Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

ViShawn

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Just because a girl isn't interested in you doesn't mean something is wrong with YOU. Just move on and show off those qualities that make you unique to others.

Also I will say I think I'm done dealing with most 30+ women ha.
 
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Just because a girl isn't interested in you doesn't mean something is wrong with YOU. Just move on and show off those qualities that make you unique to others.

Also I will say I think I'm done dealing with most 30+ women ha.

Mane, preach. As for 30 plus women (Primarily from the 80s) my 80s era bytches aND nikkaz fukked up somewhere to allow these 90s and now 2000s kids start acting like they do now....
 

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Mane, preach. As for 30 plus women (Primarily from the 80s) my 80s era bytches aND nikkaz fukked up somewhere to allow these 90s and now 2000s kids start acting like they do now....

Ha yeah no idea now how these younger generations are behaving.

I say the first thing about rejection and dating is because I've experienced being strung along in dating and it hurts. I've realized time and time again that it is pointless to try and convince someone that you have the capacity to make them happy. You can spend time with others doing it.

Just annoyed because of my two months this this one girl and she is turning 33 today. I'm turning 34 soon as well, but I really have compatibility issues with women closer to my age. They are either low energy, uninteresting, uptight (not meaning sexually just in general), or not fun. This last girl talked to me a lot about work. I struggled to talk to her eventually outside of our first few dates. She hardly knew any similar music or offered to show me what she grew up listening to.

Long story short I wasted time and was annoyed. For what? Someone that had a pretty face but was generally boring and is biological clock is ticking? Why do I need to convince you that I have great traits?

I can say that I didn't avoid the signs I just did not read them well and they were murky. Anyways I'm just irritated but logically speaking from my stoic side, it is futile to try and win someone over.


Also I'm noticing she's trying to win me over with some LIKES the past few days. :camby::trash:
 

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In this game you win some you lose some.

So one of my fave PAAG's female friends have been staying with her at her place for the last week. And I know her love life has come up in conversation as she always retreats into putting up certain hashtags on IG talking about how her friends are the most important people in her life etc.

Last time they tried to spy on me as this chick was wondering why I disappeared during holiday weekends and found out some stuff.

She went cold for 4 days then agreed to meet me again. We talked openly and honestly. And we carried on our thing. This time they've got her trying to wean herself off by having as little communication as possible.

These are chronic single women as well giving 'advice' :rudy:

Being honest these kind of setups have a shelf life, and this has been on going for almost 10 months, enough time where certain feelings have arisen... She told me last week after we woke up together, she wished I was her's.

But if things are coming to a natural close I'd rather end things with her straight, when we decide, not her single friends cock blocking and messing with her head.

They are back off home on Sunday and I can chat to this chick on Monday. I actually like her so don't want to do her dirty or have this end on some bitter note.
 

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Don't make women your goal.


Women are a bi-product of life well lived. Work on yourself first and excel at something, anything. Find a talent you might have and become a master at it. There's 3.2 billion of them out there, your greatness is not dictated by them. As far as interactions with them go...be agendaless be awesome be gone. We pursue that which most eludes us.
 

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Uh. I hate when I start talking to a female online and all Her answers or replies are short as hell. Especially when you hit me up first lol

Me: so what are some of your interests or things you like to do for fun

Her: Chill w/ fam.


Not even going to waste another second.
 

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Brehs, if a chick ghost on ya. Don't try to hit her up seeing where she at, don't send her no angry text/call. Bushes.

AAAAAND

If she hits u up about chillin, u NOW have da power. U can keep her in da bushes or be like "U gotta cook me dinner AND a u owe me a kiss."
 
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