Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Enjoy being single. Relationships are not as wonderful as society makes them seem.

They sell you on having somebody that's going to love you unconditionally. It's all a load of crock. You lose freedom to do as you please.

Is there a woman that's worth it? Nope. Never.

So unless you find a woman who is not gonna try to change you in anyway, a relationship is not a good look for you.

Stay single, get your money, date as many women as you can but don't commit. Also don't get anybody pregnant. That's worse than being in a relationship.
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Y'all boys be safe, it's a dirty game.

My bro goes to school in VA and came down here for the weekend for NYE. His homegirls friend came out too and I hooked up w/one of her friends.

After the first round she says she has to stop bc she feels guilty. She's cheating on her boyfriend in the NE:dahell:

I'm siting there like:gucci:i said it was cool and didn't trip but damn. That other nikka probably think she just went on a NYE trip w/her homegirls
 

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Y'all boys be safe, it's a dirty game.

My bro goes to school in VA and came down here for the weekend for NYE. His homegirls friend came out too and I hooked up w/one of her friends.

After the first round she says she has to stop bc she feels guilty. She's cheating on her boyfriend in the NE:dahell:

I'm siting there like:gucci:i said it was cool and didn't trip but damn. That other nikka probably think she just went on a NYE trip w/her homegirls
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Y'all boys be safe, it's a dirty game.

My bro goes to school in VA and came down here for the weekend for NYE. His homegirls friend came out too and I hooked up w/one of her friends.

After the first round she says she has to stop bc she feels guilty. She's cheating on her boyfriend in the NE:dahell:

I'm siting there like:gucci:i said it was cool and didn't trip but damn. That other nikka probably think she just went on a NYE trip w/her homegirls
Straight up disrespectful of her. If she was my girl I wouldn't have allowed her to go on the trip in the first place, especially if I'm not invited.
 

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Enjoy being single. Relationships are not as wonderful as society makes them seem.

They sell you on having somebody that's going to love you unconditionally. It's all a load of crock. You lose freedom to do as you please.

Is there a woman that's worth it? Nope. Never.

So unless you find a woman who is not gonna try to change you in anyway, a relationship is not a good look for you.

Stay single, get your money, date as many women as you can but don't commit. Also don't get anybody pregnant. That's worse than being in a relationship.

Excellent advice!
 

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I got flaked on tonight and I'm trying to see if I handled it the right way...


Last weekend I took out a female to dinner & a movie.. the date was coo.. she was coo.. I enjoyed myself..

Middle of this week I set up a date for Friday..

We were gonna

-get dinner

- go look at lights at the zoo

-smoke & drink

Well the zoo plan got washed when we found out the shyt closed at 9pm...


So at 6pm I hit her up.. She asked what I had in mind since the zoo idea was dead.. I told her I wasn't sure but I'm bout to go pick up the weed from my guy and we can figure some out when I get there... she tells me be at her place by 8 n that she got an errand to run quick...


So I get to my guys round 7:15 grab the weed n start up 2k with him... my phone rings and its shorty

She said some goofy shyt like " I feel really bad but I'm sick right now and I'm gonna stay in, I don't wanna be all in your face when I'm sick"

All I said was " oh okay it's alright.. bye" and hung up with her..

5 mins later I get a text from her " damn I feel some type of way"..

I replied back "nah... don't ... it's coo.."


N haven't heard back from her since..


Back in the day I would've pushed the issue but now that I'm older if they're gonna flake they're gonna flake..

If a bytch really wants to see u she will... Even if there sick a lil bit (when I was dating my ex I'd still see her if she had a cold or whatever)..

So I'm not gonna force the issue when ultimately it's all in the bytches hands ...


I just wondered what the point of the text was after she already cancelled


And I think I might've scared her off by the simple fact that I didn't have a ACTUAL go out date set up and instead was just banking on smoking and drinking with the bytch... maybe she thought I was trynin to run game for some p*ssy... idk


@twan83

That was it. You didnt setup a new plan after the Zoo date fell through and told her that you would freestyle it once you got to her place. She hit up another dude and got a better offer. My weekends are reserved for chicks I'm already smashing. New chicks dont get weekend dates...
 

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That was it. You didnt setup a new plan after the Zoo date fell through and told her that you would freestyle it once you got to her place. She hit up another dude and got a better offer. My weekends are reserved for chicks I'm already smashing. New chicks dont get weekend dates...
Awe damn I forgot to update y'all on this..

She cancelled that Saturday, and then the next day she kept apologizing..

I think she was actually sick, so I set up a second date with her and we ended up going out this past Thursday ..
 

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Ok so we all know about the 3 date rule. If you havent fukked by the 3rd date to just call it a loss with the girl..

What i wanted to ask yall about is kissing...obviously you should only be going on dates" with girls your looking for a relationship in the first place...

But can you guys tell me what you do with the kissing aspect? would you say its best to do that on the first date?

sorry for sounding like a square....but im a square :manny:

we all help each other in here no matter how silly we sound. just wanted to ask you guys perspective on that.
2nd date..if there's a 2nd date you know she likes you and she expects that.
 
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