Youseenmywork
KING
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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I've said it before I'll say it again BUY THIS BOOK ....most of the things in this thread are there but in a more sophisticated form. Life changing.
John Reena
Superstar
I don't like the drawbacks I have in life. I hate how my tongue feels restrained when I go to talk. I just want shyt to feel normal. Im trying to get women and work on weight issues.
Just let if flow breh. Be ya self, just don't say nothing disrespectful.
I feel like I need to put in overtime into how I look. Because my confidence is there. But not where I want it to be. I know women out here fukk with fat dudes, but I'd rather have a bigger pool to choose from. 
I'm starting to just not get my hopes up anymore. All the allure and luster I had with women is dead. They're people. Not prizes to me. And I needed that. I'm just doing shyt that makes me feel great. Threw out old clothes, buying new ones.
@Biggums this is the 5th time Ive told her to clean up after herself and she keeps promising to change. Even gave her a main closet so i can throw her random items in there when she leaves them out.
@TRUEST she works security and likes her job.
I pay all of the bills.
My Dad had to pay our rent last month cause im maxed out
Did I mention she doesnt give head?
Youseenmywork
KING
“The inherent flaw is that these men already begin from a perspective that women are in a position of unquestioned primacy and require their permission to be ‘men’.” - rational male
I don't like the drawbacks I have in life. I hate how my tongue feels restrained when I go to talk. I just want shyt to feel normal. Im trying to get women and work on weight issues.
My tongue has no restrain I speak what I feel in a respectful manner but you have me fukked up thinking I won't put u in ur place either
I'm very blunt no matter how respectful I am cuz I have the no fukks given attitude I ain't gonna sugar coat shyt to a female when I know damn well she play more games than the MLB
I treat u how u treat me simple as that
When I'm angry I have no hesitation. Just cause I'm hesitant, it doesn't prevent me from putting a disrespectful broad in her place. I'm nice and all, but I'm no pushover. I worry to much about being interesting with women but who cares. I feel if she likes me enough she'd find whatever I say interesting.
Youseenmywork
KING
Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
As jaded as this is, it's so real. That heartbreak puts a lot of things in perspective. Unfortunately it leaves behind some serious scars.
Correct Posture is highly underrated
I need some guidance brehs I took a L that kinda fukked my head up. My whole view on women has been shifted tremendously and I don't think I can go back to how I was. To behonest I'm not fully over it and prolly won't be for awhile but I'm at a place where I can move on now but I'm now dealing with some weird anger or disdain. Not because it didn't workout but because I feel like i had shyt happen that I didn't deserve happen to me. Also feeling disrespected. Also feeling like my intelligence is being insulted I can admit I'm a little inexperienced but I'm not dumb or that inexperienced in life to not know when something ain't right.
So now I'm walking around carrying this distrust and fear when I talk to other women, kinda making me not even want to fukk with them really. Don't really want to give them the chance to have me looking like a clown or a fool and I don't want to be that vulnerable again. Also I cant seem to bring myself to be that sweet charming cat I normally am to women. Its like I don't want to go so hard and go out my way trying to be a decent breh if all I'm going to get is what I got. I really feel like I got a lot of grief for no reason. I could see if I was a foul nikka but all I did was be good. I don't want to be #HoH but everytime I think about everything in it's entirety knowing everything it got me feeling all kinds of angry.
It's like I can't look at women or relationships the same at all and it's making me want to move in a very different way. I can really see why some dudes move with that coldness towards women now. It's hard trying to fight that #HoH feeling and that's not who I want to be but Im feeling like I got did dirty for no reason and I didn't deserve it.
I just want to feel like I use to feel but I don't think that's ever coming back. It's like that mental connection I forged is made of diamond and cannot be broken at all. That's why it's fukking with me so bad. It's one hell of a connection and it crushed me.
I'm carrying some anger brehs and I can't point it at the right place because it melts me.
So now I'm walking around carrying this distrust and fear when I talk to other women, kinda making me not even want to fukk with them really. Don't really want to give them the chance to have me looking like a clown or a fool and I don't want to be that vulnerable again. Also I cant seem to bring myself to be that sweet charming cat I normally am to women. Its like I don't want to go so hard and go out my way trying to be a decent breh if all I'm going to get is what I got. I really feel like I got a lot of grief for no reason. I could see if I was a foul nikka but all I did was be good. I don't want to be #HoH but everytime I think about everything in it's entirety knowing everything it got me feeling all kinds of angry.
It's like I can't look at women or relationships the same at all and it's making me want to move in a very different way. I can really see why some dudes move with that coldness towards women now. It's hard trying to fight that #HoH feeling and that's not who I want to be but Im feeling like I got did dirty for no reason and I didn't deserve it.
I just want to feel like I use to feel but I don't think that's ever coming back. It's like that mental connection I forged is made of diamond and cannot be broken at all. That's why it's fukking with me so bad. It's one hell of a connection and it crushed me.
I'm carrying some anger brehs and I can't point it at the right place because it melts me.
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