Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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m0rninggl0ry said:
Damn. FOr clarity, maybe I am open but to be vulnerable with a man is out of the question. I'll smile or whatever but I will never tell a man how I'm really doing even if I'm breaking down inside
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Why date then lmao? Just do a fwb if that's your problem.
 
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what do yall think about this

there's this chick at my job that hella creeps me out.
she obviously likes me, shes a receptionist (one of those people that watches the cameras amongst other things). but i have absolutely no interest in her. she's like 5'10/5'11. big and like just not attractive. shes not ugly per se, but for me, a woman has to act like a woman and behave as such for me to be attracted. she stands like a man. everytime i pass, she stares and it really makes me uncomfortable.

im not about to report her to hr or anything like that cause im not about taking foods out of someone else's mouth, especially a black person.

but what really irks me the most is, i get this bad feeling that she may be doing some voodoo or some nonsense like that. like on several occassions, id be chilling, and in the kitchen area making coffee, and she would happen to walk by. and from the corner of my eye, i can see her notice me and think "oh its him". then shed turn back and stay in the kitchen and act like that was her intended destination when i already saw her from the corner of my eye almost walking by. shes done this 3 times.

she admitted that she use to watch me on the camera - creepy.

but the crossing the line for me was, one time when i came in to the office early. i go to the bathroom, come out, and there she is just standing there in front of the bathroom door where i can directly see her. im like "what are you doing??? who u waiting for?". and she says in a playful manner "waiting for you..."?? i laughed kinda halfheartedly but sh1t bothered me.

i dont know what the hell shes thinking but she seems to think if i put myself around him, somehow he will magically realize haa, i like her.

ive had chicks like me before, but this just scary type weird. something tells me she may be putting some sh1t on my chair where i sit. so from time to time id move that around and switch with someone else's chair.

how would yall brehs go about this wierd sh1t
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Wow I thought I had it bad, my stalker just left.

i find that there is a certain point that you have to entertain those crazies to, no more and no less. And eventually they get bored, unless you on some super model typ ish then you just out of luck LOL. But for a guy like me I find that, entertaining them to point eventually causes them to lose interest after awhile.


I wouldn't suggest this to everyone, as people get caught up.


But outside of going to HR or just straight up telling her she's making you uncomfortable (which for me and probably a lot of men has been turned back around in our face) best bet is to just brush it off and keep as lilttle contact but play nice. :francis:
 
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Wow I thought I had it bad, my stalker just left.

i find that there is a certain point that you have to entertain those crazies to, no more and no less. And eventually they get bored, unless you on some super model typ ish then you just out of luck LOL. But for a guy like me I find that, entertaining them to point eventually causes them to lose interest after awhile.


I wouldn't suggest this to everyone, as people get caught up.


But outside of going to HR or just straight up telling her she's making you uncomfortable (which for me and probably a lot of men has been turned back around in our face) best bet is to just brush it off and keep as lilttle contact but play nice. :francis:
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that is what i intended to do. but i feel hella bad cause im extra nice to the better looking receptionists.. ive taken two of them out for walks, and sometimes accompany them to go get food. but i never ask her to go for walks or anything cause i know that would just send the wrong signal. but i can tell she feels left out.

its hard to ignore her when the receptionist is usually directly at the entrance door. i try not to make any eye contact. but i know she reviews the videos and she'll see that im talkative with the other receptionists. so from time to time i try to chitchat with her but of course i keep it extra short.

the annoying part is cause shes tall and big, the chicks i want get scared of her and that's what i consider cockblocking.
 
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Atlrocafella said:
:francis:Went through shortys phone, don't EVER trust these heauxs.
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another girl?
ive always said it man, if ya chick has physical features that are desirable to most men, then, chances are pretty good she'll probably not be faithful. only thing that'll keep her faithful is if she believes in her heart that ur the catch.
 
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m0rninggl0ry said:
You got jokes now? Not at the moment. I'm speaking about me.

It's weird. I'm just not as open as I once was with men. I smile, very cordial.. But I'm not the type to be mushy/ open when I first meet a man.
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I was dealing with a chick like u before. I'm a chill nikka with a slick mouth, so i don't mind that shyt for the most part. Ol girl snapped on me one day cuz I said some insensitive shyt and ain't talk to me since. But if u as "cold" as u say u are that shouldn't have affected u.


I say all that to say this, u not as "cold" as u think :ufdup:
 
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