Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Dreamzeedream]

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Any specific mental change you looking for breh? Maybe tell me a little bit about your current thought process or what sort of edge you're trying to gain and I'll see what books jump out at me.

I'm trying to be more self aware and self confidence

 

[TRUEST]

That's not totally accurate...ask to see her phone>>text messages..this method says alot and you'll know how much she likes you, the guys she's currently seeing if any, unresolved issues with exes etc etc.

yea no sh1t. read the last 50 pages of this thread.

 

[Turbulent]

once in a while, sit back and observe without seeking. just check how people act around eachother and towards you. you will notice certain women choosing you. go after those ones without seeking their validation. make the offer and let her choose. if she fronts on you, do not try to convince her to change her mind. Just keep it moving. If she comes back, don't be passive aggressive. keep your head cold and check if you still want to spend time with her or not. Some girls will front at first and then come back around and it's frustrating but if you succumb to it, that anger stays within you and even the next girl you meet, you bring that vibe along with you.

 

[HearNoEvil]

I'm trying to be more self aware and self confidence

http://libgen.io/book/index.php?md5=5158147429634ECB477BEED57A38BB89

^Short 100 page pdf. Aims to prove why authenticity (without approval seeking) is the most attractive trait to women.

When you understand the value of being self confident, it'll be harder to be insecure than it is to be authentic.

Highly recommended book.

 

[MisterMajesty]

Library Genesis: Real Social Dynamics (RSD) - Blueprint

^Short 100 page pdf. Aims to prove why authenticity (without approval seeking) is the most attractive trait to women.

When you understand the value of being self confident, it'll be harder to be insecure than it is to be authentic.

Highly recommended book.

Virgin blocked the shyt

 

[Shadow King]

once in a while, sit back and observe without seeking. just check how people act around eachother and towards you. you will notice certain women choosing you. go after those ones without seeking their validation. make the offer and let her choose. if she fronts on you, do not try to convince her to change her mind. Just keep it moving. If she comes back, don't be passive aggressive. keep your head cold and check if you still want to spend time with her or not. Some girls will front at first and then come back around and it's frustrating but if you succumb to it, that anger stays within you and even the next girl you meet, you bring that vibe along with you.

I'm supposed to be only lurking but posts like this stir something in me, or at least the first 40%

 

[YaFingerDealMe]

bytch be into too much shyt, getting cut off after I smash this time

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Brehs so what if a chick asks you to buy her a drink? Instead of you offering to buy a drink


I was cheap and said water is free for one chick

I felt like I was getting played maybe I shoulda said If you come home with me tonight i will

(I'd already given a chick a lift home as a favor for a friend when she offered to pay me I said nah it's cool i'll get ur no. though exchanged a few texts then abruptly stopped must of got turned off somehow and I felt finessed )

I was acting weird for another chick I said I'd pay for a chicks drink then I changed my mind when her body language was like ok...

So that must have hurt me when trying to approach another chick was was part of that same entourage

maybe it didn't help that I came by myself

I'm so embarrassed with my lack of game

I have the balls to approach
my execution is pure awful even when they approach me... even when I get the digits

 

[International Playa]

Brehs so what if a chick asks you to buy her a drink? Instead of you offering to buy a drink


I was cheap and said water is free for one chick

I felt like I was getting played maybe I shoulda said If you come home with me tonight i will

(I'd already given a chick a lift home as a favor for a friend when she offered to pay me I said nah it's cool i'll get ur no. though exchanged a few texts then abruptly stopped must of got turned off somehow and I felt finessed )

I was acting weird for another chick I said I'd pay for a chicks drink then I changed my mind when her body language was like ok...

So that must have hurt me when trying to approach another chick was was part of that same entourage

maybe it didn't help that I came by myself

I'm so embarrassed with my lack of game

I have the balls to approach
my execution is pure awful even when they approach me... even when I get the digits

Seems like you are scared of being finessed by a female so you projecting that fear in your interactions. You making yourself cheap & turning the women off.

Just relax, enjoy the experience, only buy a woman a drink when you buying yourself one and if the interaction is going well. Many women will flake on you, dont take it personal.

 

[MaxPain]

Brehs so what if a chick asks you to buy her a drink? Instead of you offering to buy a drink


I was cheap and said water is free for one chick

I felt like I was getting played maybe I shoulda said If you come home with me tonight i will

(I'd already given a chick a lift home as a favor for a friend when she offered to pay me I said nah it's cool i'll get ur no. though exchanged a few texts then abruptly stopped must of got turned off somehow and I felt finessed )

I was acting weird for another chick I said I'd pay for a chicks drink then I changed my mind when her body language was like ok...

So that must have hurt me when trying to approach another chick was was part of that same entourage

maybe it didn't help that I came by myself

I'm so embarrassed with my lack of game

I have the balls to approach
my execution is pure awful even when they approach me... even when I get the digits

Lol never buy a woman a drink when ur out at the club or bar or wherever.

Ive been in relationships where we go out & they still pay for their own drinks. What does that tell u.

 

[YaFingerDealMe]

Dumb bytch just asked can she borrow my gun last hoodrat I'm fukking with, gone settle down with a nice wholesome woman

 

[The Message]

just because you got the number doesnt mean she wont ignore your texts.

even though yall arranged a date for Friday doesnt mean she wont flake.

despite yall grabbing drinks and she was all up on you, laughing at your jokes and having fun, she can still tell you she's not interested.

yeah you smashed the first night but it doesnt guarantee youll hear from her again.

so youve been smashin for a month, she could still up and ghost on you.

though you two decide to be in a committed relationship, it doesnt save you from getting the "i just want to be friends" talk.

even your engagement with the future mother of your seeds cant stop the "i cant go through with this" talk.

the only thing that can save you is you. women can break bad at any time. when it's time for her to blow, its time.

 

[The Message]

but you should be unmoved by it all and your sights should remain forward....on your growth and maximizing your potential as a man.

whether youre in a relationship or knee deep in the single life, keep the blade of your game sharp. keep health & fitness a priority in your life. accumulate ink to your passport. expand your social circle. keep adding zeroes to your bank account!!! prioritize knowledge and add value to your life. and it bears repeating...hustlin hard and becoming economically independent is PARAMOUNT.

never allow your game to fall off. peep how Floyd stays in the gym despite not having a fight in two years. hes ring ready--always. never forget how it feels to get punched in the face and never forget the taste of your own blood.

it's sink or swim out here brehs. stay sharp.

 

[LoMax30]

the only thing that can save you is you. women can break bad at any time. when it's time for her to blow, its time.

Ain't that the truth

but you should be unmoved by it all and your sights should remain forward....on your growth and maximizing your potential as a man.

I try but mannnnn, sometimes it's hard not to be jaded

whether youre in a relationship or knee deep in the single life, keep the blade of your game sharp. keep health & fitness a priority in your life. accumulate ink to your passport. expand your social circle. keep adding zeroes to your bank account!!! prioritize knowledge and add value to your life. and it bears repeating...hustlin hard and becoming economically independent is PARAMOUNT.

I literally do all this verbatim and I been single for a miiiiiiinute. Sometimes I'm like damn life, give me a break already!