Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's a very good sign when a woman has a sane relation with money. For instance, she's willing happily to pay for her meal and sometimes yours. A woman waiting for you to pay on the first date is not a good sign.

However, it's not a good sign when a woman always refuse to let you pay, specially when she's making more money than you. A good relation with money implies to give to others and to accept receiving from others.

If she always refuses to let you pay, she might have a sense of superiority.
 

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Man just heard a new track that fits my mood perfectly, in fact almost too perfect damn...so complicated
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I know you really want it but you belong to somebody else
Both want to be together but we can't act on it cause you belong to somebody else

 

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Damn....one of the toughest things is hollering at 2 girls when 1 is far far better looking than the other.

Scenario:

Was at the mall looking to pick out a few items. Grabbed lunch and saw 2 girls in my vicinity. 1 thick white girl with the yoga pants and her friend that I had no interest in (I think indian mixed).

Anyway, Im done eating so I go approach the group.

Introduce myself and start the small talk. White girl seems kinda interested, the other girl turns her back. Before I even reallyget flowing the Indian girl cuts me off on some.

"Well it was nice to meet you" and drags her friend away.

Oh well
 

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Damn....one of the toughest things is hollering at 2 girls when 1 is far far better looking than the other.

Scenario:

Was at the mall looking to pick out a few items. Grabbed lunch and saw 2 girls in my vicinity. 1 thick white girl with the yoga pants and her friend that I had no interest in (I think indian mixed).

Anyway, Im done eating so I go approach the group.

Introduce myself and start the small talk. White girl seems kinda interested, the other girl turns her back. Before I even reallyget flowing the Indian girl cuts me off on some.

"Well it was nice to meet you" and drags her friend away.

Oh well

The friend is a hater, what did you buy and were you solo?
 

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How do you get a chicks to be down to smash. fukk all that wife/gf shyt
If a girl attracted to you they gonna want to fukk you fast. All that shyt they talk about wait 2 months bs goes out the window when they really digging you. Unless ahe has some mental hangup then its not really your fault. You just have to think about it like this. You want to hit a girl you find a attractive why complicate it. Make your intentions understood and go for it. Always remember most bytches done got down with a nikka the day they met him...so why put up with her putting you through a million hoops to hit some shyt a nikka had within hours. Its rhe aura you exude. Exude desperation and or "boyfriend" qualities and end up waiting on that ass. Be aggro, a lil aloof and a bit of a bad boy and get them draws faster. Girls only make nikkas wait that they like who they see as bf material. So dont be that.
 
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I was solo. Only picked up a shirt, nothing serious.

It is always tough to pick up a girl when she's with her friend if you're by yourself.

dont do that again unless they're obviously eyeing u. the ugly one is always going to cockblock u and will point something out about u to throw shade on ur image to the chick u really like.

jealousy is powerful feeling. i know very ugly chicks who hang out with hot women thinking once they're seen hanging out with these women, they'll somehow be more attractive. they get hateful when they find that not to be true.
 

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dont do that again unless they're obviously eyeing u. the ugly one is always going to cockblock u and will point something out about u to throw shade on ur image to the chick u really like.

jealousy is powerful feeling. i know very ugly chicks who hang out with hot women thinking once they're seen hanging out with these women, they'll somehow be more attractive. they get hateful when they find that not to be true.

Yea man it's true but I was in an area of town I'm never really around and I just said to myself

"Why not".

I got a "No" but the world is still spinning, but I do catch your drift.
 
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My cousin is freaked out, he cummed inside of his girl for the first time on wednesday night, well he noticed that on her birth control pills that she never took the Wednesday pill, but did take the Thursday and Friday pill.

What's the chances she gets pregnant?
Tell "your cousin" to be smarter out here man :sas1:

Even if she isn't pregnant and tells your she ain't, that type of shyt will haunt you your cousin (:sas2:) all the way until the window of her possibly being pregnant passes
 

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Gem Brehs I been texting this girl who i feel like is somebody special
However its on and off and its honestly feeling stagnant (i blame myself, text game was never great)
Im pretty sure shes into me but im not into the whole waiting waiting waiting thing, and last she told me she got duped by a nikka (she was the side chick)

I feel like i need to just come out and tell her how i feel, and whatever her response is just take it and run with it.

Good move, or no?
 

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Gem Brehs I been texting this girl who i feel like is somebody special
However its on and off and its honestly feeling stagnant (i blame myself, text game was never great)
Im pretty sure shes into me but im not into the whole waiting waiting waiting thing, and last she told me she got duped by a nikka (she was the side chick)

I feel like i need to just come out and tell her how i feel, and whatever her response is just take it and run with it.

Good move, or no?
bad move. play it cool...just set up plans to see eachother. fck texts
 

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"fukk giving her closure"

I had a chick that I was smashing a while ago hit me up recently. I haven't heard from her since I cut her off 2 years ago. I had to cut her off after we went on a date one night...

*background*

I was feeling this chick, and she was feeling me. She had a good job, came from a good family, 8 in the face, a booty that would make a man bite his fist, or loosen up his tie when she walked by. She had a great conversation, and our dates went well. We were on the cusp of a relationship.I hadn't been talking to any of my other women and she said she did the same. I was spending a night at her house after our dates, she was doing the same at my crib.

*The night I cut her off*

So I was seriously thinking about cuffing this chick. We had made plans to meet at a bar on a Friday after work for happy hour. So we meet up and are having drinks. We're having a great time with each other, laughing, joking, drinking. Then she pulls out her phone because she wants to show me some video. While she's showing me the video, a text from a dude pops up that reads "I miss you, I need to see you". So, I'm watching her to see what she does. She pauses for a second, then pretends like that shyt was not even there. Then she swipes that shyt off the screen hella fast and puts the phone away. I don't mention it at all because I'm waiting for her to address it. Now if she would have just said something like "hey, that's just a bug a boo mad because I cut him off" I would've been cool. Would you believe that this bytch never mentioned that shyt at all. I made it up in my mind that if she didnt give me some sort of explanation, that was the last time I was gonna call her. That shyt just rubbed me the wrong fukking way.

*The recent call*

She hit me talking about how she misses me and she doesn't know what she did to make me stop calling her. Basically begging to know what it was that made me stop seeing her. I know it drove her crazy because she wasn't used to be treated like that. I said I had to go, and hung up. fukk HER CLOSURE. I've learned you can't feel sorry for these women. Think of how many men she has probably curved in the same manner.

Don't give them closure, let em think about it forever.
 

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If a girl attracted to you they gonna want to fukk you fast. All that shyt they talk about wait 2 months bs goes out the window when they really digging you. Unless ahe has some mental hangup then its not really your fault. You just have to think about it like this. You want to hit a girl you find a attractive why complicate it. Make your intentions understood and go for it. Always remember most bytches done got down with a nikka the day they met him...so why put up with her putting you through a million hoops to hit some shyt a nikka had within hours. Its rhe aura you exude. Exude desperation and or "boyfriend" qualities and end up waiting on that ass. Be aggro, a lil aloof and a bit of a bad boy and get them draws faster. Girls only make nikkas wait that they like who they see as bf material. So dont be that.

I tell them I'm only interested in sex/head and they shot me some bullshyt line "I'm not that type of chick" (I do not have patience for that shyt) so then I'm there the whole night sitting at the bar cause all the chicks I find attractive are not down and I cannot just smash any chick.
 
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dont do that again unless they're obviously eyeing u. the ugly one is always going to cockblock u and will point something out about u to throw shade on ur image to the chick u really like.

jealousy is powerful feeling. i know very ugly chicks who hang out with hot women thinking once they're seen hanging out with these women, they'll somehow be more attractive. they get hateful when they find that not to be true.

There is not one word I disagree with in here. #100Mane
 
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