Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

A lot of issues I see on these last few pages could be solved by just being polygamous

You don't plan on having kids date however many girls you can stomach and if she not with it charge it to the game

But if you really that nikka in her eyes she'll put up with sharing. These silly women put up with utter deadbeats because they make them feel something

You can do everything right and it be completely wrong...
You treat them like they are second class and they will be on ya dikk

 

[Killigraphy]

Women are not life..
A life well lived has great women in it.

Pretty simple, your job is to be best at what you do, work on yourself, lift, get bread, learn a craft (I know how to tie knots and bushwack), be bold, adventure, but do this all for yourself, wild women will come and go, but you're greatness is here to stay. Its not about being better than the other man, its about being better than yourself, every day.

Read, learn to wet shave, buy a well fitted dress shirt or two, try everything and keep what you favor the most.

Women are not your goal, a life well lived is. The women will follow.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I'm not gonna pretend lifting will fix all your problems. But yo that shyt helps in a major way. So much of what causes people to be unsuccessful in their endeavors is all mental. We hold ourselves back with bullshyt hang ups. Lacking in belief in yourself will eventually stifle any chance you have of being successful with women, or with anything else for that matter.

 

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[John Reena]

Just a quick summary would be that I got played by a chick I was talking to for like 8 months. We were basically bf/gf without the title, it just naturally progressed into that. I was spending multiple days a week with her, sex was always amazing, & after awhile I wanted it to make it official, but she always came up with bullshyt excuses like the time wasn't right, or she wasn't where she wanted to be in life. I treated this chick like gold, cooked for her, spent as much time with her as I could. She was what I wanted & the way I looked at it, I was putting in the effort to get her.

So fast forward a few months, I start hearing from her less, visits start becoming less frequent, we all know what that means. Eventually we just ended up parting ways because she started acting weird & distant. Eventually I find out that the entire time she was fukking around with this dude that she works with & now they're actually DATING. The dude is like 30 something year old fukking bartender who doesn't even have his own place. She doesn't even know that I know about it. We don't even talk.

So she basically played me. I fell for her & she reaped the benefits until I guess she got tired of it & just decided to bounce. Didn't even have the decency to be straight up & just tell me what was up. I'm more mad about the lack of communication that anything else. Had I known she was more interested in someone else that whole time, I could've saved myself a lot of time. She never admitted to seeing other people the entire time we were messing around. Why lie? I just don't understand why people do this shyt. I've been through a lot of bullshyt with females in the past & I'm just over it. No point in actually putting in efforts with these broads anymore. So until further notice I'm back on my fukk the world shyt. I'll hit up a jumpoff whenever I just need to get laid, but other than that, I want nothing to do with em anymore.

I already know what most of yall gonna say so I'll hold the L & charge it the game, but I'm forreal jaded now. It's like any chick I only wanna fukk & nothing else, always wants more....But the ones I want more with, never do. Can't win for losing.

Aw man, fukk that crumb cake.

Best believe Ol boy or sum other dude down the line is gonna do her dirty as well.

On to da next chick my brotha.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Shot my shot everyday this week. I'm 4 for 4, going for the sweep tomorrow

 

[Atlrocafella]

Just a quick summary would be that I got played by a chick I was talking to for like 8 months. We were basically bf/gf without the title, it just naturally progressed into that. I was spending multiple days a week with her, sex was always amazing, & after awhile I wanted it to make it official, but she always came up with bullshyt excuses like the time wasn't right, or she wasn't where she wanted to be in life. I treated this chick like gold, cooked for her, spent as much time with her as I could. She was what I wanted & the way I looked at it, I was putting in the effort to get her.

So fast forward a few months, I start hearing from her less, visits start becoming less frequent, we all know what that means. Eventually we just ended up parting ways because she started acting weird & distant. Eventually I find out that the entire time she was fukking around with this dude that she works with & now they're actually DATING. The dude is like 30 something year old fukking bartender who doesn't even have his own place. She doesn't even know that I know about it. We don't even talk.

So she basically played me. I fell for her & she reaped the benefits until I guess she got tired of it & just decided to bounce. Didn't even have the decency to be straight up & just tell me what was up. I'm more mad about the lack of communication that anything else. Had I known she was more interested in someone else that whole time, I could've saved myself a lot of time. She never admitted to seeing other people the entire time we were messing around. Why lie? I just don't understand why people do this shyt. I've been through a lot of bullshyt with females in the past & I'm just over it. No point in actually putting in efforts with these broads anymore. So until further notice I'm back on my fukk the world shyt. I'll hit up a jumpoff whenever I just need to get laid, but other than that, I want nothing to do with em anymore.

I already know what most of yall gonna say so I'll hold the L & charge it the game, but I'm forreal jaded now. It's like any chick I only wanna fukk & nothing else, always wants more....But the ones I want more with, never do. Can't win for losing.

Sucks to read this breh.. There is some good and bad things in this though.

The good- You recognized that shyt started to become different and she became distant, it was good that you just let it go and parted ways instead of running around trying to make it work or figure out if you did something wrong.

The bad- You liked her way more than she liked you, you kept trying to make it official when she wasn't trying to be tied down (obviously because she was fukking with another nicca). Women rarely turn down the opportunity to be claimed (unless they fukking with someone else), so when she hit you with that first bullshyt excuse about "time wasn't right", you should of dropped that discussion right there and plan to keep her for what she wanted (fukk buddies), or exit the situation.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Sucks to read this breh.. There is some good and bad things in this though.

The good- You recognized that shyt started to become different and she became distant, it was good that you just let it go and parted ways instead of running around trying to make it work or figure out if you did something wrong.

The bad- You liked her way more than she liked you, you kept trying to make it official when she wasn't trying to be tied down (obviously because she was fukking with another nicca). Women rarely turn down the opportunity to be claimed (unless they fukking with someone else), so when she hit you with that first bullshyt excuse about "time wasn't right", you should of dropped that discussion right there and plan to keep her for what she wanted (fukk buddies), or exit the situation.

You definitely right

Various L's were held as a result of this situation, but you live & you learn. Never again.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

i need one of them "We was drinking and one thing lead to Another type of nights"

 

[J Money]

Brehs I just created a POF account but why the hell does my profile keep getting deleted for no reason

This Markus nikka don't wanna see me eat smh

 

[MikelArteta]

Another thing stop comparing yourself to other dudes , women don't care what you've done for them and women don't care if the guy they cavorting with at the moment is a barber without his own place.

All that will just frustrate you

You definitely right

Various L's were held as a result of this situation, but you live & you learn. Never again.

 

[kevm3]

You definitely right

Various L's were held as a result of this situation, but you live & you learn. Never again.

Man bro, that's why I say never make women top priority in your life and always be prepared for them to jet... because in this day and age, they are extremely transient. Got to kind of enjoy her while she is there, but don't be surprised if she's got another or if she decides to jet. Your focus should be on other things in life to such an extent that while you might feel a sting for a little while, your life isn't wrecked because you've found so many other things to enjoy and you've kept yourself up to an extent that a lot of other women want to be in her position.

 

[The Frozen One]

What I'm really struggling with is girls losing interest quick.

I don't live a fascinating life. Just an average Joe blow . I don't have whole lot of fun and the women realize this . I'm not a thrill or much of an adventurer so women just move on to the next guy.

shyt hurts brehs ... Plus I'm extremely hard on hoes. One of my girlfriends said I act to macho and manly with women and I don't know how to play the game. Hearing that hurt cause I know it's true

 

[jalamanta]

What I'm really struggling with is girls losing interest quick.

I don't live a fascinating life. Just an average Joe blow . I don't have whole lot of fun and the women realize this . I'm not a thrill or much of an adventurer so women just move on to the next guy.

shyt hurts brehs ... Plus I'm extremely hard on hoes. One of my girlfriends said I act to macho and manly with women and I don't know how to play the game. Hearing that hurt cause I know it's true

What about your ex breh?

 

[Turbulent]

Absolutely. It's much better to focus on getting your life together and just living in a fashion to where it's an open door in regards to women, things are a lot better. In other words, I mean, enjoy her company while she's there, but don't be disappointed if she up and leaves or she isn't as loyal as you thought. Your life should be so beautiful that if she leaves, it just frees you up to do more of what you enjoy.

If you noticed, most of those PUA/ game teacher dudes stopped or cut back and moved on to talking about something else. There's only so much you can say about 'game', and no matter how much 'game' you study, you are pretty much at the mercy of whether this girl wants to stick around or not. You can have all the game in the world and this girl can leave you because she just wants something different... Therefore, never make your happiness contingent on a woman or what she's going to do next. Give her an opportunity to participate in your life if she acts right, and if she doesn't, give her an opportunity to get it together... otherwise let her go. If she chooses to go on her own volition, congratulate her, and keep on enjoying life and just recognize that a roster spot just opened up for a woman that DOES want to act right.

So many jewels dropped but a lot of theses dudes will still want to hold on to their old beliefs...