Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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That's a good point, I have trust issues myself tho.
I do trust her, but at the same time I'm like ehhh. She seems to be hella obsessed with me when we're together which can be 6 days out the week so I feel like she's into me.

And bc she's Mexican and it's a place she's always wanted to go I suppose. Her girlfriends met up with her, ones married etc.

That's true, I mean I did get a love you text, but I feel like she wanna blow me phone up all the while I get a "I'm single" vibe yet I'm still babe.

That's true, I guess bc we're still kinda young and childish... I don't like the while gone for 2 weeks thing but when I was her age I travelled for months tbh so I understand it.

I just don't want to be waiting and getting played at the same time. Only for someone to come back and try to be bood up with me again
Wifey Mexican here just chill and see how things go breh her being clingy better than nothing at all
Just keep things normal if she blow up ur phone so be it most want a female like that
If u hate how clingy or obssessed she is then cut her if not appreciate it
Just look for subtle changes if she has any
It's ok to have doubts bout trust it's not ok to make moves with no proof or any major signs
Get over the hurt part breh that shyt can happen at any given time in a relationship
Random question, if your lady withholds sex from you because you guys are having issues, is it fair to withhold spending money on her? :jbhmm:
First off if it's just a day or 2 maybe 3 (depends on sex drive and issue) no big deal she just needs time to coo off gotta respect that
But if that shyt is a week or weeks sit down talk to her and ask y is this necessary to withhold that long now if u seriously fukked up I mean cheated fukked up u have no leverage or say so gotta suck it up anything other than that she needs to understand how can u take her serious to another level in the relationship if u ain't married of course cuz u mad and that's ur way of punishing me it just shows ur immaturity and u ain't worth my time to be staying together
We need to fix this issue together not withhold sex cuz of it
Now if she is ur wife I be a savage withhold spending money talking to her or sleeping same damn bed as her and whatever else I can do to get the point across it's not ok to do this while also telling that and say till u grow up this is what I'm gonna do and when ur ready to sit down at the adult table so we can talk to fix this issue u left me with no choice but to do this.
shyt my wife would kill me not giving her dikk or just flat out rape me in my sleep
 

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First off if it's just a day or 2 maybe 3 (depends on sex drive and issue) no big deal she just needs time to coo off gotta respect that
But if that shyt is a week or weeks sit down talk to her and ask y is this necessary to withhold that long now if u seriously fukked up I mean cheated fukked up u have no leverage or say so gotta suck it up anything other than that she needs to understand how can u take her serious to another level in the relationship if u ain't married of course cuz u mad and that's ur way of punishing me it just shows ur immaturity and u ain't worth my time to be staying together
We need to fix this issue together not withhold sex cuz of it
Now if she is ur wife I be a savage withhold spending money talking to her or sleeping same damn bed as her and whatever else I can do to get the point across it's not ok to do this while also telling that and say till u grow up this is what I'm gonna do and when ur ready to sit down at the adult table so we can talk to fix this issue u left me with no choice but to do this.
shyt my wife would kill me not giving her dikk or just flat out rape me in my sleep

i actually dont think its that deep. women have sexual desires just like men. if shes ok letting her man's hard d1ck go to waste, one, two, three, four, five days/nights in a row, nah, u need to dead that relationship fast!
 

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i actually dont think its that deep. women have sexual desires just like men. if shes ok letting her man's hard d1ck go to waste, one, two, three, four, five days/nights in a row, nah, u need to dead that relationship fast!

They do with the right person where they won't let it go to waste u know that as well as i do but if she settle or no homo dikk game ain't on point she can ride out long as she wants and ride someone else
But yup needs to be dead I was just putting other possible reason y she could be doing it nothing more than that
Good to great dikk no woman gonna withhold long they be on ur shyt quick as hell
 

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Nah it's always bad for the man to be begging for sex. Sex is the natural offspring of desire much like food is birth off hunger. U don't have to convince anyone to eat their favorite delicious food, why should you convince or talk to a woman about fuccking u?

She should already have that desire. If she doesn't, then u are not her favorite delicious food.

Save your dignity. Leave the relationship. Reexamine ur behavior and check to see if there's anything ur doing that's repelling to puccy.

I agree with all that. Totally. I just didn't understand what there was to be so "in your feelings about" after the fact. Seemed like he made the right choice to go separate ways.
 

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If you only have one, you have none.
:hhh: Ya'll gon get novice nikkas hemmed up with this chase a myriad of chicks shyt:hhh:

Unless you able to attract multiple women of incredibly high attractiveness and value you wasting your time and just subconsciously stroking your ego and or hedging your lack of self esteem by having attention from a bunch of so so women. Quality>>>>Quanity always.
 

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:hhh: Ya'll gon get novice nikkas hemmed up with this chase a myriad of chicks shyt:hhh:

Unless you able to attract multiple women of incredibly high attractiveness and value you wasting your time and just subconsciously stroking your ego and or hedging your lack of self esteem by having attention from a bunch of so so women. Quality>>>>Quanity always.

exactly. when i hear of dudes talking about rosters, its usually rosters full of women nobody wants. i had to get out of that mentality when i realized it was a waste of time spending energy on chicks u know u would never want to make ur girlfriend.
 

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:hhh: Ya'll gon get novice nikkas hemmed up with this chase a myriad of chicks shyt:hhh:

Unless you able to attract multiple women of incredibly high attractiveness and value you wasting your time and just subconsciously stroking your ego and or hedging your lack of self esteem by having attention from a bunch of so so women. Quality>>>>Quanity always.
lol we're gonna argue this shyt forever

you dont gotta be fukkin 5 random chicks at once for it to be a roster. its nothing to keep shyt casual with other, QUALITY women because although its rare, women can be useful for more than their p*ssy. Some have good networks they could plug you into, some are cool to hang around, some can enlighten / teach you about things in life and give you a female perspective, some can use their p*ssy power to get over on men and you can benefit from such. When I was younger and didnt even care about women i would politic with girls, kick it with them and just overall be cool. You had no obligations to them, everything was casual and before you knew it the girl would start feeling you just off seeing how you move and catching the vibe between yall.

Beyond that though, its more about letting your girl feel the threat of other women, and you being psychologically adjusted to bounce on your girl if she doing some bullshyt. Girls like dudes that other women like. Once your girl sees other girls flirting with you, checking you out and all that...not only will she fall in line but she will feel that much luckier to have you and appreciative of the fact that you chose her out of all the other women.

That one girl shyt is doom. It leaves your average dude comfortable, vulnerable and depleted. I will always stay sharp. Mind, body, mouth and soul.
 

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lol we're gonna argue this shyt forever

you dont gotta be fukkin 5 random chicks at once for it to be a roster. its nothing to keep shyt casual with other, QUALITY women because although its rare, women can be useful for more than their p*ssy. Some have good networks they could plug you into, some are cool to hang around, some can enlighten / teach you about things in life and give you a female perspective, some can use their p*ssy power to get over on men and you can benefit from such. When I was younger and didnt even care about women i would politic with girls, kick it with them and just overall be cool. You had no obligations to them, everything was casual and before you knew it the girl would start feeling you just off seeing how you move and catching the vibe between yall.

Beyond that though, its more about letting your girl feel the threat of other women, and you being psychologically adjusted to bounce on your girl if she doing some bullshyt. Girls like dudes that other women like. Once your girl sees other girls flirting with you, checking you out and all that...not only will she fall in line but she will feel that much luckier to have you and appreciative of the fact that you chose her out of all the other women.

That one girl shyt is doom. It leaves your average dude comfortable, vulnerable and depleted. I will always stay sharp. Mind, body, mouth and soul.
Yeah we will lol. And its no hate. Im just more indifferent now. I dont have the desire to seriously entertain more than two or so high quality women. And if I do end up with just that one and she decides to bounce well deuces. Ill attract another baddie in time aint shyt. I never want to get back in the habit if operating in fear of losing someone. IDC if they go, Im a young fly nikka who works in cosmetics. Im around women allllll day everyday. So like rheyd be retarded to think I cant pull on a whim anyway. i dont have to ahow her she already knows by how I carry myself. fukk with I fukk with you, if you dont cool we can part ways.
 

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exactly. when i hear of dudes talking about rosters, its usually rosters full of women nobody wants. i had to get out of that mentality when i realized it was a waste of time spending energy on chicks u know u would never want to make ur girlfriend.

lol we're gonna argue this shyt forever

you dont gotta be fukkin 5 random chicks at once for it to be a roster. its nothing to keep shyt casual with other, QUALITY women because although its rare, women can be useful for more than their p*ssy. Some have good networks they could plug you into, some are cool to hang around, some can enlighten / teach you about things in life and give you a female perspective, some can use their p*ssy power to get over on men and you can benefit from such. When I was younger and didnt even care about women i would politic with girls, kick it with them and just overall be cool. You had no obligations to them, everything was casual and before you knew it the girl would start feeling you just off seeing how you move and catching the vibe between yall.

Beyond that though, its more about letting your girl feel the threat of other women, and you being psychologically adjusted to bounce on your girl if she doing some bullshyt. Girls like dudes that other women like. Once your girl sees other girls flirting with you, checking you out and all that...not only will she fall in line but she will feel that much luckier to have you and appreciative of the fact that you chose her out of all the other women.

That one girl shyt is doom. It leaves your average dude comfortable, vulnerable and depleted. I will always stay sharp. Mind, body, mouth and soul.

Yeah we will lol. And its no hate. Im just more indifferent now. I dont have the desire to seriously entertain more than two or so high quality women. And if I do end up with just that one and she decides to bounce well deuces. Ill attract another baddie in time aint shyt. I never want to get back in the habit if operating in fear of losing someone. IDC if they go, Im a young fly nikka who works in cosmetics. Im around women allllll day everyday. So like rheyd be retarded to think I cant pull on a whim anyway. i dont have to ahow her she already knows by how I carry myself. fukk with I fukk with you, if you dont cool we can part ways.

From past experience too many was fun and all and gave me a massive network nor were they ugly very good quality but got to point 2 was enough for me
If u want more ain't nothing wrong with that either matter of preference for each individual
 

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:hhh: Ya'll gon get novice nikkas hemmed up with this chase a myriad of chicks shyt:hhh:

Unless you able to attract multiple women of incredibly high attractiveness and value you wasting your time and just subconsciously stroking your ego and or hedging your lack of self esteem by having attention from a bunch of so so women. Quality>>>>Quanity always.

Not being able to name girls who like me besides my girlfriend is death row. I don't have to fukk them to get the effect.
 
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lets be realistic though. yes, u can get paper and talk to chicks. but i doubt u'll understand how difficult it is to do both when u have real life responsibilities.

what does "talking to chicks" mean? when u get with a chick who likes u, u can bet she'll be blowing up ur phone. and if u dont respond fast enough, or if ur responses are often delayed, she'll get frustrated and go somewhere else. it aint like ur the only hot stuff around....unless of course u got millionaire type money. now, thats just one chick. imagine having multiple chicks ur talking to? how do u juggle that and still get ur paper? u really cant. somethings gotta give and in this case, ud be wise to let it be the women that gives.

talking to chicks on a consistent basis and maintaining a relationship takes effort and time away from u. between responding to text, setting up time to meet, meeting up, etc, u barely have time to focus on getting real money.

Pretty much...

Between work/gym/rest, there not enough hours in a day to have so many
 

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lol we're gonna argue this shyt forever

you dont gotta be fukkin 5 random chicks at once for it to be a roster. its nothing to keep shyt casual with other, QUALITY women because although its rare, women can be useful for more than their p*ssy. Some have good networks they could plug you into, some are cool to hang around, some can enlighten / teach you about things in life and give you a female perspective, some can use their p*ssy power to get over on men and you can benefit from such. When I was younger and didnt even care about women i would politic with girls, kick it with them and just overall be cool. You had no obligations to them, everything was casual and before you knew it the girl would start feeling you just off seeing how you move and catching the vibe between yall.

Beyond that though, its more about letting your girl feel the threat of other women, and you being psychologically adjusted to bounce on your girl if she doing some bullshyt. Girls like dudes that other women like. Once your girl sees other girls flirting with you, checking you out and all that...not only will she fall in line but she will feel that much luckier to have you and appreciative of the fact that you chose her out of all the other women.

That one girl shyt is doom. It leaves your average dude comfortable, vulnerable and depleted. I will always stay sharp. Mind, body, mouth and soul.

There are certain things that come with the territory at this point..

They got sidechick shows that these women watch religiously...

shyt is unbelievable
 

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Pretty much...

Between work/gym/rest, there not enough hours in a day to have so many
might not be enough hours in the day but there are enough days in a week :mjpls:

i dont juggle that many girls...i'm just saying that it is not that difficult and has benefits. I'll juggle a few (lets say three or four) and let the pieces fall where they may typically. Typically one crab tends to fight off the others and escape the bucket to emerge as the one I'll invest all my time/effort into.
 
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