I got flaked on tonight and I'm trying to see if I handled it the right way...
Last weekend I took out a female to dinner & a movie.. the date was coo.. she was coo.. I enjoyed myself..
Middle of this week I set up a date for Friday..
We were gonna
-get dinner
- go look at lights at the zoo
-smoke & drink
Well the zoo plan got washed when we found out the shyt closed at 9pm...
So at 6pm I hit her up.. She asked what I had in mind since the zoo idea was dead.. I told her I wasn't sure but I'm bout to go pick up the weed from my guy and we can figure some out when I get there... she tells me be at her place by 8 n that she got an errand to run quick...
So I get to my guys round 7:15 grab the weed n start up 2k with him... my phone rings and its shorty
She said some goofy shyt like " I feel really bad but I'm sick right now and I'm gonna stay in, I don't wanna be all in your face when I'm sick"
All I said was " oh okay it's alright.. bye" and hung up with her..
5 mins later I get a text from her " damn I feel some type of way"..
I replied back "nah... don't ... it's coo.."
N haven't heard back from her since..
Back in the day I would've pushed the issue but now that I'm older if they're gonna flake they're gonna flake..
If a bytch really wants to see u she will... Even if there sick a lil bit (when I was dating my ex I'd still see her if she had a cold or whatever)..
So I'm not gonna force the issue when ultimately it's all in the bytches hands ...
I just wondered what the point of the text was after she already cancelled
And I think I might've scared her off by the simple fact that I didn't have a ACTUAL go out date set up and instead was just banking on smoking and drinking with the bytch... maybe she thought I was trynin to run game for some p*ssy... idk
@twan83