Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So the girl I talked to Thursday for 30 min just sent me a text saying she will be able to get together tonight around 1030pm. She had told me she would let me know yesterday. This is the woman who is 10 years older than me. I'm thinking I'm going to tell her since she didn't get back to me yesterday I made plans. For some reason I'm just not that eager to meet her, and I don't want to waste time and money tonight especially after what happened with the last woman
30 mins? bruh u were on the phone? Or was this in person?
 

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On the phone, already said that, I don't care if she bounces she is 42 about to turn 43
Oh yeah i missed that part u def was on the phone to long 10 mins tops and ur off the phone cause ur busy 42 is to old for u?
 
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My personal keys to success:

1.) Get a IG/FB account with lots of flicks of yourself and ya friends /fam having fun.

2.) Approach Approach Approach!

3.) Have sum female homegirls who'll vouch for you.

4.) Cut off ya beard. Don't be lookin scraggly like u just came off tha set of Duck Dynasty

5.) Carry ya self like u da number 1 pimp in da United States.

6.) Wear some nice smelling expensive cologne

7.) Don't "phone bone" and "text bone" chicks. Use da phone n text STRICTLY for meet ups. 3-5 min TOPS!!!

8.) Remember, just like u want a real feminine acting woman, a chick want a real, masculine man.

9.) Flirt with women NONSTOP. Compliment em, tease em, hug em etc

yea bruh, this the type of posts we expect in this thread. keep telling us the details of your exploits, so nikkas can learn.
 

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Oh yeah i missed that part u def was on the phone to long 10 mins tops and ur off the phone cause ur busy 42 is to old for u?

Is it to old no, but after dating womem 10-12 years older than me on multiple occasions I don't consider it a big lose if I never meet her
 
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My personal keys to success:

1.) Get a IG/FB account with lots of flicks of yourself and ya friends /fam having fun.

2.) Approach Approach Approach!

3.) Have sum female homegirls who'll vouch for you.

4.) Cut off ya beard. Don't be lookin scraggly like u just came off tha set of Duck Dynasty

5.) Carry ya self like u da number 1 pimp in da United States.

6.) Wear some nice smelling expensive cologne

7.) Don't "phone bone" and "text bone" chicks. Use da phone n text STRICTLY for meet ups. 3-5 min TOPS!!!

8.) Remember, just like u want a real feminine acting woman, a chick want a real, masculine man.

9.) Flirt with women NONSTOP. Compliment em, tease em, hug em etc

#Yessir
 

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My personal keys to success:

1.) Get a IG/FB account with lots of flicks of yourself and ya friends /fam having fun.

2.) Approach Approach Approach!

3.) Have sum female homegirls who'll vouch for you.

4.) Cut off ya beard. Don't be lookin scraggly like u just came off tha set of Duck Dynasty

5.) Carry ya self like u da number 1 pimp in da United States.

6.) Wear some nice smelling expensive cologne

7.) Don't "phone bone" and "text bone" chicks. Use da phone n text STRICTLY for meet ups. 3-5 min TOPS!!!

8.) Remember, just like u want a real feminine acting woman, a chick want a real, masculine man.

9.) Flirt with women NONSTOP. Compliment em, tease em, hug em etc


LL
 

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What has worked for me:

Cologne, get some nice shyt. David Beckam is fukking awesome! that shyt is a p*ssy magnet... make sure you have that on when you a hug a female

When introduced, shake their hand like you would do a female, not all fukking crazy like you do your boys

Compliment them! This shyt is like guaranteed - say how their makeup is flawless and compliment their wardrobe, saying how it matches the colors and it brings out her complexion

Compliment their eyes and hair, tell her she smells like flowers - this worked pretty well for me.

Talk about them! Not you.

Dress nice, but don't out dress them. Pull up your fukking pants too, if you still doing this shyt... just know you losing to professionals out here

Talk like you got some damn sense, like you are educated. Not saying you have to be preppy, but actually speak english, cut some of that slang out. It's nice to have, but you shouldn't be communicating with a woman like your on Love and Hip Hop

Don't smoke anything

Open the doors for them including their cars (your car really). When walking on the side walk, make sure you move between her and the street with the traffic. Actually say, "hey move over here" so she clues in on that you know how to be a gentlemen - this works really well.

Stay up on current events, but stay away from controversial politics unless you both share the same views... if you don't know where she stands beforehand, then don't risk it. She find out you like a certain issue that she is opposed to, then its curtains for you.

Don't ask her what or where she wants to eat!!! Just say "We are going here to XYZ and we are eating ABC". Take the lead, your the alpha male here. Be spontaneous, go to a Starbucks sit and conversate

Finally, be who you are. If you are a geek/nerd, tell her straight up. Be confident in yourself. I tell women al the time I'm a fukking nerd, and they ask "LOL, yeah, really, how?" I say, I play Magic the gathering, I read comic books, I love anime - all which I do and love. You'll be surprised how well this works. I just show confidence, even though deep down I'm nervous as fukk. Ask her what her guilty pleasure is, then volunteer yours as well, but make sure its something lovingly embarrassing about yourself. It shows that you are able to have fun, poke fun at yourself and can have a good time.

If you talk on the phone, be neutral in the conservation with whatever she talks about. Also, DO NOT AGREE on everything she says - you DO WANT TO BE controversial so that it gives her a challenge. No females wants a Yes Man. I'm not saying be an a$$hole, just be unpredictable.

Last killer tip - if you know where she works, to seal the deal - send her flowers at her job, make sure its on a Monday where everyone is around because Monday's are usually the most busiest days.

I hope this helps some of yall. My batting average with dating chicks and sex is around 85% success rate. Its not about the sex either, but having a relationship and sex is.

Remember, the worst that she can say is "No". Remember, it's her loss, not yours.
 

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What has worked for me:

Cologne, get some nice shyt. David Beckam is fukking awesome! that shyt is a p*ssy magnet... make sure you have that on when you a hug a female

When introduced, shake their hand like you would do a female, not all fukking crazy like you do your boys

Compliment them! This shyt is like guaranteed - say how their makeup is flawless and compliment their wardrobe, saying how it matches the colors and it brings out her complexion

Compliment their eyes and hair, tell her she smells like flowers - this worked pretty well for me.

Talk about them! Not you.

Dress nice, but don't out dress them. Pull up your fukking pants too, if you still doing this shyt... just know you losing to professionals out here

Talk like you got some damn sense, like you are educated. Not saying you have to be preppy, but actually speak english, cut some of that slang out. It's nice to have, but you shouldn't be communicating with a woman like your on Love and Hip Hop

Don't smoke anything

Open the doors for them including their cars (your car really). When walking on the side walk, make sure you move between her and the street with the traffic. Actually say, "hey move over here" so she clues in on that you know how to be a gentlemen - this works really well.

Stay up on current events, but stay away from controversial politics unless you both share the same views... if you don't know where she stands beforehand, then don't risk it. She find out you like a certain issue that she is opposed to, then its curtains for you.

Don't ask her what or where she wants to eat!!! Just say "We are going here to XYZ and we are eating ABC". Take the lead, your the alpha male here. Be spontaneous, go to a Starbucks sit and conversate

Finally, be who you are. If you are a geek/nerd, tell her straight up. Be confident in yourself. I tell women al the time I'm a fukking nerd, and they ask "LOL, yeah, really, how?" I say, I play Magic the gathering, I read comic books, I love anime - all which I do and love. You'll be surprised how well this works. I just show confidence, even though deep down I'm nervous as fukk. Ask her what her guilty pleasure is, then volunteer yours as well, but make sure its something lovingly embarrassing about yourself. It shows that you are able to have fun, poke fun at yourself and can have a good time.

If you talk on the phone, be neutral in the conservation with whatever she talks about. Also, DO NOT AGREE on everything she says - you DO WANT TO BE controversial so that it gives her a challenge. No females wants a Yes Man. I'm not saying be an a$$hole, just be unpredictable.

Last killer tip - if you know where she works, to seal the deal - send her flowers at her job, make sure its on a Monday where everyone is around because Monday's are usually the most busiest days.

I hope this helps some of yall. My batting average with dating chicks and sex is around 85% success rate. Its not about the sex either, but having a relationship and sex is.

Remember, the worst that she can say is "No". Remember, it's her loss, not yours.


Any guy worth any common sense and worth a salt should already be doing this. I already do pretty much all that except the shaking of hands and it has worked throughout the years.

I never cuss or use slang period around any woman regardless ofy relationship with her

Always open doors and my car door especially the first 2-3 dates, after that I will do it here and there. I have never asked a woman to pick where we should go, I pick the place and appetizer( I grab an appetizer when going for drinks). I will ask them if so and so time works for them especially if they have a kid


Great post though
 
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