Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:mindblown: why cant they just tell the dude that they aint interested or lie that they got a man and that's it. Man if I get flacked imma be so mad man.

Lol breh don't text her again until she replies to your last texts. One thing we all learn is a woman can change her mind on a dude from one day to the next. Have you met her in person yet?
 

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Lol breh don't text her again until she replies to your last texts. One thing we all learn is a woman can change her mind on a dude from one day to the next. Have you met her in person yet?
Yep. I cold approached her and complimented her. Got her number, texted her, she said she was grateful for the complement. was supposed to meet on thursday she said she was busy, rescheduled to Saturday. She said yeah, texted her time and location, aint heard back from her since.
 

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Supposed to go get food with the 19 yo chick tonight after work. Kinda feel like not hitting her up and seeing if she hmu.
 

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I'm already in the gym. The rest is gonna require a lot of attention to detail.

Not busting for an indefinite amount of time :patrice:

Nothing happens overnight..

When you at the gym working out hard, your nutrients go right back into the body.

You not even thinking about sex because the body is reasorbing the vitamins..

Posture and breathing properly will come along with the gym
 
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I'm just gonna delete tinder and souls wipe and stick to only cold approaching.

I keep getting matched with immature chicks who don't know wtf they want. Who tf downloads a dating app looking for friends?:why:

Also a lil mini rant: I hate when women tell me I move to fast. LOL if I move too slow I'll get "friendzoned" or another man will come and swoop her away from me. It's not my fault i know what I want and I know when I want it . Early bird gets the worm. I'm not down for the flirty phase, I skip that shyt. All these damn subtle messages and shyt, I'm not a robot I can't decipher that BS. Either she likes me or she doesn't, answer quickly so I can waste my energy and attention on someone who might actually like it.
 

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Any tips on how to get women to entertain the convo more? It feels like I'm talking to myself. Every time I cold approach i end up dominating the conversation. It's even worse when texting.

Whenever I try to let them talk it just turns into awkward silence or there's way too many breaks in conversation. But when I take the lead it sounds like I'm interviewing myself.

Maybe I should start pursuing "loud" girls cuz I'm quiet and I usually go after quiet women but nothing ever comes of it.:patrice:
Talk about shyt that she’s interested in. Sad to say, but women don’t really care what we like. When you in the beginning phase of meeting a chick you should have her do at least 65-75% of the talking, and u only chiming in every so often.
 

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Found out the chick I took out last night was eritriean, not ethopian:skip:

She was ready cancel on me cause I was 45min late. Looked better in person.

Had some great convos. Only spent $25 on drinks:ufdup:

She used to date some hoodnikka(first BF) and dunped him last month afterba year. Said she still dealin with bs from that relationship aka nikka still smashin:bryan:

She seem real aggressive and blunt. I can talk shyt with her without her catchin feelins. she got baggage she needa handle tho

She want me to be patient.

Said I was cute:yeshrug:

Kissed on the lips:yeshrug:

Not rushing into shyt with this chick, she too confused.

Deleted our text convo and thinkin about not hittin her up for a week tbh:manny:
 
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Found out the chick I took out last night was eritriean, not ethopian:skip:

She was ready cancel on me cause I was 45min late. Looked better in person.

Had some great convos. Only spent $25 on drinks:ufdup:

She used to date some hoodnikka(first BF) and dunped him last month afterba year. Said she still dealin with bs from that relationship aka nikka still smashin:bryan:

She seem real aggressive and blunt. I can talk shyt with her without her catchin feelins. she got baggage she needa handle tho

She want me to be patient.

Said I was cute:yeshrug:

Kissed on the lips:yeshrug:

Not rushing into shyt with this chick, she too confused.

Deleted our text convo and thinkin about not hittin her up for a week tbh:manny:
If you're confident that she's still messing with the old bf then you should just end that now.

Think of it like this, you just paid to take another man's p*ssy out on a date. After you got done paying the bills and kissed her on the lips she went back to get her back blown out by the ex bf. You playing provider and the hood dudes playing the lover right now. Dead that.
 

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If you're confident that she's still messing with the old bf then you should just end that now.

Think of it like this, you just paid to take another man's p*ssy out on a date. After you got done paying the bills and kissed her on the lips she went back to get her back blown out by the ex bf. You playing provider and the hood dudes playing the lover right now. Dead that.

Im skilled in these type of situations breh I aint no rookie:smugfavre:.

And, $25 on 4-5 drinks aint no bill and doesn't have me playing the “provider” role. Tf you talkin about lol

We both just going with the flow. If she dont hmu then its cool. I was the first dude she met on tinder and I could tell she was shocked that’d I be a smooth as nikka.

I already know that as a 6’4, dreaddy, and muscular nikka cmbined with a smooth mouthpiece Im good:blessed:.

Women I encounter hit the:wtb: on me sometimes due to the fact I can spit mean game and just laidback n chill. They think i have ulterior motives when really I just wanna get fly and have a shorty who fly too on the side:wow:
 
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