There really needs to be a QLGFDWW (Jr. Edition). The nikka should not be posting in the same thread as most of us, he's not on that level.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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There really needs to be a QLGFDWW (Jr. Edition). The nikka should not be posting in the same thread as most of us, he's not on that level.
I blocked breh a while ago
I couldn't tell if he was trolling or just a super negative guy but either way I had no advice to give him
Wish him the best in his endeavors though
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I blocked breh a while ago
I couldn't tell if he was trolling or just a super negative guy but either way I had no advice to give him
Same. He's been given golden advice many times over for god knows how long, but all he wants to do is complain and wallow in self pity. After you've tried many times to help a guy and they don't wanna help themselves, it's best to just step away for your own sanity. That type of energy is poison and will only drain you.
This.
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Aite, fukk you all.
to me i prefer initiating talking to people in places where i’m doing things i enjoy (gym, sporting event, etc), and starting convo about what we are doing because then I am coming to them as another human if that makes sense thus attraction doesnt matter.
anywhere else if there are no choosing signals or they spark convo then i’m like
this is where being the best version of yourself comes in, because that increases the probability of this.
A friend of mine talked about this. Area of expertise game he called it. This same woman is in my mma class. She'll ask me about technique and form. It's odd cause she'll initiate comic book convos. Probably just being friendly.to me i prefer initiating talking to people in places where i’m doing things i enjoy (gym, sporting event, etc), and starting convo about what we are doing because then I am coming to them as another human if that makes sense thus attraction doesnt matter.
anywhere else if there are no choosing signals or they spark convo then i’m like
this is where being the best version of yourself comes in, because that increases the probability of this.
I'll just look for glances and smiles from other women next time.
A friend of mine talked about this. Area of expertise game he called it. This same woman is in my mma class. She'll ask me about technique and form. It's odd cause she'll initiate comic book convos. Probably just being friendly.
in these scenarios you can flex your intellect/knowledge which is another thin g that attracts women, that most men cant get to show cause they may not pass the looks measure.
its a “slow” burn, but also builds more genuine bonds even if its going to be just FWB (hell look at how coworkers smash).
True indeed. I just want to find a woman to get to know eventually so slow burn works for me. I didn't realize how much toll two back to back relationships take on you emotionally.
How long was each relationship and how much time did you have inbetween them?
imo you need to take a year off and focus on self. Youre going to end up subconsciously rushing to replace what you had and committing to someone not worthy.
when i say take a year/time off im not saying dont talk to women i mean by any means do not enter another relationship.
One was five years the other was like 6 months with a month in between so I already did that. A year sounds good. Trying to do all the things I wanted to do and accomplish.
you need to take time off and reflect on what you like and want, sharpen your tools, and generally improve.
Id do a few months focused ONLY on yourself, then get back in the groove of conversing with women, then then towards the end of it get back into dating, but NO relationships.
A lot of brehs need to listen to the lyrics of this song. We focus on everything other than mastering ourself, when we do that everything else falls in place.