Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

It's a numbers game but

Got like 4 ladies number over the weekend hit them to hang out no reply


What makes it worse when I get the number I'm building good rapport clowning and joking with them
Not really going stress about just keep shooting I love the game

Me and this one girl was texting back and forth I got busy and didn't reply til 4 hours later
I think she got pissed and didn't text back

If a female get pissed cuz I don't reply at her convenience she either or will deal with her when I'm good and ready as far as I'm concerned

As far as getting numbers and hanging out that same weekend I got them I don't normally do that unless I feel like it I just txt and we talk on phone I usually make hang with them the following weekend
The reason I do the same weekend is cuz she insist which shows she is high on me
At best i might gauge what they got going on upcoming and be like what u got going on tomorrow or the next few Days
Their response will determine what my answer is
If they free not doing shyt I might ask to chill depending on my mood or how I felt we clicked even then I be like oh ok coo I would chill with u but got plans instead

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

It's a numbers game but

Got like 4 ladies number over the weekend hit them to hang out no reply


What makes it worse when I get the number I'm building good rapport clowning and joking with them
Not really going stress about just keep shooting I love the game

Me and this one girl was texting back and forth I got busy and didn't reply til 4 hours later
I think she got pissed and didn't text back

What's the purpose of texting

 

[Astroslik]

It's a numbers game but

Got like 4 ladies number over the weekend hit them to hang out no reply


What makes it worse when I get the number I'm building good rapport clowning and joking with them
Not really going stress about just keep shooting I love the game

Me and this one girl was texting back and forth I got busy and didn't reply til 4 hours later
I think she got pissed and didn't text back

6 words or less when texting, you giving away too much info over the phone.

 

[Kal El]

It's a numbers game but

Got like 4 ladies number over the weekend hit them to hang out no reply


What makes it worse when I get the number I'm building good rapport clowning and joking with them
Not really going stress about just keep shooting I love the game

Me and this one girl was texting back and forth I got busy and didn't reply til 4 hours later
I think she got pissed and didn't text back

It's cool to build a little rapport, but you should be looking to set up a date ASAP... more texts you send = more chance of boring her/saying the wrong thing

 

[Ohene]

It's cool to build a little rapport, but you should be looking to set up a date ASAP... more texts you send = more chance of boring her/saying the wrong thing

pretty much

i usually try to set something up during the 2nd/3rd text convo

 

[MollyGalaga]

Needed to see those posts above



she just got out of a aint shyt relationship tho

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Doany of you brehs go out alone? I'm considering it but part of me would feel weird about it. My boys would rather stay in and play 2k on the weekends unless it's someone's birthday

 

[Lo-Co]

Doany of you brehs go out alone? I'm considering it but part of me would feel weird about it. My boys would rather stay in and play 2k on the weekends unless it's someone's birthday

I go out solo. Helps me get out of my comfort zone.

 

[Squirtle]

Been hanging out with this girl I'm really interested in. We hung out a few times but we text constantly. I haven't been direct about my feelings for her and neither has she but I think she can tell. Anyways I ordered anonymous flowers to be delivered to her house on valentines day cause I'm a coward. I have a feeling she'll be able to guess it's from me though. Was that a bad move?

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Been hanging out with this girl I'm really interested in. We hung out a few times but we text constantly. I haven't been direct about my feelings for her and neither has she but I think she can tell. Anyways I ordered anonymous flowers to be delivered to her house on valentines day cause I'm a coward. I have a feeling she'll be able to guess it's from me though. Was that a bad move?

you'll realize It's a terrible move when they show up and no one is home to collect them because she's out with the dude who manned up and asked her out for Valentines day

 

[Actually6Foot3]

I go out solo. Helps me get out of my comfort zone.

yeah I'm going to have to cause I'm tired of having to drag these nikkas out to bars and clubs. Would def be out of my comfort zone alone. Gonna give it a shot.

 

[Jack Michaelson]

Doany of you brehs go out alone? I'm considering it but part of me would feel weird about it. My boys would rather stay in and play 2k on the weekends unless it's someone's birthday

I go out alone all the time when I can.

 

[Lo-Co]

yeah I'm going to have to cause I'm tired of having to drag these nikkas out to bars and clubs. Would def be out of my comfort zone alone. Gonna give it a shot.

Sooner you do it the better off you'll be. Lets say you trying to hang with your boys. And they all cancel. You won't skip a beat by going out solo.

 

[Solano707]

I had to drop two off the roster this week ...but they were the only ones on my roster LOL

The first one, for whatever reason, wouldn't let m GTD unless we were official - I'm not having that

The second one - was more on me though. All though, I wanted to pipe, the more I looked her, the more I had that , and then analyzing from head to toe had me like . I think what made me back pedal, was that the G in me told me to step back and raise up my standards. I swear if I had looked in the mirror - I would have given myself the look. Look brehs, easy p*ssy is not always good p*ssy. You have to live with the L when you cross that line. I'm just glad I didn't move forward.

So I ghosted on both of them. The first one got the hint, but the second one - at first she was like "whats wrong; blah blah blah" and "okay, i won't bother you anymoe" and "What did I do?". She called several times and I ignored her calls. Then she masked her number and I picked up, thinking it was my mom.

Then she was like "okay, we can be friends" - and i'm okay with that. Then she wants me to come over to her place for lunch? Why, so I knock a hole in that thang? nah - i'm not even going down that route.

 

[twan83]

Doany of you brehs go out alone? I'm considering it but part of me would feel weird about it. My boys would rather stay in and play 2k on the weekends unless it's someone's birthday

yeah I'm going to have to cause I'm tired of having to drag these nikkas out to bars and clubs. Would def be out of my comfort zone alone. Gonna give it a shot.

I use to often
Sometimes u have that 1 boy who is can't get right that fukks up ur whole night as a wing man making u like when u have it in the bag and all he gotta do is take 1 for the team when u have for him

Also it's easier too me I leave when I want too especially if I gave someone a ride bonus too that is u meet a chic and she dtf same night no pit stops cuz u gave a ride

Also like u mention u be use too it when they can't go out and also builds ur approach game to another level to meeting females
U just chill scope the field go holler and either u win or lose rinse and repeat
No one to rely on but yourself
What I always do is get to know to the bouncers and bartenders so I can build that rapport with them cuz when I'm on my own and they know me it makes me look like I'm and they will hook me up too and comes off confident in a females eye if she sees that and how friendly you are
And u ain't gotta know she scooping you the whole time
U chatting with bouncer and bartender and a female come approaching u cuz how they talking too u makes her feel comfortable and most of all curious like why are they like that with him I got too see what's up let me go over there and introduce myself
Happened to me on several occasions cuz I was coo with them and the owner didn't even need to holler they came too me