I had a chick that I was smashing a while ago hit me up recently. I haven't heard from her since I cut her off 2 years ago. I had to cut her off after we went on a date one night...
*background*
I was feeling this chick, and she was feeling me. She had a good job, came from a good family, 8 in the face, a booty that would make a man bite his fist, or loosen up his tie when she walked by. She had a great conversation, and our dates went well. We were on the cusp of a relationship.I hadn't been talking to any of my other women and she said she did the same. I was spending a night at her house after our dates, she was doing the same at my crib.
*The night I cut her off*
So I was seriously thinking about cuffing this chick. We had made plans to meet at a bar on a Friday after work for happy hour. So we meet up and are having drinks. We're having a great time with each other, laughing, joking, drinking. Then she pulls out her phone because she wants to show me some video. While she's showing me the video, a text from a dude pops up that reads "I miss you, I need to see you". So, I'm watching her to see what she does. She pauses for a second, then pretends like that shyt was not even there. Then she swipes that shyt off the screen hella fast and puts the phone away. I don't mention it at all because I'm waiting for her to address it. Now if she would have just said something like "hey, that's just a bug a boo mad because I cut him off" I would've been cool. Would you believe that this bytch never mentioned that shyt at all. I made it up in my mind that if she didnt give me some sort of explanation, that was the last time I was gonna call her. That shyt just rubbed me the wrong fukking way.
*The recent call*
She hit me talking about how she misses me and she doesn't know what she did to make me stop calling her. Basically begging to know what it was that made me stop seeing her. I know it drove her crazy because she wasn't used to be treated like that. I said I had to go, and hung up. fukk HER CLOSURE. I've learned you can't feel sorry for these women. Think of how many men she has probably curved in the same manner.
Don't give them closure, let em think about it forever.