Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[reserved_one]

Cherish her breh. She sounds awesome.

Yeah she is and I will cherish her. I haven't had the urge to talk to any other chicks ever since me and her got together. Once you meet a lady that stimulates your mind with brains and knowledge as opposed to only using sex, there's nothing better. She doesn't have the body of a IG model but I accept that...as long she continues to keep herself up and stay active that's all that matters.

The other day when we was together she went out to get us something to eat. I told her I had a taste for some pop eyes. Instead she bought back some shyt from the food market to make salads.

I'm like

"You know damn well u shouldn't be eating all that fried chicken. You already have stomach and heartburn problems...I want you to be healthy baby"


In my mind I'm thinking "Damn, she really cares about me"


That's when I knew she's a different breed.

 

[John Reena]

SON! Reincar fiancé a GROWN WOMAN. SHE deaded it. Nobody can "get in her head" or make her do it. She made da choice. Truest just offering helpful advice.



Me personally, tha situation still salvageable. I hope they can work it out n walk down that aisle.

 

[Poitier]

Nope, Truest is using Coli post to make broad inferences about people he has never met. The idea that "not focusing on her" WITH THE INTENTION "get her back" still "centers her as his universe." Just dumb shyt. And like @Asantehene said, I dont know why yall always jump to self-blame when it could be a number of factors none of us outside of Reincar are privy to. Its dumb to be psychoanalyzing his shyt anyways but whatever.

"Nobody can get in her head".....spoken like a true American

 

[Silkk]

Had one last fallout with my Queen Thot this past weekend.

I'm ready to settle down and find me a good girl now.

I'm crazy for wanting to hit it raw one last time tho I never got to nut in her cause not on BC. Thinking about doing it then telling her go get her ass a Plan B


What's wrong with me

 

[Lord Bison]

SON! Reincar fiancé a GROWN WOMAN. SHE deaded it. Nobody can "get in her head" or make her do it. She made da choice. Truest just offering helpful advice.

Women don't ever make choices like breaking up with someone on their own. She has to consult with her committee to convince herself that she's making the right decision. When it comes to breakups, the man being broken up with is the last person to know.

 

[Silkk]

IMHO @Supreme Leader Reinscarf should trap her

 

[TRUEST]

Women don't ever make choices like breaking up with someone on their own. She has to consult with her committee to convince herself that she's making the right decision. When it comes to breakups, the man being broken up with is the last person to know.

but at the same time, if a white girl can marry a regular black guy (whos not rich), despite the very strong and possibly violent opposition of her racist parents, i dont see how reincarn's girl cant overcome any opposition (if there are any) against her marrying a black non-nigerian.

 

[Poitier]

Africans are ethnocentric. Being Black does not necessarily mean anything to them and being of a different Black ethnic background can even be a negative.

White people are the ones who believe in romantic love, immigrants tend to be more pragmatic and communal in who their family members settle down with.

Not even saying thats what happened but there are way more possibilities than buddy smothering his girl especially if we just going off post on a forum.

 

[Lord Bison]

but at the same time, if a white girl can marry a regular black guy (whos not rich), despite the very strong and possibly violent opposition of her racist parents, i dont see how reincarn's girl cant overcome any opposition (if there are any) against her marrying a black non-nigerian.

I see where you're coming from with that logic, but where I'm from it's usually minorities that have issues with marrying other minorities. Hispanics are known to not approve of dating blacks where I'm from. Usually those with African descent are real particular about their daughters marrying outside of their heritage. Unless he's like a doctor, engineer or something like that, they don't want their daughter fooling with him.

As weird as it sounds, white people are more accepting of marrying a black husband/wife than minorities marrying another minorities.

 

[TRUEST]

I see where you're coming from with that logic, but where I'm from it's usually minorities that have issues with marrying other minorities. Hispanics are known to not approve of dating blacks where I'm from. Usually those with African descent are real particular about their daughters marrying outside of their heritage. Unless he's like a doctor, engineer or something like that, they don't want their daughter fooling with him.

As weird as it sounds, white people are more accepting of marrying a black husband/wife than minorities marrying another minorities.

i highly doubt that.
but it is what is.
u dont want a girl anyway that can be easily persuaded to leave u without u not having done anything abysmal.

 

[Majestic]

Bruhs, do women do the choosing and should men stop chasing? like if she wants you she'll pick you etc? cuz im starting to think that approaching girls etc is not the way.

 

[TRUEST]

Bruhs, do women do the choosing and should men stop chasing? like if she wants you she'll pick you etc? cuz im starting to think that approaching girls etc is not the way.

it really depends. although the girl who chooses is always better. but there are some chicks who dont give any kinda readable clue u can use to tell if they feeling u or not until u speak to them.

u just goto pick the right place and time to approach

 

[Majestic]

it really depends. although the girl who chooses is always better. but there are some chicks who dont give any kinda readable clue u can use to tell if they feeling u or not until u speak to them.

u just goto pick the right place and time to approach

Do you approach on the streets bruh? and where do you meet your women?

 

[MikelArteta]

Women don't ever make choices like breaking up with someone on their own. She has to consult with her committee to convince herself that she's making the right decision. When it comes to breakups, the man being broken up with is the last person to know.

She spoke to her sister and her dad, because her brother in law told me we always talk about stuff. Because he had issues himself as he almost went broke paying the bride price for her sister because he wasn't igbo.

 

[MikelArteta]

It was probably a little bit of both. For her to drop the nuke on him like that was definitely pre-meditated and someone on the outside convinced her it was the right move. I'm not African but I am aware that family will usually make the decisions for her, whether it makes sense or not.

From what I understand they worked together and lived together. So they never had enough time apart to miss each other. I still think it's a salvageable situation but it's going to take some real deal no contact for her to even consider coming around and viewing Reinscarf in an attractive light again.

dont live together but she lives a few streets down, and yeah we do work together and also go to the same church so no contact in that realm is hard.