havoc
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If long-term relationship is what you want, you should pursue women who want the samething.
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havoc
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Nice gem
You probably were too available, always calling/hitting them up and being too nice most likely. Only time a chick said that (to someone else at least) was when I was acting hesitant and didn't make a move to fukk.
Aww shyt now that it's in my head I'm mad at myself 
Breh, my own female cousin clowned me talking about "You didn't fukk a girl that came to your room with no panties you're wet behind the ears."Some of you brehs are very lucky
I had almost a fukking MONTH of chances with this girl, going to her room almost every night, not doing anything and she'd let me touch her but I wouldn't continue. Like I'd lay there, talk and sometimes feel on her thighs or back but didn't actually go in for a kiss.
John Reena
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Man fukk them broads.
Just keep dating until u find a chick who appreciate a good guy.
Don’t change who u are to accommodate birds who not smart enough to latch on to a good guy.
To be honest it subjective and some brehs gonna agree some aren't
What it comes down too is this
U dont need to blow her shyt up that's for damn sure but at same time if ur having a good convo and it last awhile that is perfectly fine too.
U dont need to tell her ur life story either.
There is no such thing as run out of things to talk about for the simple fact if u both connect well its limitless and it can be bout the same thing again just in different details.
If u cant have a decent convo or it cant even last what's point on going on date then. Just a waste of time and money.
I dont see a issue talking long with a girl before date if she is the one keyword she is the one that is making it last long cuz she is obviously interested.
Having said that it cant be a long convo on some simp shyt either talking bout giving her the world on some joe all the things song.
If it's a long convo on idk career, hobbies and traveling are examples that shyt is harmless.
I talked to 1 girl for hours bout diff things in life before date and it made the date even better cuz the anticipation of how great we hit it off.
Had another try to see if I'm on simp shyt and I canceled date cuz that's all she try to figure out bout me
I personally feel if u cant have a decent convo that cant last y bother go on date unless u just trying to hit.
Not gonna waste my time on a female like that when other females deserve a chance instead of her.
Some brehs probably feel little is best talking which isn't technically wrong but at same time if ain't got a roster not bout that life or dont do much in spare time type guy ur gonna be confused to what to do.
Playing hard to get isn't always the best option.
Just wanting a normal convo is perfectly ok before a date later in a week.
But I cant stress dont be on some simp shyt in a convo trying to offer her the world cuz u lose before u even began
Overall it's a matter of preference when it comes down too it
I truly dont believe in u run out of things to talk about if the chemistry is on point cuz convos can branch out to diff areas or extend
Just dont be a simp or sweating her. Let things flow naturally and not blow her shyt up just cuz a long or good convo happened. If she feeling u she gonna be the one to do it too u with the constant contact and convo for u Instead
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calixprynce
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your convos is too boring. you dont stimulate they mind. they dont feel comfortable sharing shyt around you.
either wait 10 years for them to come back and let you play stepdaddy to their 2 kids or change up
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Snoopy Loops
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African_brehda
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Brehs
This girl I'm talking to, very smart chick, we vibe very well, chemistry is there( she admitted it herself)
Buuuuut, sometimes when we're texting, she just goes missing, and I don't double text. Then she hits me up two days later on some I miss you shytthen proceeds to go missing again
Looked on her phone when I met her, and she has A LOT of unread messages from other people, and A LOT of messages coming in, so prolly easy for me to get missing amongst them.
So brehs, what do I do?
a) call her out on that shyt ( which I really want to)
b) ask her to pin our chats so she doesn't miss my messages ( personally think this seems needy)
c) just bush her (Which I really don't want to, she's very cool and seems to have her shyt together)
Brehs, pls advice
Btw, I never text her first again. Feeling ignored gets me heated
Brehs, talk to me
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Brehs, talk to me
I'm sure I answered this a few days ago
you must not be ready for that truth I spit just yet