Compliment their eyes and hair, tell her she smells like flowers - this worked pretty well for me.
Talk about them! Not you.
Dress nice, but don't out dress them. Pull up your fukking pants too, if you still doing this shyt... just know you losing to professionals out here
Talk like you got some damn sense, like you are educated. Not saying you have to be preppy, but actually speak english, cut some of that slang out. It's nice to have, but you shouldn't be communicating with a woman like your on Love and Hip Hop
Don't smoke anything
Open the doors for them including their cars (your car really). When walking on the side walk, make sure you move between her and the street with the traffic. Actually say, "hey move over here" so she clues in on that you know how to be a gentlemen - this works really well.
Stay up on current events, but stay away from controversial politics unless you both share the same views... if you don't know where she stands beforehand, then don't risk it. She find out you like a certain issue that she is opposed to, then its curtains for you.
Don't ask her what or where she wants to eat!!! Just say "We are going here to XYZ and we are eating ABC". Take the lead, your the alpha male here. Be spontaneous, go to a Starbucks sit and conversate
Finally, be who you are. If you are a geek/nerd, tell her straight up. Be confident in yourself. I tell women al the time I'm a fukking nerd, and they ask "LOL, yeah, really, how?" I say, I play Magic the gathering, I read comic books, I love anime - all which I do and love. You'll be surprised how well this works. I just show confidence, even though deep down I'm nervous as fukk. Ask her what her guilty pleasure is, then volunteer yours as well, but make sure its something lovingly embarrassing about yourself. It shows that you are able to have fun, poke fun at yourself and can have a good time.
If you talk on the phone, be neutral in the conservation with whatever she talks about. Also, DO NOT AGREE on everything she says - you DO WANT TO BE controversial so that it gives her a challenge. No females wants a Yes Man. I'm not saying be an a$$hole, just be unpredictable.
Last killer tip - if you know where she works, to seal the deal - send her flowers at her job, make sure its on a Monday where everyone is around because Monday's are usually the most busiest days.
I hope this helps some of yall. My batting average with dating chicks and sex is around 85% success rate. Its not about the sex either, but having a relationship and sex is.
Remember, the worst that she can say is "No". Remember, it's her loss, not yours.