Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How do y'all approach females at the gym? I had this decent lil bih watching the kid while I was lifting, but I ain't do none cause she had headphones on and I ain't wanna be that lame nikka tapping on her shoulder
Catch her at the end of her workout and introduce yourself. I never interfere during a workout session.
 

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what does a shy / socially anxious cat gotta do to get these hoes brehs
 

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what does a shy / socially anxious cat gotta do to get these hoes brehs
First thing is to stop being shy and socially awkward, it'll take some effort to reprogram yourself, however, if you don't you'll stay hungry out here.

Closed mouths don't get fed especially with women, very few are going to find that ish endearing and even if they do they'll tire of it with the quickness and mentally check out if not up and leave altogether.
 

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First thing is to stop being shy and socially awkward, it'll take some effort to reprogram yourself, however, if you don't you'll stay hungry out here.

Closed mouths don't get fed especially with women, very few are going to find that ish endearing and even if they do they'll tire of it with the quickness and mentally check out if not up and leave altogether.

How would someone that is shy reprogram themselves? What if its just who they are?
 
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Me & ol girl broke up like 7 months ago after 5 years... I had a good run while I was single. But Ima be honest .. my ex is the only girl I'm attracted to enough to have any ambition for. We started talking again.

Idk what to do. I gotta decide between being happy with the only girl I'll be happy with & unhappy with not having the freedom... or having the freedom & totally unhappy with all the girls I'll be with

:sadcam:
 

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Me & ol girl broke up like 7 months ago after 5 years... I had a good run while I was single. But Ima be honest .. my ex is the only girl I'm attracted to enough to have any ambition for. We started talking again.

Idk what to do. I gotta decide between being happy with the only girl I'll be happy with & unhappy with not having the freedom... or having the freedom & totally unhappy with all the girls I'll be with

:sadcam:


Why did y'all break up after 5 yrs?
 

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First thing is to stop being shy and socially awkward, it'll take some effort to reprogram yourself, however, if you don't you'll stay hungry out here.

Closed mouths don't get fed especially with women, very few are going to find that ish endearing and even if they do they'll tire of it with the quickness and mentally check out if not up and leave altogether.

I'm going through the exact same thing. I think it's doable, but it will take some time. Plus I haven't exactly been able to go out and mingle as much lately, but that's going to change soon....
 

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Think im going to have to cut off this chick i like.

Seen her like 6-7 times in the month i known her , first time being a date we went on,
and then rest of the times was me sleeping over at her place. All those times i slept over
at her place , we didnt have sex at all which i can respect if you dont want to give it up
right away but one thing that i aint cool with is that she ain't affectionate either which i am.

I have only gone to her place to watch tv and fall asleep , and i told her from the start that i aint
looking for a friendship but it feels like she is friendzoning me if she haven't yet. Right now we both
are taking finals so we havent seen each other in like 2 weeks but if i end up seeing her again , ill
just tell her straight up that if she is looking for a tv-watching buddy then that aint me.

Im really into her which i think she can tell as well :snoop: .
 

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First thing is to stop being shy and socially awkward, it'll take some effort to reprogram yourself, however, if you don't you'll stay hungry out here.

Closed mouths don't get fed especially with women, very few are going to find that ish endearing and even if they do they'll tire of it with the quickness and mentally check out if not up and leave altogether.

I learned this the hard way. I use to have people tell me i need to let myself be known
 

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Think im going to have to cut off this chick i like.

Seen her like 6-7 times in the month i known her , first time being a date we went on,
and then rest of the times was me sleeping over at her place. All those times i slept over
at her place , we didnt have sex at all which i can respect if you dont want to give it up
right away but one thing that i aint cool with is that she ain't affectionate either which i am.

I have only gone to her place to watch tv and fall asleep , and i told her from the start that i aint
looking for a friendship but it feels like she is friendzoning me if she haven't yet. Right now we both
are taking finals so we havent seen each other in like 2 weeks but if i end up seeing her again , ill
just tell her straight up that if she is looking for a tv-watching buddy then that aint me.

Im really into her which i think she can tell as well :snoop: .
Did u let her knw how u feel
 
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