Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Lord Bison]

There is this girl that I used to fukk with for a few months and we were pretty much boyfriend and girlfriend but without the title. Some dumb shyt happened and I stopped fukking with her all over some stupid stuff. I then started fukking with a girl who she hated but I didn't know. I didnt fukk with her long and that ended months ago but the girl that I left has always been talking about how I hurt her and how she loved me. She was really down for me and Ive never listened to her and let her get everything off her chest of why she was hurt and I still sense that she still is so should I talk to this girl and let her say whatever she has to say to ease her pain because I really would like to get back to what her and I was on before all the bullshyt. What should I do?

Why did yall stop talking the first time? You could have potentially saved yourself from some fukkery down the line

 

[hazardous]

Women can be so cold heartless. I've never met a man that can be as evil and mean as a woman can be.

TBH most women I've come across have always been cold, and selfish.

Don't see the nurturing side of many these days - they're all about themselves, and they can cut us guys off and forget it like it's nothing.

 

[Lord Bison]

TBH most women I've come across have always been cold, and selfish.

Don't see the nurturing side of many these days - they're all about themselves, and they can cut us guys off and forget it like it's nothing.

The irony of it is when you do the same to them, they bug the shyt outta you and act like it's a problem. I have this one chick I curved that's been texting me for weeks and wont get the hint.

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

Why did yall stop talking the first time? You could have potentially saved yourself from some fukkery down the line

We were at this party and somebody recorded a video of us fukking in my car but it was at night and you couldnt see anything but the car. I guess she was embarrassed and stop talking to me for a few days but when she tried to come back after a couple days I was already on some new shyt.

 

[Lord Bison]

We were at this party and somebody recorded a video of us fukking in my car but it was at night and you couldnt see anything but the car. I guess she was embarrassed and stop talking to me for a few days but when she tried to come back after a couple days I was already on some new shyt.

Sounds like a salvageable situation for me. I'd just ask her out to chill somewhere and shoot your shot again. If she with it she with it, if not

 

[Lord Bison]

AM I fukkED UP 4 WANTING TO SWITCH UP the game on these bytches.



Im just trynna switch up the game on these hoes. I aint on no heartless shyt, but the game need to be more equal.

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I am.

After the things that I've witnessed as a child and the experiences I've had, I've completely went #HOH and there's no undoing it. I am unapologetically selfish with my life and my emotions when it comes to women, because best believe they're going to put themselves first too. Once it clicked on me that women give no fukks about a man's feelings and the sacrifices we make for them, the game has been easy mode since.

I used to be the nikka that gave chicks the benefit of the doubt, but nowadays doing that will get you played like a fiddle out here. If you find a good woman, cuff that chick up and treat her well because the quality of chicks these days are trash.

These days when I go out on dates, I just sit back and look at these chicks like How can you enhance my life to make it better than what it is?

If she doesn't give me a plausible reason, then it's

The best thing I ever did was take a break away from women as whole, it made me realize how much important the other things in life are and that women weren't as high priority as I was inclined to believe.

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

Sounds like a salvageable situation for me. I'd just ask her out to chill somewhere and shoot your shot again. If she with it she with it, if not

I text her and she aint texting back. Boutta say fukk it

 

[King Kai]

I ran into a girl from my high school at a work party last weekend and we sat down and had some drinks and talked about where everyone we knew mutually was etc.

We're having some laughs and sharing memories. Everythings cool.

Eventually the subject of one of my ex girlfriends of 3 years comes up, as I knew it would because this girl was one of her best friends.

So she starts venting about not being friends with this girl anymore and how she was a backstabber and blah blah blah.

I'm not saying much at this point and basically giving her a "ehh, shyt happens" response.

Anyways, midway through this rant she starts talking about I still know her facebook password, you wanna see if she's ever brought you up? And I'm like

First of all, this bytch is clearly even crazier than the bytch we were just talking about

Second of all, the paranoid tinfoil hat nikka in me is like what if this is all an elaborate set up that these two bytches concocted

So I'm like you know what, I'm cool, it's been a long time since then and we barely even know each other anymore

She says something to the effect of "you're right, you should keep that poison out of your life anyway "

Meanwhile I'm trying to find the quickest way to throw this crazy bytch to the bushes aswell

So I gave her a it was great seeing you, you look great blah blah blah and got the fukk out of there

but aside from telling y'all how crazy this bytches behavior at this party was, after l left that night there was a beautiful moment where I realized I truly don't care what this other woman that I once loved was doing. It sounds so simple but there was a point in my life after that break up where my entire world revolved around her and I had to question if I was truly ever going to move on. So to think back on that and then fast forward to present where I feel like I'm at a great place in my life and didn't really care to revisit not only my past with her, but what she was presently doing was a powerful feeling.

Also, if y'all knew both of the bytches in question, there is a legit chance that it was a set up that I didn't take the bait for

 

[Spotja]

Pretty much you have to test for her interest level in you. A woman who is into you will let it be known that she likes you and will go through hell and high water to spend time with you.

If you're talking to a chick and you suddenly stop giving her the attention she's used to, she WILL notice and if she likes you, she'll make an effort to keep things going.

Example: It was snowing and ice outside and the freeways were pretty much shut down. This chick I was dating still took the risk to drive over my house just to be with me. I didn't have to jump through hoops, buy gifts or go out the way to get any action from her. She liked me for who I was and that was good enough. And that's how it should be.

Another example: I went to shoot my shot at this chick who I thought was digging me and asked her to hang out. Her response was "I'll See". Which is code word for no. When you ask a woman out, anything other than a yes means no. I tossed her to the bushes immediately. Most people would try to salvage the friendship and continue to pursue, but as a man you have to be resourceful on the women you give your attention to. Only the women who has earned your attention deserve to get treated as such.

You will often run across women who expect the man to do an exorbitant amount of chasing before she gives him any play, which means you could potentially lose out on some. But the ones who are into you will make it easy for you and the relationship will be seamless.

If babygirl and giving you the amount of interest you feel is suitable, put her ass on the bench and focus on the ones who are interested or continue to line up new prospects.

 

[Johnny Kilroy]

Lmao why the fukk would she need to meet girls on Tinder as friends? She might be bi fam.

Breh. This is my first time in this thread. I see how lost some of my nikkas are when it comes to women in other threads so I thought I'd pop in here and that was first post I saw. WTF?

 

[Johnny Kilroy]

Pretty much you have to test for her interest level in you. A woman who is into you will let it be known that she likes you and will go through hell and high water to spend time with you.

If you're talking to a chick and you suddenly stop giving her the attention she's used to, she WILL notice and if she likes you, she'll make an effort to keep things going.

Example: It was snowing and ice outside and the freeways were pretty much shut down. This chick I was dating still took the risk to drive over my house just to be with me. I didn't have to jump through hoops, buy gifts or go out the way to get any action from her. She liked me for who I was and that was good enough. And that's how it should be.

Another example: I went to shoot my shot at this chick who I thought was digging me and asked her to hang out. Her response was "I'll See". Which is code word for no. When you ask a woman out, anything other than a yes means no. I tossed her to the bushes immediately. Most people would try to salvage the friendship and continue to pursue, but as a man you have to be resourceful on the women you give your attention to. Only the women who has earned your attention deserve to get treated as such.

You will often run across women who expect the man to do an exorbitant amount of chasing before she gives him any play, which means you could potentially lose out on some. But the ones who are into you will make it easy for you and the relationship will be seamless.

If babygirl is being iffy with hanging out and trying to get to know each other better and not giving you the amount of interest you feel is suitable, put her ass on the bench and focus on the ones who are interested or continue to line up new prospects.

I appreciate this post, breh. Glad to see some truth being spat in here. I'm new to the thread.

But just to add on.. there is an abundance of women, brehs. And also, they're all human too. No more need to be scared after those 2 facts. If one ain't feeling you, don't sweat it, don't fret, don't be bothered. Just keep it moving. Nobody you just met should be able to damage your ego in any way. The sooner brehs understand the law of abundance, the better. She flaking? On to the next one. And once they see they can't control you (because no woman wants a man they can control), and that you have options, oh how they straighten up.

 

[Lord Bison]

^^^^^ Yep. That's truth right there. You spoke no lies breh

One option that's underrated and overlooked is your freedom. Even if you have 0 chicks on the team, you still have your freedom. Freedom to do whatever you want, whenever you want. Use this time to grow stronger spiritually, physically and financially. You can always get back into the game any time you want. There's men out there that are unhappy because they got locked in a cage they didn't see coming (marriage, clingy relationships) and wish they had the freedom that a lot of you in here have. Take advantage of it!

Right now I have zero chicks on the roster (except for a few longtime jumpoffs here and there) and I couldn't feel any better. Got money stacked in my bank account, a quiet house all to myself and the time and space to workout and focus on getting my certs. If I meet a chick during my process of leveling up, great. If not, I'll find something to spend my money on when I get to 6 certs.

 

[Rell Lauren]

Need an opening line for Tinder. White, 32 year old chick with nothing on her profile to be with with.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

So I'm in a weird spot/mood/vibe I guess..

I feel like the women that are coming at me and the ones who talk when I come at them..

They're not the type of woman that I want (looks/has kids/attitude fukked up.. I'm not gonna lie either, I am shallow, and I know that... But my ex had a decent body, flat stomach/fat ass.. So I feel like why should I have to settle and fukk with these chubby bytches I'm not REALLY attracted to... I'm 29 and don't have any kids and I really really don't want to compromise on that, if I did the bytch would HAVE TO be on point with everything (looks/vibe)

I just feel like I'm gonna have to settle... It's been killin my vibe though...

I'm tryin to do shyt to possibly change that (eat better/gym) but idk...

 

[TRUEST]

^^^^^ Yep. That's truth right there. You spoke no lies breh

One option that's underrated and overlooked is your freedom. Even if you have 0 chicks on the team, you still have your freedom. Freedom to do whatever you want, whenever you want. Use this time to grow stronger spiritually, physically and financially. You can always get back into the game any time you want. There's men out there that are unhappy because they got locked in a cage they didn't see coming (marriage, clingy relationships) and wish they had the freedom that a lot of you in here have. Take advantage of it!

Right now I have zero chicks on the roster (except for a few longtime jumpoffs here and there) and I couldn't feel any better. Got money stacked in my bank account, a quiet house all to myself and the time and space to workout and focus on getting my certs. If I meet a chick during my process of leveling up, great. If not, I'll find something to spend my money on when I get to 6 certs.

dude im with u on that. this is the longest ive gone without being in some type of relationship. been loving the freedom so much that whenever i do have a date planned, its like a chore. the thought of constantly texting, being on the phone, really scares the hell out of me. sh1t is too damn exhausting.