Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Yea man it's true but I was in an area of town I'm never really around and I just said to myself

"Why not".

I got a "No" but the world is still spinning, but I do catch your drift.

At least you had the balls to approach the women regardless if they were gone fukk with you or not. Can't hate on that.

 

[Mr210]

I was solo. Only picked up a shirt, nothing serious.

It is always tough to pick up a girl when she's with her friend if you're by yourself.

Yea I feel you

 

[Youseenmywork]

"fukk giving her closure"

Spoiler

I had a chick that I was smashing a while ago hit me up recently. I haven't heard from her since I cut her off 2 years ago. I had to cut her off after we went on a date one night...

*background*

I was feeling this chick, and she was feeling me. She had a good job, came from a good family, 8 in the face, a booty that would make a man bite his fist, or loosen up his tie when she walked by. She had a great conversation, and our dates went well. We were on the cusp of a relationship.I hadn't been talking to any of my other women and she said she did the same. I was spending a night at her house after our dates, she was doing the same at my crib.

*The night I cut her off*

So I was seriously thinking about cuffing this chick. We had made plans to meet at a bar on a Friday after work for happy hour. So we meet up and are having drinks. We're having a great time with each other, laughing, joking, drinking. Then she pulls out her phone because she wants to show me some video. While she's showing me the video, a text from a dude pops up that reads "I miss you, I need to see you". So, I'm watching her to see what she does. She pauses for a second, then pretends like that shyt was not even there. Then she swipes that shyt off the screen hella fast and puts the phone away. I don't mention it at all because I'm waiting for her to address it. Now if she would have just said something like "hey, that's just a bug a boo mad because I cut him off" I would've been cool. Would you believe that this bytch never mentioned that shyt at all. I made it up in my mind that if she didnt give me some sort of explanation, that was the last time I was gonna call her. That shyt just rubbed me the wrong fukking way.

*The recent call*

She hit me talking about how she misses me and she doesn't know what she did to make me stop calling her. Basically begging to know what it was that made me stop seeing her. I know it drove her crazy because she wasn't used to be treated like that. I said I had to go, and hung up. fukk HER CLOSURE. I've learned you can't feel sorry for these women. Think of how many men she has probably curved in the same manner.

Don't give them closure, let em think about it forever.

As the older I get since society says women are equal with men I feel they should suffer like a guy when they make these "mistakes". It seems to me that there is no repercussions for thier action. I think you did the right thing thoe. Its the wild west out here.

 

[Astroslik]

As the older I get since society says women are equal with men I feel they should suffer like a guy when they make these "mistakes". It seems to me that there is no repercussions for thier action. I think you did the right thing thoe. Its the wild west out here.

This shyt is war, better them than me.
I'm cutting bytches off with no regard in 2017

Even a late response to my text warrants the bushes

 

[twan83]

As the older I get since society says women are equal with men I feel they should suffer like a guy when they make these "mistakes". It seems to me that there is no repercussions for thier action. I think you did the right thing thoe. Its the wild west out here.

This shyt is war, better them than me.
I'm cutting bytches off with no regard in 2017

Even a late response to my text warrants the bushes

Feel the same way females just drop u outta the blue when u ready to cuff or u hitting and staying the night and u make her ur star on ur roster and then BAM she cuts u off
I only give closure to those who show me proper respect
Otherwise

Ex: she wasn't feeling me no more and I wasn't feeling her as much she made the move first to tell me and it was aight take care then


Now this one female was bad a fukk both parents dentist and she driving a Beamer and it was around when batman begins came out in movies
I was already heated cuz she came late with no explanation ain't gonna lie when she pulled up in Beamer looking fine ass fukk I almost succumb but I was strong
She was like sorry was late and we miss movie time said we can catch next show in 30 mins but goes to say she hungry
I was like
U late give no explanation and tell me ur hungry looking at me to feed u. I said ok hop in my car we'll run up the street together to get some food breh I got her ass a $1 cheeseburger and kid frie
I know she was mad as fukk like u cheap b*stard I'm over eating a value meal like
So we go watch the movie cuddle up and then my co worker hit me up let's go to club tonite i tell him I'll let him know
I go to her wanna go to club she was like yea but wants to shower and change for club
Call her in bout 30 mins I said coo
Brehs she didn't even pick up phone and
Told my co worker she was coming came empty handed I was like and at same time
Funny how that night at club I pull a badder female instead
Wasn't gonna let that shyt stop me from enjoying myself I ended up having fun that night in more ways than one

 

[Mr210]

I salute all the great advice being posted in here...keep dropping them gems

 

[Deafheaven]

Went on a date with a cute lil redbone chick last night. We hit it off well. Was kind of shy but once I worked her out her shell we just vibed on blackness, all these weird ass white people around us, and all types of other shyt. By the end of the night she was gushing about seeing me again. I'mma wait till next week to ask her out again but I'm getting decent vibes from this one.

Its nice to know I still have some juice

 

[RealAssanova]

@RdikkemDown said it best. You can't feel sorry for these broads. I know women think (if at all) differently then men in that they use their emotions to guide and dictate their decisions. But can we constantly use that as an excuse to justify their judgement/actions and poor decisions when it comes to nikkas? Nope.

I downloaded tinder last night and deleted it this afternoon. Saw some girls i hooked up with over a year ago and most recently on there. The most recent one wrote in her bio "why do i keep doing this to myself?" She wrote that because she is used to nikkas recycling her. Now, would a sane woman with a ounce of self-respect and dignity do what she is doing? i highly doubt it...which is why i don't feel sorry for her or most women in her shoes.

and that is the sad reality.....that she is not the only one. There are alot of damaged women outthere. I only wish i had fukks to give.

 

[Astroslik]

Went on a date with a cute lil redbone chick last night. We hit it off well. Was kind of shy but once I worked her out her shell we just vibed on blackness, all these weird ass white people around us, and all types of other shyt. By the end of the night she was gushing about seeing me again. I'mma wait till next week to ask her out again but I'm getting decent vibes from this one.

Its nice to know I still have some juice

being black in minnesota..

 

[Deafheaven]

being black in minnesota..

Its not that bad our white people know not to get outside they body

 

[MollyGalaga]

Welp

 

[Kal El]

I tell them I'm only interested in sex/head and they shot me some bullshyt line "I'm not that type of chick" (I do not have patience for that shyt) so then I'm there the whole night sitting at the bar cause all the chicks I find attractive are not down and I cannot just smash any chick.

You can convey the same message with your words without being so blunt.

"I'm not looking for anything serious right now, but I'll make an exception if the right girl comes along"

^ Same message, but you won't scare chicks off.

 

[International Playa]

"fukk giving her closure"

Spoiler

I had a chick that I was smashing a while ago hit me up recently. I haven't heard from her since I cut her off 2 years ago. I had to cut her off after we went on a date one night...

*background*

I was feeling this chick, and she was feeling me. She had a good job, came from a good family, 8 in the face, a booty that would make a man bite his fist, or loosen up his tie when she walked by. She had a great conversation, and our dates went well. We were on the cusp of a relationship.I hadn't been talking to any of my other women and she said she did the same. I was spending a night at her house after our dates, she was doing the same at my crib.

*The night I cut her off*

So I was seriously thinking about cuffing this chick. We had made plans to meet at a bar on a Friday after work for happy hour. So we meet up and are having drinks. We're having a great time with each other, laughing, joking, drinking. Then she pulls out her phone because she wants to show me some video. While she's showing me the video, a text from a dude pops up that reads "I miss you, I need to see you". So, I'm watching her to see what she does. She pauses for a second, then pretends like that shyt was not even there. Then she swipes that shyt off the screen hella fast and puts the phone away. I don't mention it at all because I'm waiting for her to address it. Now if she would have just said something like "hey, that's just a bug a boo mad because I cut him off" I would've been cool. Would you believe that this bytch never mentioned that shyt at all. I made it up in my mind that if she didnt give me some sort of explanation, that was the last time I was gonna call her. That shyt just rubbed me the wrong fukking way.

*The recent call*

She hit me talking about how she misses me and she doesn't know what she did to make me stop calling her. Basically begging to know what it was that made me stop seeing her. I know it drove her crazy because she wasn't used to be treated like that. I said I had to go, and hung up. fukk HER CLOSURE. I've learned you can't feel sorry for these women. Think of how many men she has probably curved in the same manner.

Don't give them closure, let em think about it forever.

Breh women got sooo many options, you never the only breh trying to holla at her. Even exs will holla @ her tryna hit

 

[Kal El]

nvm

 

[twan83]

I tell them I'm only interested in sex/head and they shot me some bullshyt line "I'm not that type of chick" (I do not have patience for that shyt) so then I'm there the whole night sitting at the bar cause all the chicks I find attractive are not down and I cannot just smash any chick.

You can convey the same message with your words without being so blunt.

"I'm not looking for anything serious right now, but I'll make an exception if the right girl comes along"

^ Same message, but you won't scare chicks off.

breh said it best u can't be that blunt unless u know how to work ur word game which isn't worth it

Ex; broad I met talked to her whole night and she was really feeling me and looking for something also is what vibe I got from her
So I was like I keep it 100 with u I ain't looking for nothing serious
Just enjoying life to the fullest but if u want someone to hit up and mess around with I'm game and she was like oh I see well ok but don't catch feelings for me then (which I don't and they do)


Other times Some I will tell straight up I just wanna fukk and they will say yes or no

If a female is feeling u enough some will straight up let u hit off the bat or talk that shyt I ain't like that and let u hit or u just won't get play at all


It's just best to say I ain't looking for nothing serious right now but for the right girl I will make an exception line (paraphrasing what he said)
You will get a better success that way