Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

How to build a roster

These are just some of the ways Ive seen other people build rosters some I use. Theres prolly more so feel free to chime in

The Player

Most dudes are NOT able to do this. If u cant do this dont put urself down cuz most men dont have the balls or persistence to do this. U have to be actively approaching women in all situations and build up 3-4 girls at all times and continuously switching them out. This method is grueling and takes alot of effort. Its a numbers game. Atleast in this stage ur single and ur not cheating on someone for moral reasons however it requires way more effort. The moral of this one is to cold approach everywhere and talk to multiple females. If ur gonna do this u need to love the game of chasing more than u love the p*ssy.If ur too lazy to chase then just do The Recycler or The Harem. U need discipline and dikk control for this and be willing to cut off a chick at any moment.

Success Rate: 50%

These are just some of the ways I have personally used and seen other people used. There are prolly more but these are the most common ones. Find ur niche

Now ball hard fellas

The Player is fun but can be exhausting juggling women. At this point I do love the game of the seduction, the sex is good. But knowing I got a woman who "doesn't usually do this" into bed on the first date is exhilarating.

It's a shame that in most cases I can't turn these into friendships as a lot of the women I get with are genuinely interesting, non air head types. But there is a shelf life for doing this, usually about 2 months for most women. Before they have enough of getting seen maybe once every week or two weeks by me.

I've carved down a roster of 9 down to about 4, what usually happens is a chick wants more time with me, but I'd rather spend that time with one of the other chicks, I make up an excuse like work and she gets pissed and deads it, which is slightly good for me as if they come back at anytime, I personally didn't end it on a bad note we just stopped talking and can pick up from there, if she was looking for a late night thing.

I find myself clicking with a lot of professional career women, one I was surprised I seduced was a early 40's Chinese medical professor. Who matched with me on Bumble. I could never see her going for it but we clicked. And man she could get down.

This woman was so cool she used to shower and wash me down gently after we finished having sex. Then handmake me dumplings. In the end she said she loved the sex and our chats about sociological issue , but felt like I was too busy for her. And she's away in China for 6 weeks working. I'll see what happens when she gets back to Canada.

In the meantime I have a dinner date with this Half Filipino/Latin chick tonight, we'll see how that goes...

 

[MikelArteta]

man i met a dr today she gave me her number

 

[True Blue Moon]

i watched one of the videos posted and i just kinda shook my head that people bought into it. its a video by that buff black dude telling dudes to perform these silly exercises.

but overall, i do believe there are a lot of things to learn from reading advice from experience men on women. usually when i tell dudes on here not to do (or to do) x y z, i usually back up what I say with personal experiences or experiences of people i know. that way, u know these arent rules that were plucked out the ass of Sasquatch.

Everything in life is universal bruh. You gotta get your mind, health, spirit and money right at the same time. Someone whose money is right might not be able to get an erection. Someone who is laying dikk around town might be broke and begging chicks for a warm bed to sleep in. Someone in a happy relationship, making crazy money might be unhealthy and dragging without energy with no clue why. Another person might have everything a man could dream of, but wants to put a bullet in their head because nothing fulfills them.

I say that to say that every man is on a journey, so keeping your sword sharp isn't either/or. That's why it's beautiful that dudes are in here giving different parts of the equation, ALL of which matter. And no man on his purpose should ever forsake one for the other, because cultivating different aspects makes the other stronger, like how the biceps help the triceps.

Now with that said, things happen in seasons, so one man might need to be money and education ONLY for 2 years, while some dudes who are killing in business might need to work on their personality or interests.

I can drop something on martial arts and handling yourself one minute, talk about God the next, business and marketing with the next breh and getting your dikk game official the next without missing a beat. It's important to explore the whole conversation because we're all developing it all til we die and judging by some honest conversations with other dudes about what's lacking in their lives, motherfukkers need help with all of it.

 

[Y2Dre]

Wrong thread.

 

[TRUEST]

Everything in life is universal bruh. You gotta get your mind, health, spirit and money right at the same time. Someone whose money is right might not be able to get an erection. Someone who is laying dikk around town might be broke and begging chicks for a warm bed to sleep in. Someone in a happy relationship, making crazy money might be unhealthy and dragging without energy with no clue why. Another person might have everything a man could dream of, but wants to put a bullet in their head because nothing fulfills them.

I say that to say that every man is on a journey, so keeping your sword sharp isn't either/or. That's why it's beautiful that dudes are in here giving different parts of the equation, ALL of which matter. And no man on his purpose should ever forsake one for the other, because cultivating different aspects makes the other stronger, like how the biceps help the triceps.

Now with that said, things happen in seasons, so one man might need to be money and education ONLY for 2 years, while some dudes who are killing in business might need to work on their personality or interests.

I can drop something on martial arts and handling yourself one minute, talk about God the next, business and marketing with the next breh and getting your dikk game official the next without missing a beat. It's important to explore the whole conversation because we're all developing it all til we die and judging by some honest conversations with other dudes about what's lacking in their lives, motherfukkers need help with all of it.

money trumps everything my friend. with financial security, u can have the peace of mind to explore whatever the fucck u want to. read books on termites if thats what ur into. ive lived an interesting life and my advice to those with discerning minds is to pick and choose very carefully what they spend their time on. frivolity is rampant and many fall victim to it. there's this white guy on IG, i forget his name. his rich. all he does is work out and chase chicks. he's more of an extreme example but nonetheless exemplifies my point to a degree. get ur financial standing on a solid rock first before u spend hours upon hours on ridiculous things. my two cents. to each his own.

 

[True Blue Moon]

money trumps everything my friend. with financial security, u can have the peace of mind to explore whatever the fucck u want to. read books on termites if thats what ur into. ive lived an interesting life and my advice to those with discerning minds is to pick and choose very carefully what they spend their time on. frivolity is rampant and many fall victim to it. there's this white guy on IG, i forget his name. his rich. all he does is work out and chase chicks. he's more of an extreme example but nonetheless exemplifies my point to a degree. get ur financial standing on a solid rock first before u spend hours upon hours on ridiculous things. my two cents. to each his own.

That's the thing, I'm not choosing one or the other, I get money and take care of my mental and physical health at the same time. Cultivating myself gives me the energy to get the money and makes the financial wins more fulfilling. The reason I found this balance is because I've been self-employed for 5 years. After working myself to the bone for a few years, I eventually learned how to take care of myself instead of just grinding it out on sheer will.

Figuring out ways to destress with healthy eating and martial arts led to meditation and by embracing that, it makes getting the money effortless because it's a life mission now. Self development isn't a distraction from getting the money, it's the tool that's making me the money.

It's like how a pro athlete hires a nutritionist, a strength and conditioning coach, a sports psychiatrist and a person to give them high tech hot and cold treatments. That's how I use philosophy, breathing and meditation to empower me as a brain, heart, body and energetic force to make moves and get my cash up and anything else I want to get on my mission. Striking that balance is what gives me the firepower to work 15+ hours.

Maybe for someone else it doesn't take all that. Another person might just show up, work hard in practice and chill on everything work-related after hours. As long as we all get to the All-Star game who cares what tools we used?

I feel you 100% if dudes are using self-development to feel like the smartest guy at a party with some witty quotes, but brehs in this thread are sharing this stuff to power up and take on life. It might not be everyone's cup of tea but nikkas aren't in fairyland right now is all I'm saying. Some brehs are artists, some brehs are scientists, some brehs are blue collar. We all trying to get the same thing.

 

[International Playa]

1) If I'm not home, I'm at work or in the gym...both inappropriate places to push up on women. The gym isn't that bad but my body isn't at the point where women are looking...I know because I look at them.

2) Until I have my own spot I don't see much of a point in "putting myself out there". Yes, I know "but my dusty ass cousin does it" but I'm not him. Only pride says I should have some piece of ass but reality says I'm not offering anything that flips that switch in a chick's head so I have work to do and will for a while.

Dont let that stop your game. Many dudes out there still live at home & still deep in the game. Youngest cat in our crew is 21, still lives at home,he doesnt drive, his got 3-4 females on his roster. The chicks on his roster who dont have their own place, he fukks them in cheap ass motels/ hotels or in their cars

Living at home helps his game, if he had his own place, he woulda been caught already lol. Since he stays at home, no female can run up in his mama's house.

When I still stayed at home, I used to fukk a single mother who had her own place.

 

[Shadow King]

Dont let that stop your game. Many dudes out there still live at home & still deep in the game. Youngest cat in our crew is 21, still lives at home,he doesnt drive, his got 3-4 females on his roster. The chicks on his roster who dont have their own place, he fukks them in cheap ass motels/ hotels or in their cars

Living at home helps his game, if he had his own place, he woulda been caught already lol. Since he stays at home, no female can run up in his mama's house.

When I still stayed at home, I used to fukk a single mother who had her own place.

I know there are...I know some personally, and that's good for them. But that's not how I want my "game" set up.

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

If a bytch is complaining that she doesn't see her "boyfriend" enough just because she's working too much and etc, then something clearly ain't right.

How you got a nikka and you're still lonely?


Actions speak louder than words, god-damn it.


How can the man in that situation NOT be giving you constant dikk? How can HE be ok with that shyt? Does HE even care?

Either the nikka is a grade A simp that naively believes that he's the only one smashing/talking to the bytch, or the nikka himself could be also fukking around with other women like a woman be with nikkaz.....because, that lack of time has become an issue. If it's Friday and Saturday and she's at the house by HERSELF, tweeting shyt, watching movies then it's clear cut what's going on.
Women can go from "I don't need a man.... I don't have time to date.... I'm independent, I love money more than men" so suddenly wanting to see a nikka 24/7.


Then I be like "Damn, I thought you bytches wanted money over the dikk". These bytches like money so much (which has been like that) but they don't like sacrificing their own time to work for it. They just want a handout/easy way out. Again, red flags...


Going to work and going out with a person takes a-lot of effort and time especially if you got your own place. People can't blame a job for them not getting enough sex....it just shows where the priorities are (in her head).....

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

 

[Dreamzeedream]

The WOAT at getting p*ssy is getting closer PAWG bought me drinks gave me her number and bit my lip when kissing I went out Dolo
I just can't invite them back

She annoyed she gave me a real number

Why not

 

[True Blue Moon]

The WOAT at getting p*ssy is getting closer PAWG bought me drinks gave me her number and bit my lip when kissing I went out Dolo
I just can't invite them back

She annoyed she gave me a real number

Breh all you gotta do is ask if she wants to grab a drink and catch a vibe at the crib.

Either you have sexual performance issues or your self-esteem can't survive the potential that she says no to your question

What's going on breh. Help us help you. We brothers here.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

@True Blue Moon @Playa

What's y'all advice for brehs with little sexual Experience

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Breh all you gotta do is ask if she wants to grab a drink and catch a vibe at the crib.

Either you have sexual performance issues or your self-esteem can't survive the potential that she says no to your question

What's going on breh. Help us help you. We brothers here.

in some capacity i haven't fukked in years forgot what it's like