Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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DeuceZ
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man I see this first hand..my boy like one of my good female friends and she dont feel him like that so she walks over him (was even messing with another dude behind his back) and I tried to tell him like dude just let the girl go mang but naaah dude still sticking around...the simping hurts me at times but I'm like u a grown man and he's not a bad looking guy I'm like theres many fish in the sea man why u stuck on this girl 
If youre a single guy who lives in DC, Toronto or San Francisco, you have my deepest sympathies
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Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
If you've had the opportunity to either build in this thread since the origin or simply read this thread from the beginning, you have been equipped with more than enough knowledge to understand this game.
One of the biggest problems that men have is adhering to the principles once they've found a woman. They will use all of these tools to get them a woman, but then they subconsciously revert back to their simp behaviors.
Getting a woman is not the goal or end-result. The goal is to be a "man of respect" at all times, and this requires discipline, constant growth and adherence to the principles.
Don't get lax because you think you've found a great woman. If you don't maintain your respect, she can easily turn into a user, abuser, or even worse. Never make a chick believe that she is more vital than the air you breathe. Yes, you may love her... but undoubtedly you can live without her and life goes on.
No woman is worth it!!!!!
Let me repeat that. No woman is worth it!!!!
No woman is worth you compromising your principles or disrespecting yourself. I hear many married men say "Well that's how women get once you're married." No, women get like that because you allow them to disrespect you. Never provide security, only incentive. Security means "no matter what", Incentive means "only if"
And make your word mean something. If you tell a woman you're not going to tolerate a behavior and she still does it, then stand behind your word and carry out the consequence, even if it means breaking up with her. The pain that you will feel will be minuscule in comparison to the headache and depression you will feel for allowing yourself to stay in a relationship where you are not respected in the manner that you should be.
You will be tested. Stay true to what you believe in.
One of the biggest problems that men have is adhering to the principles once they've found a woman. They will use all of these tools to get them a woman, but then they subconsciously revert back to their simp behaviors.
Getting a woman is not the goal or end-result. The goal is to be a "man of respect" at all times, and this requires discipline, constant growth and adherence to the principles.
Don't get lax because you think you've found a great woman. If you don't maintain your respect, she can easily turn into a user, abuser, or even worse. Never make a chick believe that she is more vital than the air you breathe. Yes, you may love her... but undoubtedly you can live without her and life goes on.
No woman is worth it!!!!!
Let me repeat that. No woman is worth it!!!!
No woman is worth you compromising your principles or disrespecting yourself. I hear many married men say "Well that's how women get once you're married." No, women get like that because you allow them to disrespect you. Never provide security, only incentive. Security means "no matter what", Incentive means "only if"
And make your word mean something. If you tell a woman you're not going to tolerate a behavior and she still does it, then stand behind your word and carry out the consequence, even if it means breaking up with her. The pain that you will feel will be minuscule in comparison to the headache and depression you will feel for allowing yourself to stay in a relationship where you are not respected in the manner that you should be.
You will be tested. Stay true to what you believe in.
"Only play when you can afford to lose"
You just hit a breh In the chest with that one
is it worth the sacrifice?
are you putting in more energy than you can afford to spare?
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MBwithadream
All Star
Charm is deceitful and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD will be praised
I'm going through that whole thread thznk goodness I'm single.
All these chicks are blaming the guy why they stepped out, smh wt these whores
Dude B comes to visit. I tell him, "I'm seeing someone, so this is just friendly." The first night he sleeps on the couch. The next night he sleeps on the floor in my room. The next night he sleeps in my bed, and what do you know; the next night we have sex. Should I have resisted more? Yes. Should he not have kept pushing me? Yes. Should the other guy just have accepted the fact that I didn't love him and wasn't excited to be with him? Yes! I think there were three people at fault here
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To be real, sometimes you might just have to drop babygirl and keep it moving and grooving... I'm not saying to definitely do that, but you have to consider it, even with all of the commitment. It's difficult, but if you are exerting extraordinary effort to make it work, more than likely she's not exerting that much effort, which is leading to you chasing her and catering to her to 'make it work.' In other words, you are slowly getting shifted into a butler role and you will find no matter how much you do, and you will end up doing a lot, that something isn't right and your efforts just aren't being appreciated. When a man has to really work to keep a relationship going, it's likely the woman has other plans and interests in mind other than the man she is with. To demonstrate my point, just think of how easy going and how relaxed the relationship was at it's prime. Now I don't know the exact specifics of what the problem is, but if it is you doing a whole lot of work with her having a cold shoulder, then it is exactly how I said it is.