Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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fukked a girl and I probably shouldn’t have. Now I gotta figure out how to tell her I’m not interested in a relationship at the moment...she already texting me about how much she really likes me :snoop:
 

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fukked a girl and I probably shouldn’t have. Now I gotta figure out how to tell her I’m not interested in a relationship at the moment...she already texting me about how much she really likes me :snoop:


Nah son... you know you shouldn't have. You let your dicc take control and now you regretting.

Happens to the best of us.

Matched with this Caribbean Indian chick on Hinge, profile looked decent and she was cute.

Boy, when it came to actually seeing her, looked different from her pics, she was bigger and less cute :francis:

Anyway we continue the date and she invited me back to her hotel. In my mind im like "Just say you got work to do and bounce" but i start thinking with my dicc.

Ended up smashing and i immediately have regrets the next morning cus shes way into me then i am her.

Didn't wanna cut her off straight away to make her feel bad so i told her i was going out on other dates and see how they go.

Haven't messaged her back and neither has she.

Probably thinks i've pursued a futher relationship with one of the "other girls i was going on a date with" :pachaha:

Morally of the story. Stop fuccing chicks you know you don't like like that, especially if they're gonna get attached.
 

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Nah son... you know you shouldn't have. You let your dicc take control and now you regretting.

Happens to the best of us.

Matched with this Caribbean Indian chick on Hinge, profile looked decent and she was cute.

Boy, when it came to actually seeing her, looked different from her pics, she was bigger and less cute :francis:

Anyway we continue the date and she invited me back to her hotel. In my mind im like "Just say you got work to do and bounce" but i start thinking with my dicc.

Ended up smashing and i immediately have regrets the next morning cus shes way into me then i am her.

Didn't wanna cut her off straight away to make her feel bad so i told her i was going out on other dates and see how they go.

Haven't messaged her back and neither has she.

Probably thinks i've pursued a futher relationship with one of the "other girls i was going on a date with" :pachaha:

Morally of the story. Stop fuccing chicks you know you don't like like that, especially if they're gonna get attached.
Ya, chick is cute though I'm not gonna lie. I just know i'ma cheat on anyone that tries to get me in to a relationship rn lol. Its a hot boy summer. Gonna just tell her straight up, we can chill cuz I actually do enjoy her company, but I don't want to cuff at this period in time.
 

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Ya, chick is cute though I'm not gonna lie. I just know i'ma cheat on anyone that tries to get me in to a relationship rn lol. Its a hot boy summer. Gonna just tell her straight up, we can chill cuz I actually do enjoy her company, but I don't want to cuff at this period in time.
Then why not just say. "Hey, I'm sorry I'm not ready for this."
 

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Then why not just say. "Hey, I'm sorry I'm not ready for this."
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I know, I know
 

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Dealing with some women in they 30s currently. They look good but mentally its like they still stuck in they 20s its really annoying. Like I have this one chick who I don't text back immediately and she will get aggy about it.
 

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High Interest Only From Now

I don't have it in me anymore to be pursuing half hearted half interested women.
It's so energy draining, now when I feel slight resistance I just pull back and chill.

It really shouldn't be hard.
I need to keep reminding myself of all the women that have made clear they were interested and wanted to link.

Too busy to be jumping through hoops for cooch.
 

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High Interest Only From Now

I don't have it in me anymore to be pursuing half hearted half interested women.
It's so energy draining, now when I feel slight resistance I just pull back and chill.

It really shouldn't be hard.
I need to keep reminding myself of all the women that have made clear they were interested and wanted to link.

Too busy to be jumping through hoops for cooch.
Nor should you have to. No one should. But this is the nonsense.
 

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you need to take time off and reflect on what you like and want, sharpen your tools, and generally improve.

Id do a few months focused ONLY on yourself, then get back in the groove of conversing with women, then then towards the end of it get back into dating, but NO relationships.
Dapped and repped

so many ppl jump from relationship to relationship and bring toxic baggage with them

They also don’t give time to themselves and resent they new partners quickly when it was THEM that didn’t take any time and space for themselves when they had the chance.
 

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High Interest Only From Now

I don't have it in me anymore to be pursuing half hearted half interested women.
It's so energy draining, now when I feel slight resistance I just pull back and chill.

It really shouldn't be hard.
I need to keep reminding myself of all the women that have made clear they were interested and wanted to link.

Too busy to be jumping through hoops for cooch.

That's the only way. I don't deal with lukewarm chicks at all.
 

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That's the only way. I don't deal with lukewarm chicks at all.

Breh...It's just the I like you, but I still want YOU to chase me around attitude that is just :mjtf:

Example, I make plans to link with a chick I have linked up with a few times before.
I tell her to let me know what day she is free, as she said she was going to be busy this weekend so we should link in the week....cool.

She messages me tonight talking bout I didn't hear from you, So I didn't know if you still wanted to link :gucci:Bytch you told me YOU was going to tell me what day you was free, you want me to check in with you everyday to check if your free??:camby:
 

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Breh...It's just the I like you, but I still want YOU to chase me around attitude that is just :mjtf:

Example, I make plans to link with a chick I have linked up with a few times before.
I tell her to let me know what day she is free, as she said she was going to be busy this weekend so we should link in the week....cool.

She messages me tonight talking bout I didn't hear from you, So I didn't know if you still wanted to link :gucci:Bytch you told me YOU was going to tell me what day you was free, you want me to check in with you everyday to check if your free??:camby:

nah you set the date and at most be like "lets do Monday, let me know if that works". Never toss the ball to her for her to decide what to do with it
 

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Breh...It's just the I like you, but I still want YOU to chase me around attitude that is just :mjtf:

Example, I make plans to link with a chick I have linked up with a few times before.
I tell her to let me know what day she is free, as she said she was going to be busy this weekend so we should link in the week....cool.

She messages me tonight talking bout I didn't hear from you, So I didn't know if you still wanted to link :gucci:Bytch you told me YOU was going to tell me what day you was free, you want me to check in with you everyday to check if your free??:camby:

I can already tell when they're pulling that bullshyt so I immediately withdraw and leave them to it. I'm a grown ass man I'm not here to play games or feed their little egos.
 
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