Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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most of them exist completely in the moment. My ex told me she loved me and 8 hours later said this isn't gonna work :mjcry:
someone or something got in her head and in that period of time her emotions told her right now she didn't love me. so that was that. It ties back to my previous post that these broads are not logical at all. I've come to the conclusion that they can do w/e they want I have no expectations. you fukk with me you fukk with me, you don't you don't. but I aint never gonna chase after or get bummed out over a chick again. fukk all that. I view women as not MINE its just MY turn and thats the grim truth imo.


dude. ur slumping back into your old self. until the girl u r dating feels you can take it or leave it, they'll keep playing these silly games with u. i read ur post and it reads like a guy who cares do damn much.

this should have been you:

her: this isnt going to work?
you: are you stupid?
her: ??? what?
you:*hang up on her* or if ur in front of her, u just walk out.

yall dont seem to get it. try being a complete d1ckhead when a chick says or does something u dont like and see if u ever hear some nonsense like "this isnt going to work" ever again.

yeah i get this may not be who u are. but if u have to be a actor to find the gadamn peace of mind ur body craves, u better be that gadamn actor. the pain of rejection is too burdensome for any one person to carry on a consistent basis. its either u put urself in a position to reject others, or be the one at the mercy of being rejected. and yes, no matter how u slice and dice it, u r at the mercy of this girl.

get ur sh1t together and man the fucck up man
 

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dude. ur slumping back into your old self. until the girl u r dating feels you can take it or leave it, they'll keep playing these silly games with u. i read ur post and it reads like a guy who cares do damn much.

this should have been you:

her: this isnt going to work?
you: are you stupid?
her: ??? what?
you:*hang up on her* or if ur in front of her, u just walk out.

yall dont seem to get it. try being a complete d1ckhead when a chick says or does something u dont like and see if u ever hear some nonsense like "this isnt going to work" ever again.

yeah i get this may not be who u are. but if u have to be a actor to find the gadamn peace of mind ur body craves, u better be that gadamn actor. the pain of rejection is too burdensome for any one person to carry on a consistent basis. its either u put urself in a position to reject others, or be the one at the mercy of being rejected. and yes, no matter how u slice and dice it, u r at the mercy of this girl.

get ur sh1t together and man the fucck up man

Bro I respect the input but this happened like over a year ago :gucci:

and if you talking about my initial post on this page about my new broad being on that fu fu feminist shyt (i don't think you are) I regularly call out her inconsistencies on it and chills out on that shyt.
 

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Bro I respect the input but this happened like over a year ago :gucci:

and if you talking about my initial post on this page about my new broad being on that fu fu feminist shyt (i don't think you are) I regularly call out her inconsistencies on it and chills out on that shyt.
U still talk like u not over it bro
 

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A lot of dudes judge a woman on how she acts while she's in love with them. A woman could be caring, loving, loyal, honest, kind, etc while she's in love with you whether you're up or down. We need to pay more attention on how they act when they are not in love, not on our dikk (both literally and figuratively). Not saying a woman should be the same when she's not in love but there are certain traits that should be there no matter what. She should be respectful, loyal, honest etc off GP. We need to peep who they really are while they're not in love with us. Dudes often say their girl is acting out of character because they are not as loving. Maybe it is part of her character.
 

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most of them exist completely in the moment. My ex told me she loved me and 8 hours later said this isn't gonna work :mjcry:
someone or something got in her head and in that period of time her emotions told her right now she didn't love me. so that was that. It ties back to my previous post that these broads are not logical at all. I've come to the conclusion that they can do w/e they want I have no expectations. you fukk with me you fukk with me, you don't you don't. but I aint never gonna chase after or get bummed out over a chick again. fukk all that. I view women as not MINE its just MY turn and thats the grim truth imo.

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Real talk inebriation is a cheat code breh, with a chick who's already feeling you it speeds up the process a lot. But never be someone you not for these hoes that's just putting the p*ssy on a pedestal. I quit drinking and I know I miss out on p*ssy cause of it but i'd rather that than be a follower like that for the sake of smashing females.
thats how i feel about weed. i dont and wont smoke. have missed out on p*ssy because of it but meh. i aint trppin
 

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So, I was back in my hometown over the weekend visiting. I managed to hit up one of my old classmates to come to my Auntee's birthday bash. To my surprise, she actually came out to show love. That actually made me feel good.

These days she's more:flabbynsick: , has 3 kids and a criminal record but I can't lie and say I don't wanna smash lol. She always favored Hoopz Alexander to me. I been wanting to hit that since high school and now that I'm back in town, with a new sense of confidence, swagger, etc I felt I can't lose.

As long I strap up..why not? :yeshrug: She was looking fukkable that night. Our conversation was good...laughing and reflecting on old times n shyt.
Once the tanqueray started kicking in, I started macking on her something fierce which had her like :ohhh:because I wasn't known for that.
As things began to heat up, her gay white friend shows up unannounced butting into our conversation:childplease:.
Then her homegirls came and started cock blocking on some "We ain't fukking with no nikkas" type shyt sounding like a :mjpls:convention.


At this point, I'm just like fukk it. I'm way too drunk to be entertaining this bullshyt. So, ole girl branch off from them to come sit with me then here they go again lol smh. I just ended up dipping and told her I'll see you next time. I've learned that females are just as worst as dudes when it comes cock blocking. I can't name how many times a female knocked me out of getting some coouch lol
worst as dudes? i dont know any nikkas that cock block. I have been at a club talking to a girl who came with a group of ppl including male friends. Them male friends wont even cock block. Its always the females you have to worry about
 

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I get exhaustion talking on the phone, brehs. I can text all day, but talking...just can't do it, especially if I'm watching tv or a movie. The phone is the ultimate barometer on how much I'm feeling a girl. If we're actually bf/gf, you can call whenever basically. If I miss her call....I'll call back as soon as I can. It's like a right of passage lol.

If we've been on only a couple dates and you HAVE to talk to me everyday...that barometer meter starts tilting towards bushes. That's a sign of being too clingy too fast.

Last night:
(text message)
Her: What you up to? I just left happy hr and dinner with my friends :queen:
Me: Oh word, how was that? I'm chillin watching a tv show...starting to doze off a lil bit :yawn:

.......

*facetime call pops up on my phone*


:gucci:
i hate that shyt

this older chick i smashed be on the same thing. will message me ...ill respond...she'll call. Like fukk...i aint in the mood to listen to your ass ramble on and on
 

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worst as dudes? i dont know any nikkas that cock block. I have been at a club talking to a girl who came with a group of ppl including male friends. Them male friends wont even cock block. Its always the females you have to worry about
its jealousy. especially when no one's hollering at them all night
 

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So, I was back in my hometown over the weekend visiting. I managed to hit up one of my old classmates to come to my Auntee's birthday bash. To my surprise, she actually came out to show love. That actually made me feel good.

These days she's more:flabbynsick: , has 3 kids and a criminal record but I can't lie and say I don't wanna smash lol. She always favored Hoopz Alexander to me. I been wanting to hit that since high school and now that I'm back in town, with a new sense of confidence, swagger, etc I felt I can't lose.

As long I strap up..why not? :yeshrug: She was looking fukkable that night. Our conversation was good...laughing and reflecting on old times n shyt.
Once the tanqueray started kicking in, I started macking on her something fierce which had her like :ohhh:because I wasn't known for that.
As things began to heat up, her gay white friend shows up unannounced butting into our conversation:childplease:.
Then her homegirls came and started cock blocking on some "We ain't fukking with no nikkas" type shyt sounding like a :mjpls:convention.


At this point, I'm just like fukk it. I'm way too drunk to be entertaining this bullshyt. So, ole girl branch off from them to come sit with me then here they go again lol smh. I just ended up dipping and told her I'll see you next time. I've learned that females are just as worst as dudes when it comes cock blocking. I can't name how many times a female knocked me out of getting some coouch lol
bytches man :pacspit:
 
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