The concept of a "GOOD WOMAN" is a concept I would like to attempt to shed some light on as I have observed the term being used without any contextualised understanding here.
A woman tends to be more a product of her family upbringing at a younger age.
By sexual maturity she becomes more susceptible to social(peer) pressure and is moulded by what the larger DOMINANT "tribe"/society values as being desirable.
The current white supremacist/anti -black, materialistic driven global landscape we live in does not allow for a conducive environment for a black person , especially a girl/women to have any other ideals besides material driven or emotionally immature notions like "romance" "connection" "it feels right " when choosing a long term partner.
Essentially most women you meet check for how much money you have and how avaliable you are maritally and start moulding their behaviour to suit whatever they need to attract and keep you.
You can have what you consider a "good girl" and when you talk to her ex man he'll tell you she is a vindictive superficial woman. Women mould their behavior towards based on what they know they are gonna get as far as long term commitment and resources. Chances are she perceived he Ex as merely a dikk fling and thus her behaviour was moulded around that.
A lot of guys catch women who have 10-15 years of relationship failures/experiences,an imminent biological clock and social(peer) pressure and stigma of being single whilst her friends have "families". These women can go from being narcissistic self-centred individuals to "family/wifey" orientated almost over night. You can call this "maturing" or you can call it "running out of options and father time catching up" depending on what end of the cynical spectrum you are on.
My point here is that a lot of female behaviour is being interpreted with loosely defined, monolithic and ambiguous concepts/ideals of "Good" "bad" "marriage material" etc when the real underlying motivation behind female behavioural patterns is biological impulses and social/tribe conditioning/pressures, and when it comes to black women these notions have already been retarded or distorted by a white supremacist capitalistic, anti black people/men/women/children/culture society.
If you feel you have a "good woman" I would simply ask you an age old question. WHY DO YOU THINK SHE CHOSE UP ON YOU? (If you factor in her age, looks, previous relationships, kids or none, money/career status etc.)
I'm not asserting no good women exist or that they do. I'm saying that what we define as an intrinsically "good woman" is based on our social upbringing and conditioning (especially from our mothers) and when you see a woman displaying these maternalistic "good" traits, why do you think she's suddenly moulded her behaviour in such a manner since meeting you ?
Is she matured? Or is she making sure that she gets an Alpha provider and protector long term before her looks fall apart in a decade of less?.
Regardless your perspective and level of cynicism or innate optimism when it comes to women/relationships,we should and strive to always be cognizant of the social and biological forces at play that determine the majority or core of a woman's decision making when choosing a partner. We can then interpret these to suit out agenda or life perspective, but the underlying forces at play remain the same.
I hope I'm clear and concise here coz I feel this is a crucial concept as you get more seasoned.
Peace
. Felt like this one needed to be repeated for the one time. Just shoot ya shot and get that shyt off your chest, dont even think about it.
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