Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I fukked some random. It was totally fun BUT I need to not do this shyt. I've developed a bad streak the past few months :hubie:

I'd really want a relationship but it seem women either wanna fukk me or just be friends.
What age range are you in?
If you're young like me than I feel you, It's been about 2 years since my last real relationship and I'm not liking this single life at all:beli:
 

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What age range are you in?
If you're young like me than I feel you, It's been about 2 years since my last real relationship and I'm not liking this single life at all:beli:

I just turned 34 today mane.

Single life is OK for a while. Definitely I encourage that when you're in your early 20s. In my 30s I want a companion. Not just physical but someone I can talk to and we love each other.

I probably need to find a woman in their late 20s to early 30s who's ready for the next stage in life.
 

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I usually try to curtail texting without first hitting but this blasian chick I'm taking out next week carries the convo and gives long ass eloquent replies. I feel it'd be a insult to just ignore her lol. And our vibes are too aligned, hopefully the attraction is there for both of us this could be a good cuff.
 

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Coli brehs, I know the reason she just wanted to be friends and I know I'm not supposed to care but the whole situation pisses me off and all the games she was playing with me

She's back with her ex.:wow: I saw them hugged up in the hallway, she looked right at me

Apparently he saw us together last Friday and hit her up, :wow:i don't know if this is the truth or not, I think they were probably talking the whole time .

Then later on today we had to get together in the class we had together for the project we worked on to do a "team report" this bytch was getting on my nerves touching me and trying to tell me jokes, smiling in my face. I was just trying to get our work done.Took every fiber of my being not to tell her to fukk off.

She spent two months telling me how much he hurt her, and how she wanted to be with someone who wouldn't cheat and lie to her.

I put in so much work to get this girl and this nikka got her back with some text messages

I know I can't dwell on this shyt and I gotta keep it moving but this shyt just:francis:
 
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She spent two months telling me how much he hurt her, and how she wanted to be with someone who wouldn't cheat and lie to her.

Ouch. In the future, only get strung along by a girl for two minutes (thirty seconds if you really on some HOH) as opposed to sixty days. It sucks being played and words probably won't help you feel better, so I say let this anger teach and prevent you from letting a girl play you like a puppet again in the future. Good luck
 

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man I was, Driving her around and giving her emotional support, giving her back rubs, helped her pick out outfits, and I never even smashed :damn:
 

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Coli brehs, I know the reason she just wanted to be friends and I know I'm not supposed to care but the whole situation pisses me off and all the games she was playing with me

She's back with her ex.:wow: I saw them hugged up in the hallway, she looked right at me

Apparently he saw us together last Friday and hit her up, :wow:i don't know if this is the truth or not, I think they were probably talking the whole time .

Then later on today we had to get together in the class we had together for the project we worked on to do a "team report" this bytch was getting on my nerves touching me and trying to tell me jokes, smiling in my face. I was just trying to get our work done.Took every fiber of my being not to tell her to fukk off.

She spent two months telling me how much he hurt her, and how she wanted to be with someone who wouldn't cheat and lie to her.

I put in so much work to get this girl and this nikka got her back with some text messages

I know I can't dwell on this shyt and I gotta keep it moving but this shyt just:francis:

Here’s some tough love my young G. Why are you surprised? Multiple nikkas in here told you what it was. You know why you’re hurt? You’re hurt because you were hoping we were wrong and she would come around to being into you the way you really want. Which means you lied to us and lied to yourself about bushing her. She was still very much at the forefront of your thoughts. You have way too much invested in this woman emotionally. You’ll ALWAYS lose when you care more than the woman does. Remember that.

You also learned another valuable lesson. What they say doesn’t matter. Words don’t matter. Only actions do. You let her suck you in with those sweet words and you started picturing yourself being her knight in shining armor. You can’t save them so don’t try.

My dude there’s enough game in this thread for you to become the biggest monster in that school. Bar none. The only thing stopping you from achieving your potential is you. Learn the lesson. Truly learn it. Internalize it and you’ll be much better going forward. Fool me once, shame on you...
 

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man I was, Driving her around and giving her emotional support, giving her back rubs, helped her pick out outfits, and I never even smashed :damn:

You needed this experience. I'm not ashamed to admit I've done the same in the past when I was younger and inexperienced. Chick using me to make her ex jealous.

Once you know this though you can shut that shyt down asap.
 

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Be VERY wary of women fresh out of relationships. They’ll dive into a new situation headfirst just to try to rebound from the last man only to go right back to that situation they claimed to never want to be in again. Do your due diligence and take everything she says with a grain of salt.
 

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Be VERY wary of women fresh out of relationships. They’ll dive into a new situation headfirst just to try to rebound from the last man only to go right back to that situation they claimed to never want to be in again. Do your due diligence and take everything she says with a grain of salt.

I say move fast, hit that shyt with the quickness and give her some fo the best dikk she ever had.at least implant some doubt lol. If you just dither around you probs gonna get bushed because their history>>>>>your history.

And yeah actions def speak louder than words. Its been several times where a girl I was in the opening stages of messing with is just like I want to be friends, friendly blah blah...while putting herself in situations that are decidedly unfriendly and before you know it shes naked with her friend. Take all the shyt women say with a grain of salt because they emotions shift like oceans and you could say or do something that sets out the primal urge in her and all that friend bullshyt goes out the window. Its not even hard. Bush chicks wasting your time. If she says she wants to be friends, you don't, and you make a move and she doesn't like it bush. Thats a waste of time. Her simply saying lbf as a "hoe shield" in her mind isn't a cause to bush. its just words.
 

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I say move fast, hit that shyt with the quickness and give her some fo the best dikk she ever had.at least implant some doubt lol. If you just dither around you probs gonna get bushed because their history>>>>>your history.

And yeah actions def speak louder than words. Its been several times where a girl I was in the opening stages of messing with is just like I want to be friends, friendly blah blah...while putting herself in situations that are decidedly unfriendly and before you know it shes naked with her friend. Take all the shyt women say with a grain of salt because they emotions shift like oceans and you could say or do something that sets out the primal urge in her and all that friend bullshyt goes out the window. Its not even hard. Bush chicks wasting your time. If she says she wants to be friends, you don't, and you make a move and she doesn't like it bush. Thats a waste of time. Her simply saying lbf as a "hoe shield" in her mind isn't a cause to bush. its just words.

Oh you’re 100% correct homie. All I’ll say is dikking her down isn’t guaranteed to be enough. My point was if she’s fresh out of a relationship just look to get physical and fukk all that bs she saying about the last nikka.
 

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I just feel like a fool. One night early on after giving this chick emotional support while she was upset about something, she told me I was everything that she wanted in a guy, but she didn't want to date yet because she had a lot going on. I should have seen the signs right then, but I guess I was looking at life through rose colored glasses.
 
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