Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

I'm not saying dont check on your girl. Im saying there is levels to this shyt.

Checking the phone is a code red type move for me....not something you have as a default. If the relationship is good no need for that but I stay aware of behavioral changes, weird schedule changes, toxic elements that might come up and use that as my guide as to if I need to turn into Sherlock Holmes.

She get fidgety about her phone, got it in airplane mode all the time or taking calls outside of your presence all the time then yeah its time to raise the alert level and snoop

But This is where I disagree with you. In my case, shyt was great, I still checked her phone and saw that fukk shyt. She had no explanation for actions. To this day she is still apologizing and can't figure out why she even did that shyt.

I'm not saying to control your girls every move and treat her like a slave, but check on your investment, because these chicks will smile in your face and be fukking behind your back. If you're a blind trusting ass nicca, you're going to be hit that ether

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Share ya story breh

I've just had bad experiences man

All I'll say for now is that the pillow talk shyt can definitely go a few different ways depending on the female. Personally, I've had mixed results. It also doesn't help that I've dealt with overly emotional types. Plus, a dikk drunk female will say just about anything. It's like the total opposite of post nut clarity for them.

 

[Silkk]

Welp, over my old bytch.

 

[Poitier]

But This is where I disagree with you. In my case, shyt was great, I still checked her phone and saw that fukk shyt. She had no explanation for actions. To this day she is still apologizing and can't figure out why she even did that shyt.

I'm not saying to control your girls every move and treat her like a slave, but check on your investment, because these chicks will smile in your face and be fukking behind your back. If you're a blind trusting ass nicca, you're going to be hit that ether

I realize the inherent risk in my approach and if I take an L then I'll own it

 

[Silkk]

Spoiler

No homo in advance but i need some advice brehtren about sex.

So yesterday me and my girl decided to go on air bnb and get us a room in a house instead of hotel which was nice. Everything was going well until after we had sex. Mind you it was our first time doing it together. She said that the sex was good but it wasn't what she expected. So, now im confused like "What do you mean"?

She then said "Dont get me wrong, it was good but I couldnt feel shyt".

"Im just not used to this"

"I Wanted you to pound my shyt"

Im like

It wasnt like I was stroking her like an old ass man lol. I was giving it to her and managed to Stay hard the entire time but I did go on autopilot at times just so I can last longer. We also did foreplay beforehand. I used a condom but I dont like em because sometimes it make my shyt go soft.

Then i heard her whispering to a homegirl on the phone in the bathroom. I didnt hear the Conversation though.

Im like Damn you gotta tell her our Business smh. I got my nut and was satisfied. I did what I had to do

It just makes it seem like theres something wrong with me. Lowkey it got me thinking that she used to fukking bigger guys 8-12in. Im on the average side of the game and im content with that. I cant do nothing about it. Thats what i was born with.

But It sorta put me on notice to see what can I do better. She just chalked it up to trying a different Position Next time.

She ended up giving me head later in the night and no Problems...no problems until I got on my phone and played a Quick game of Spades

She started bytching about that saying that I disrespected her.

What I can't lay down, get head and play Spades on my phone?

Idk brehs...Im really feeling this chick but Damn

She's in a good Mood now, just dropped me off but Im still thinking about last night. I feel a lil insecure no

w.

Better learn some techniques breh

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

Wouldn't recommend this

You need to know what you're doing, lot of guys pillow talk and end up giving up valuable information (snitch on yourselves brehs )

I dont think men realise how much power they have in such a situation.. you just have to approach the situation like 'well ive already gotten what I want from so you may aswell show me the real you cause you've got nothing to lose at this point (except me ) '

This is where number 1 comes into play too, you gotta ask these questions and be all chill.. can't come with that insecure tone n shyt

 

[Mr210]

But This is where I disagree with you. In my case, shyt was great, I still checked her phone and saw that fukk shyt. She had no explanation for actions. To this day she is still apologizing and can't figure out why she even did that shyt.

I'm not saying to control your girls every move and treat her like a slave, but check on your investment, because these chicks will smile in your face and be fukking behind your back. If you're a blind trusting ass nicca, you're going to be hit that ether

Cosign, I couldn't have said It better, we are supposed to be learning from others mistakes...some of you are so damn hard headed!

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I finally see why y'all say dont mess/Try to mess with chicks u work with it.



I ain't gone lie. I'm salty she not fukking with me. I'm trying to play it off but it shows every time I'm around her

 

[International Playa]

I finally see why y'all say dont mess/Try to mess with chicks u work with it.



I ain't gone lie. I'm salty she not fukking with me. I'm trying to play it off but it shows every time I'm around her

I guess you choose to learn the hard way. Did she turn your advances down? What happened?

 

[Deafheaven]

I finally see why y'all say dont mess/Try to mess with chicks u work with it.



I ain't gone lie. I'm salty she not fukking with me. I'm trying to play it off but it shows every time I'm around her

You gott just think tbh. What if you actually did fukk lol. shyt was gonna be awks anyway if you aint trying to wife her anyway. Women fine with being jumpoffs but its hard to be a jumpoff if you see the nikka err day. Its like just not a good situation ever unless yall in completely diff sections and even then when shyt go left she gon be telling all your business. Steer clear of work puss brehs

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I guess you choose to learn the hard way. Did she turn your advances down? What happened?

I always gotta learn the hard way for some reason breh.



But nah she ain't turn me down. What made me fall back from her is how quickly she switch up on me. Like when its just me and her. She flirty,touchy-feely, extremely close during conversation, she showed all the signs that would have me thinking she feeling me. The thing is she a Get around other people and try to make it seem like I'm being a lame/or Goofy for her when shyt ain't even like that. We kick it/Talk outside of work, so it ain't like I'm stalking or Obsess with her. But one of the guys who been here for a Few months. They got a thing and suppose to be messing around so I'm like cool, I'm leave her alone and let them do them. Which I dI'd

I just hate when shyt get awkward. But it is what it is

 

[Dreamzeedream]

You gott just think tbh. What if you actually did fukk lol. shyt was gonna be awks anyway if you aint trying to wife her anyway. Women fine with being jumpoffs but its hard to be a jumpoff if you see the nikka err day. Its like just not a good situation ever unless yall in completely diff sections and even then when shyt go left she gon be telling all your business. Steer clear of work puss brehs

I swear it took me a minute to learn this. It ain't worth it unless I'm trying to cuff like u said

 

[reserved_one]

Well me and my girl just broke up...she told me that we weren't connecting sexually and i couldnt Please her enough with not having a Monster dikk

The crazy thing is she the first chick to complain about this. Im fukking hurt right now.

My Pride

 

[TRUEST]

Well me and my girl just broke up...she told me that we weren't connecting sexually and i couldnt Please her enough with not having a Monster dikk

The crazy thing is she the first chick to complain about this. Im fukking hurt right now.

My Pride

That was brutal of her. A simple I'm not feeling this should have been enough. U don't need a heartless person like that in ur life anyway

 

[True Blue Moon]

Well me and my girl just broke up...she told me that we weren't connecting sexually and i couldnt Please her enough with not having a Monster dikk

The crazy thing is she the first chick to complain about this. Im fukking hurt right now.

My Pride

Yo breh. You might not hear this now, but your life is about to become amazing because of this if you roll with the energy properly.

Not even being funny, but it may be a matter of needing to get your sex game right. Women don't communicate as bluntly as this chick in most cases, but will suffer in silence or not give you the proper criticism that you need to be as mind blowing in bed as you as a man of high achievement are able to be. So your sexual history MIGHT (I'm on the outside looking in, so this is just one perspective) consist of chicks who never told you things you could do better, or who (like most women) don't know what peak sexual experiences are because they've only been with dudes who don't fukk them right (which is most dudes).

Basically, it's my belief that most people have sexual shame or hurt, so they're not able to really open up and fukk each others' brains out in ways that are give and take. It's either two people getting a nut without really connecting, or two people sexually incompatible. Couple that with the fact that neither side really tries to fix their own shyt or communicate with their partner, and we have a pool of people with sexual hangups or having bad sex.

So if you eat this L and use the energy of the pride being hurt into turning you into a dude seeking peak sexual knowledge, skill and experience, you'll become a monster in sex and all areas of your life. The hurt points you toward a blessing, so stay on "fukk that bytch" for however long you need to heal, but then put your man boots on and get better from it.

While her sexual enjoyment is NOT the end all be all of your ability as a man to please a woman, it may be an indicator that you need to explore sexuality deeper so that you have the wherewithal to be able to adapt to any woman's sexual energy and lay it down like a king.