Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i honestly try to, I'm just always strapped for cash due to bills and other shyt....main problem is that most of the people in my circle don't really go out like that naymore (due to having kids, work, etc.), I'm like one of the only ones that doesn't have a seed, and the older you get the harder it is to meet women (I'm 33)....



Maybe that's it....never knew that honestly....

It's easy to fall into bad habits

I'm really just getting out of mines...

Breathing deep is like a compound exercise...it does alot of good for surrounding muscles
 

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It's easy to fall into bad habits

I'm really just getting out of mines...

Breathing deep is like a compound exercise...it does alot of good for surrounding muscles
Indeed. I was thinking about this earlier while taking my passport photo....

I realized that I would get really stiff and tight for no reason....like even when I would try to relax for some reason, my whole body would just constrict...
 

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You off on the right path
I was always afraid that I would die inside if I get one more rejection, or one more disrepectful event....

But then I thought "....maybe I NEED to die inside....so I can resurrect into something more resilient...."
 

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Make a decision and move forward. Yesterday was yesterday. Today is today. You don't need to live in the past. You're not trying to hurt anyone, you're still learning to love and trust.
 

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I was always afraid that I would die inside if I get one more rejection, or one more disrepectful event....

But then I thought "....maybe I NEED to die inside....so I can resurrect into something more resilient...."

What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger. That’s real shyt. I was at my lowest point back in March... but it made me so strong mentally and that led to me becoming even stronger physically. Fast forward to now, and I feel unstoppable. Rejection is always better than regret.
 

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you simply smash the 19 year old, definitely should not cuff at the age of 25, she will be an entirely different person by next year

and when 21 hits.... well :hubie:

I thought you were saying he shouldn't smash.... I was like wtf ?
 

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Indeed. I was thinking about this earlier while taking my passport photo....

I realized that I would get really stiff and tight for no reason....like even when I would try to relax for some reason, my whole body would just constrict...

My adrenaline gets going and it wrecks my body..
When I'm off work, I try to walk at a snail's pace and take control of my breathing habits..

It does wonders
 

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I just do not have the confidence to talk to women in the day yet.:mjcry:

I find it easier to talk to them in lounges/bars :yeshrug: but we go VERY rarely. I have no crew to consistently go out with to get better.:mjcry:

And I don't want to show up alone either :snoop:
Got the same problem....

I used to go out with the homies all the time before everyone started having kids and shyt, but I was always stuck in my head....

Now that I'm actually ready to interact with females, I have barely anyone to go with....

My dawg just came back from Up North recently though, and he stays bagging broads...thinking I oughtta start going out with him and my brother.....
My adrenaline gets going and it wrecks my body..
When I'm off work, I try to walk at a snail's pace and take control of my breathing habits..

It does wonders

Certainly seems so...I've been sitting here trying to breath deeper, and I'm starting to feel a bit better.....my mind's calming down, and I just feel better in general....
 
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