Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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the only thing that can save you is you. women can break bad at any time. when it's time for her to blow, its time.

Ain't that the truth :mjcry:

but you should be unmoved by it all and your sights should remain forward....on your growth and maximizing your potential as a man.
I try but mannnnn, sometimes it's hard not to be jaded :mjcry:

whether youre in a relationship or knee deep in the single life, keep the blade of your game sharp. keep health & fitness a priority in your life. accumulate ink to your passport. expand your social circle. keep adding zeroes to your bank account!!! prioritize knowledge and add value to your life. and it bears repeating...hustlin hard and becoming economically independent is PARAMOUNT.

I literally do all this verbatim and I been single for a miiiiiiinute. Sometimes I'm like damn life, give me a break already! :damn:
 

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Ain't that the truth :mjcry:


I try but mannnnn, sometimes it's hard not to be jaded :mjcry:



I literally do all this verbatim and I been single for a miiiiiiinute. Sometimes I'm like damn life, give me a break already! :damn:

it will be painful. its ok to hurt. be dejected. heart torn apart. bitter. the whole nine. getting a divorce and losing your kids can break anybody.

but be the mountain. heavy rain, lightning, rough winds, can wear it down and chip away at it...but if its strong enough, it can outlast anything.

if you doing all the above and shyt still aint poppin, then it might be time to shake the spot and move to another city.
 

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Brehs so what if a chick asks you to buy her a drink? Instead of you offering to buy a drink


I was cheap and said water is free for one chick:wtb:

I felt like I was getting played maybe I shoulda said If you come home with me tonight i will

(I'd already given a chick a lift home as a favor for a friend when she offered to pay me I said nah it's cool i'll get ur no. though exchanged a few texts then abruptly stopped must of got turned off somehow and I felt finessed )

I was acting weird for another chick I said I'd pay for a chicks drink then I changed my mind when her body language was like ok...:skip:

So that must have hurt me when trying to approach another chick was was part of that same entourage

maybe it didn't help that I came by myself

I'm so embarrassed with my lack of game:snoop:

I have the balls to approach
my execution is pure awful:scust: even when they approach me... even when I get the digits
:shaq2:

How you look breh?
 

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Brehs so what if a chick asks you to buy her a drink? Instead of you offering to buy a drink


I was cheap and said water is free for one chick:wtb:

I felt like I was getting played maybe I shoulda said If you come home with me tonight i will

(I'd already given a chick a lift home as a favor for a friend when she offered to pay me I said nah it's cool i'll get ur no. though exchanged a few texts then abruptly stopped must of got turned off somehow and I felt finessed )

I was acting weird for another chick I said I'd pay for a chicks drink then I changed my mind when her body language was like ok...:skip:

So that must have hurt me when trying to approach another chick was was part of that same entourage

maybe it didn't help that I came by myself

I'm so embarrassed with my lack of game:snoop:

I have the balls to approach
my execution is pure awful:scust: even when they approach me... even when I get the digits
:shaq2:
I don't buy women I'm not explicitly in a ltr with shyt. period. Shes a grown ass woman. she should work hard for her money as do I.
 

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next time that situation occurs go like this

Girl: buy me a drink? :takedat:
You: I got you. :mjlol: and then smile at her.
you: Do nikkas buy you drinks often?
Girl: OFC!
You: Whys that?
Girl:IDK they are being gentleman/nice/cool/whatever bullshyt answer shes gonna come up with
You: Naw they buy a drink because they want to make it easier to sleep with you. They think alcohol is gonna make it easier to have sex with you.
I'm not going to do that because I don't need to buy my way into anyone. If we were a couple it'd be different, but were not.
Girl: probably shocked (just chill at this point)
You: We can definitely share my (whatever you sipping on) though. :jawalrus:

She'll either accept it or she won't. If she does congrats you just aced a huge power struggle and have complete reins of this interaction. At this point you've established a ridiculous center and did so in a very confident and interesting way. Granted it takes some juice to pull this off well and it doesn't have to be verbatim but I'm sure you get the idea. Key is why give up so much power to some random. At least have her meet you halfway which is fair, and then steer the interaction towards being your doing. Women love adventure and just "falling" into some new dikk. you got it next time breh.

If she think she too good to share your drink however. give her a imaginary toast with your drink and her imaginary drink and be on your way and start toasting the room. toast everyone ugly, beautiful. groups, singles. be the life of the event. no one is going to want to appear socially inept and not toast this exuberant breh just looking to have a good time. make the rounds and chill. let the event come to you at that point. This shyt works breh, its gold. Don't go to bars or w/e expecting shyt. just go to have a good time. You there to have fun I assume so go do that. let that uppity sourpusses stew :ld:
 

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Brehs so what if a chick asks you to buy her a drink? Instead of you offering to buy a drink


I was cheap and said water is free for one chick:wtb:

I felt like I was getting played maybe I shoulda said If you come home with me tonight i will

(I'd already given a chick a lift home as a favor for a friend when she offered to pay me I said nah it's cool i'll get ur no. though exchanged a few texts then abruptly stopped must of got turned off somehow and I felt finessed )

I was acting weird for another chick I said I'd pay for a chicks drink then I changed my mind when her body language was like ok...:skip:

So that must have hurt me when trying to approach another chick was was part of that same entourage

maybe it didn't help that I came by myself

I'm so embarrassed with my lack of game:snoop:

I have the balls to approach
my execution is pure awful:scust: even when they approach me... even when I get the digits
:shaq2:


If u ain't my girl nope.
U gotta earn that privilege for me to buy u a drank
She ask how
Simply say guess you'll find out over a few dates if u have earn that privilege:mjgrin:

Now don't get me wrong I have before in the past but I didn't pay for it owner knew me and I used it too my advantage so it was free :blessed:

At best if she want a drink be like sure if u buy me one too at least then it's 50/50
 
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If u ain't my girl nope.
U gotta earn that privilege for me to buy u a drank
She ask how
Simply say guess you'll find out over a few dates if u have earn that privilege:mjgrin:

Now don't get me wrong I have before in the past but I didn't pay for it owner knew me and I used it too my advantage so it was free :blessed:

At best if she want a drink be like sure if u buy me one too at least then it's 50/50
:mjlol:
 
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